Which one to be blamed ---- Jealousy or its cause

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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is very interesting to note that great parallels can be drawn between our 16th century historical romance, Jodha Akbar' and William Shakespeare's most famous drama Othello', also written in the 16th century.

Well, the latter may purely be a work of fiction and the former drawn from true historical facts, but still at least partly, Jodha Akbar remains a work of imagination adapted for entertainment and the credibility of the romantic plot will always remain a topic for discussion.

Well, that's a different subject. Now to delve upon the similarities between the two dramas --- it is an incidental revelation that both deal with race. Othello, the black protagonist faces constant racism from other characters, especially when he marries Desdemona, a privileged white woman. So does Jodha. As a Hindu she faces certain hardships from certain characters in Jallal's court. Othello's suspicion on his wife, Desdemona is instigated by Iago and Akbar's suspicion on his wife, Jodha is created by Maham Anga. It's Iago who insinuates that Cassio and Desdemona are having an affair, and here it's Mahamanga who does the repulsive act, although she knows that Jodha is meeting none other than her own brother. This apart, what I'm interested in here is to focus on the jealousy and suspicion that is nurtured in the minds of Akbar or Othello. Is it or not justifiable?

When a person loves another profoundly and discovers that the loved person is betraying his/her love, then certainly there is room for wrath to the extent that all hell can be let loose. The loved person does not reveal the truth even when questioned, is that not sufficient reason to upset the emotion of the person who is in love? We hear Jodha continuously justify her action by saying that Akbar must have trusted her integrity and love for him. But, when he has beheld with his own eyes Jodha going out in disguise in the dark of night, is he not justified in charging her with treason?

Well, it has been the argument of many critics of Othello that obsessive jealousy has been the cause of destruction of precious relationships. It is true, but looking at it from a psychological perspective, I, personally, am of the opinion that secrets when not revealed to one who loves and trusts you can equally be the cause of warping a romantic relationship, which is what happens in Jodha Akbar. In Othello too, Othello is not able to see in person the man who meets his wife and the same happens in Jodha Akbar. But these women mask the truth out of their own fear. And the fear to speak out the truth can also grow from the fact that these women do not have sufficient trust in the men they love. Infidelity can actually make jealousy justifiable. What I really wish to say is for trust to be established between two persons, secrets must not exist. So, which is to be blamed, jealousy or its cause?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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@thisisforyou, some of us have been saying this since the beginning of this track - and even now are saying that this should not be overlooked - that this also needs to be a part of the picture - but there seems to be a general perspective that 'Heroine of hindi serial can do no wrong and is always right' - how does one break this kind of psychology????
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good Post !!! 👍🏼
I blame cause. I blame secrets in a relationship. I blame the person who did not trust their partner enough to reveal these secrets, directly or indirectly. If you give cause for jealousy, then you also give up your right to play a victim when that jealousy brings in tensions in your relationship or breaks your relationships.
Give Trust, Get Trust
Give Love, Get Love
No one way traffic in any relationship 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JeannieJA

Good Post !!! 👍🏼

I blame cause. I blame secrets in a relationship. I blame the person who did not trust their partner enough to reveal these secrets, directly or indirectly. If you give cause for jealousy, then you also give up your right to play a victim when that jealousy brings in tensions in your relationship or breaks your relationships.
Give Trust, Get Trust
Give Love, Get Love
No one way traffic in any relationship 😆



Jeannie I agree with all your points except the last - Give Love, Get Love.


Let me explain myself - In a marriage there are 2 ppl - hence the Give Trust, Get trust holds.

But when it comes to Love I am a Coelho bhakt - I believe that Love is an act of faith and not an exchange - and my TE is on this path already - all I want to see is Jodha on this path - And with EK's Jodha I know it is too much to hope for - yet I still have hope.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: adianasr



Jeannie I agree with all your points except the last - Give Love, Get Love.


Let me explain myself - In a marriage there are 2 ppl - hence the Give Trust, Get trust holds.

But when it comes to Love I am a Coelho bhakt - I believe that Love is an act of faith and not an exchange - and my TE is on this path already - all I want to see is Jodha on this path - And with EK's Jodha I know it is too much to hope for - yet I still have hope.


I Agree with you partly too Adia 😆 but When I say Give Love, Get Love... I am saying it in general and for all relationships. Be it your parents, brothers, sisters, kids, spouses, even your pets when you give love there is always a part of you that expects to be loved back. When you are giving love, you are actually striving with all your being to be loved back too. Everybody wants that 😆Our TE wants that too. Love is an act of faith Yes but it becomes all the more sweeter when exchanged 😃 One sided Love given with however much faith does start hurting at some point or the other. That's what I believe in at least 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JeannieJA


I Agree with you partly too Adia 😆 but When I say Give Love, Get Love... I am saying it in general and for all relationships. Be it your parents, brothers, sisters, kids, spouses, even your pets when you give love there is always a part of you that expects to be loved back. When you are giving love, you are actually striving with all your being to be loved back too. Everybody wants that 😆Our TE wants that too. Love is an act of faith Yes but it becomes all the more sweeter when exchanged 😃 One sided Love given with however much faith does start hurting at some point or the other. That's what I believe in at least 😊


True and I want that for TE too!!!😉 Though I wonder if EK is capable of presenting something like it!!!😆

Oh and may I say I absolutely adore the quote on feminism 😃👏
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Originally posted by: adianasr


True and I want that for TE too!!!😉 Though I wonder if EK is capable of presenting something like it!!!😆

Oh and may I say I absolutely adore the quote on feminism 😃👏


I also like alot the quote on feminism, very true indeed. 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful post. Yes love and trust go hand in hand and you need to express love and should not hold secrets, it only harms the relationship.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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True and I want that for TE too!!!😉 Though I wonder if EK is capable of presenting something like it!!!😆

Oh and may I say I absolutely adore the quote on feminism 😃👏

I also like alot the quote on feminism, very true indeed. 👏

We all want that for TE Adia, EK willing we might get it someday 😃
Thank you Adia & Fatma, That quote on feminism needs to be there 😉 Then I wont get irritated reading some views 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very Gud post.
I vote for cause because without cause there is no jealousy here and without action there is no reaction either.

There are no hard n fast rules for relationships. It depends on the people in it and their mentalities. In this serials case, jodha cud hv taken sometime to think abt the problem and then tell to jalal. This i wud hv agreed. But the fact tat jodha truly thot to hide this from her hubby for a looong time is something I couldn't agree and support. Especially wen u hv a hubby who dotes on u n does everything to make u happy going as far as to forgive a person who committed treason.

And there was no reason for her to fear in this case. When she was nt even close to Jalal she went ahead and met sharif n even accepted it boldly in front of everyone (salima, jalal himself). But the reason now tat she s afraid of consequences for meeting a traitor is bull shit.

She never bogged down In front of jalal till now and tat fear reason doesn't hold for this case.

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