This week we had Madhu accepting her marriage with Raju! They had their own private ceremony which was more beautiful n more touching than the actual wedding which was a shocker to Madhu.
So guys
Let us celebrate the occasion with wine and sweet words' - Plautus (it is Easter after all!)
Our Rajbala as a couple are:
"He is the half part of a blessed man,
Left to be finished by such as she;
And she a fair divided excellence,
Whose fullness of perfection lies in him. " (Shakespeare)
Our couple suits these lines of bard so very well! He is only half man, as he is still a boy and that growth or change will happen because of her! And she might be excellent but her perfection would be complete only with him! Felt these lines suited Rajbala the best!
But marriage is not just a ceremony forced on two individuals. It has to be accepted by the said individuals. In our couple Raju in his simplistic way accepted the wedding right from the first day not knowing its implications in it. He just sees it as a way of getting his own gudiya to play with. It was only the adult madhu who was cheated during her wedding by the swapping of the groom. She is the one who ended up with a mentally challenged stranger whom she has never seen before. It was such a shocker! She does not accept the marriage (she does belong to today's generation) and even tries to leave the house. But her compassionate heart couldn't allow her to abandon the innocent Raju. So she does come back. She tries to find out Raju's family and take him back. Finding out that he was in an orphanage that was willing to take him back, she again tries to let him go. But by now Raju is attached to his gudiya, so he runs after her. Searching for Raju in the streets of Mumbai, madhu must have realized she can't just let him go now. So when Abhay tries to make a joker out of Raju in his birthday party, instead of feeling embarrassed we saw sherni madhu who burst out in defence of her husband. The girl who was not keen to even accept this mockery of marriage, in open party announced that Raju kaise bhi ho, lekin mera pati'! no one has any right to laugh at my pati. Abhay's plan did backfire!
We saw beautiful segment in the private marriage ceremony between madhu and raju. Raju might be mentally challenged, but he is one observant and sensitive guy. He knows that his gudiya is disturbed so the tender way he cares for her and makes her go to sleep by caressing her forehead was so beautiful. Marriage is not just union of two bodies but hearts too! These two are really connected in that way! This girl who never had anyone tell one comforting word (I will ignore dolly chachi for she created more problem than comfort), suddenly has her innocent pati trying to comfort her! Her tears were a mix of pain, love and happiness! DVD were so beautiful in that scene!
Shakespeare was the one who said
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.
(Sonnet 116)
In renaissance times, true' stands not for intellect but faithful spirits' and relates to fidelity'. If we see Raju is already possessive of his gudiya and he will not even think of letting her go. His love for his hero is going to fail in front of his love for his gudiya. When that happens, actual maza will start. To madhu also, what started as simple compassionate gesture has now changed to love and care to her husband. And their love has to be tested, and then only it will grow. The pure love will change to various hues and shades. We need different characters to test this love and it is going to be one hectic ride!
So lets get on this love ride and enjoy it to its fullest!
Let us celebrate the occasion with wine and sweet words'!!!
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