Originally posted by: bingyy
@akashavani : i can say what is not love ,will that be okay ?😆
before that i will say i very much love & respect ur pov as u put things beautifully written ,so i read ur posts ,but certain points i dont agree like shloke loves astha or shloke is doing it for some reasons ,things like that but we all have different povs like u said & that is quite good as u said different dimensions r needed ,i pretty much like u for respecting my pov
now for the love point , shloke hurt astha brutally & avenged her brutally ,abused her emotionally for a long time for no real or valid fault of astha & he insulted her ,her family ,her upbringing time & time again ,do u think a person in love would do such things again & again & intentionally many times ???nope ,we do not hurt the people we love intentionally like that again & again ,shloke did not beat astha like NA ,but he pretty much abused her emotionally since SR episode ,what can justify that ???he wanted to ruin astha's life when in sr he said she will remain married for world but will not have any husband's love & till swati died he maintained that ,did shloke ever respect astha ???did shloke not insulted her & her family worst possible way many many times ???not just once ,do we do that to people we love like that again & again ??u r saying there r reasons for those ,lets see what they show ,but so far they didnt show anything that can say oh he is doing that to save astha ,nope ,i didnt feel that
i hope what u r saying turns out to be true & that they can justify shloke's actions towards astha otherwise i dont see love in those actions of his
he didnt even bother to argue with NA yesterday when he refused to go to police ,he went to look for astha when NA gave green signal to look for astha ,yes he defended astha infront of anjalui & NA that astha doesnt lie ,but after a longgg time he realized that astha does not lie like that & he defended her for the first time i guess after SR episode ,correct me if i m wrong ,he didnt defend her before or even when aditi accused astha ,he didnt believe astha & instead said she had bad upbringing thats why she didnt apologize to aditi dil se ,all these things does not go well with love word ,atleast thats what i think
he said sorry & asked for her forgiveness for not trusting swati ,but what he did to swati was nothing than what he did to astha ,it was much much worse ,if he is feeling guilty for swati now for not trusting ,what should he have done for astha if he really loved her ???????wouldnt the guilt have killed him by now ???he doesnt realize what he did to astha so how can i say he loves astha ???he needs astha for sure now that swati is gone ,he will need astha more but dear love & need r different at this point ,astha loves shloke selflessly but does she need him like shloke needs astha ,nope ,i dont think so ,she can survive without shloke as she is much strong than shloke
i will say now shloke will love astha since swati is no more ,not that he loved astha before ,yes he has care for her ,he doesnt hate her like before ,he has some sort of attachments feelings for her since she is living with him for sometime & he is getting to know what a gem she is ,but thats not love ,he never did hurt swati or never would have hurt swati like he did to astha so far
like i said the people we love we dont hurt like this brutally again & again or we dont insult them like this again & again