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Burns n Trolls

@shahsb_26

Stunner

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Posted: 11 years ago

So.. today was something called learning from experience based episode..!!

She tried to be normal by just making sure everything remains clean and perfect like he wants it.. so . and he tolerates... stupidity.. of putting air freshener, without any complains..!!

Both have the reasons of their own.. something they learned from yesterday..!!!

She doesn't want him to get angry on her...!! and he doesn't want her to run away after being upset..!!

So... that's what you call adjustment???

Is changing each other or yourself very important in love???

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Manoshono

@Manoshono

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Posted: 11 years ago

Sejal it's really hard to put it together when you are specifically talking about RagNa who are this poles apart. Adjustments, changes comes in gradually and naturally. The way you are right now, you will probably not be the same after couple more years. You don't have to bring in the change into any relationship, it comes automatically. Time is the main factor here which will allow both of them to see one another's likes, dislikes, needs, requirements. And this what will bring the change in them. This what we call maturity which comes as you age and as you experience your life with challenges.

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Mehr

@mehr05

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 11 years ago

that's a tough question you've asked Sejal!

hmmm, i'll ponder of it.

Cupid hasn't listed me in his scroll yet. 😆

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Burns n Trolls

@shahsb_26

Stunner

+ 9

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Manoshono
Sejal it's really hard to put it together when you are specifically talking about RagNa who are this poles apart. Adjustments, changes comes in gradually and naturally. The way you are right now, you will probably not be the same after couple more years. You don't have to bring in the change into any relationship, it comes automatically. Time is the main factor here which will allow both of them to see one another's likes, dislikes, needs, requirements. And this what will bring the change in them. This what we call maturity which comes as you age and as you experience your life with challenges.

Anum.. so that's my whole point.. why are these two consciously changing themselves..!!

It seems to be like putting in effort.. to fit in together.. in proper relationship..!!

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Nandini Swarna

@nandinidavid96

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

Changing each other or yourselves is not important in love but it is needed till the two people involved develop some understanding.

For two people who are radically different from each other to live under one roof takes some adjustment at least in the initial years...accommodating each others likes, dislikes and habits and this adjustment comes automatically !!

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Manoshono

@Manoshono

Sparkler

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Anum.. so that's my whole point.. why are these two consciously changing themselves..!!

It seems to be like putting in effort.. to fit in together.. in proper relationship..!!

Testing their skills probably 😆
Na! I think it's probably their idea of showing gesture towards each other. Who doesn't want to feel the importance? It's a way of showing that their likes and dislikes are important to one another so they are preparing themselves to adjust in a possible change.

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Esha

@esha143

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: nandinidavid96
Changing each other or yourselves is not important in love but it is needed till the two people involved develop some understanding.

For two people who are radically different from each other to live under one roof takes some adjustment at least in the initial years...accommodating each others likes, dislikes and habits and this adjustment comes automatically !!

Very true...We hear people say that if you love someone there's no need to change him/her/yourself ...maybe its true...but if you're married or living together...there's bound to be some adjustments on your part or your partner's...No two people are alike totally...they'll have atleast some difference in any of the many factors that demand adjustment on others' part if you want your love to thrive and your life to be peaceful and lively.It's not a bad thing to adjust or change one's habits according to your partner's...but yes You shouldn't loose yourself completely in the process...Changing your habits doesn't define you...because habits are not a reflection of who you are...they just show your upbringing or your way of living etc...being yourself under any circumstance...that's what defines you.

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Nandini Swarna

@nandinidavid96

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: esha143

Very true...We hear people say that if you love someone there's no need to change him/her/yourself ...maybe its true...but if you're married or living together...there's bound to be some adjustments on your part or your partner's...No two people are alike totally...they'll have atleast some difference in any of the many factors that demand adjustment on others' part if you want your love to thrive and your life to be peaceful and lively.It's not a bad thing to adjust or change one's habits according to your partner's...but yes You shouldn't loose yourself completely in the process...Changing your habits doesn't define you...because habits are not a reflection of who you are...they just show your upbringing or your way of living etc...being yourself under any circumstance...that's what defines you.

@ Bold - lovely lines Esha, completely agree with you !

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tvfiction

@tvfiction

Explorer

Posted: 11 years ago

awww <3

Raghav and kalpana make such a romantic yet realistic couple <3 <3

I really, genuinely, irrevocably and unconditionally LOVE them!

For me they are so real it's not even funny. I have cried, i have smiled, i have laughed with them,

I have hated, i have got angry, i have got upset along with themm

and above all, i have fallen in love them. <3 <3😊

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leelu

@leelu0001

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

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we have to adjust to some extent, I am married now n when sometimes I think of my earlier habits I am shocked that they were my own habits once upon a time

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