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As My last topic was closed by the Mods reason being offensive tone and bashing and coz the other fan group felt offended.I would like to apologize as people find My tone in the post offensive.😳Maybe It was as I posted it in anger and being hurt...But I want to know how can repetitive bashing/criticism of an actress in noble and polite language(as it does not violate the IF COC)Is fair and tolerated espcially when that constructive criticism includes her personal life and its used as their BASE to bash/criticize her and it is repeatedly used as weapon to target her!!If the Rajat fan group is hurt just bcoz I being hurt openly given My view in a mocking and offensive tone,The Pari fans are more hurt as This time the targetting repeatedly mentions and drags her personal life in the topic.Had they just bashed/criticized her acting No one was there to get offended,My point is They don't have right to include personal life of an actress saying She is not comfy as She is married giving reasons of her in-laws,husband,etc,Openly Her personal life is being dragged in the topic always in a pathetic way but In a polite language.sorry but you cannot name this as criticism,This is bashing that always happens from that side.Had anyone dragged a word about Rajat's personal life,I know his fans would have taken the forum on their heads naming it as bashing and telling the person on other end that discussing or dragging the personal life in between is against the rules.But when They say about Pari in a similar term,It becomes criticism and it is very well allowed...How fair is all this now?!Bcoz of these behaviour Many Paridhi fans have already left the forum.Weren't They all offended as well.But the mods only reacts when I use offensive language.Bitter Things said with coating of sweet sugar in it doesn't make them digestable to the ears.Pari fans were equally offended but no Serious warning is ever given to the other fangroup bcoz in Mods language That was polite criticism.And What I did was bashing.Well It indeed was as I lost the last straw of patience when I wrote that post...!!My point is simple stop dragging her personal life in between to criticize her acting or her comfort level with her co-star(This two things can be done keeping the personal life away too),The comfort level didn't come along that poor with her alone,RT was equally discomforted there.If both the leads are visibly uncomfortable with each other's proximity,How is the other fan group making posts saying that Pari should be replaced as She is uncomfortable reason her being married,her inlaws and family have problem with her intimate or close proximity scenes,Now This is the thing bcoz She is a woman and She is married,The whole blame is openly given to her with words wrapped in polite manner,bitter meanings and namely call it as criticism.If I say Pari and Rajat are not getting along well with each other (at the current moment,as They have given close scenes before)and thats the reason Paridhi is so uncomfortable and so is Rajat... which is very much visible... They both are uncomfortable doing close scenes with each other now...So The point is equal as both are in discomfort,then the one-sided criticism on this same physical proximity should be stopped ASAP...It don't even make any sense...And as it is making the forum atmosphere negative...Still People will continue this dragging of her personal life everywhere and bash/criticize only her.😳When very much the reason of discomfort can be that They don't get along well and are not comfortable with the other...But even the reason of discomfort is given to her personal family issues!!Pari is all along dragged in the comfort matter whereas RT is not even mentioned in these posts...Isn't this hurting the Paridhi and The PariJat/Akdha fangroup,Yes They are hurt but no serious action will be taken by Mods as the other fan group is saying it in a polite manner ALWAYS and UN-NECASSARILY but bcoz it is in polite language,It is declared as constructive criticism.This type of unnecessary bashing of female lead every now and then has not only offended Pari fans,Many True PariJat fans like me too already left the forum or visit only in some posts.Isn't that unfair to them now or aren't they getting offended Mods with this type of criticism which is polluting the forum atmosphere and making it all negative from the peaceful that It once was!!I repeat,I'm really hurt at the moment with this biasedness and a one sided atmosphere in the forum...Rajat was equally and I Say VISIBLY in discomfort as much as Pari,So why the unneccasary bashing of Pari alone and negative atmosphere in forum just from one side always...Isn't all this totally uncalled for??!Even making posts saying that replace the female lead...and giving reasons of her discomfort made by themselves(based on articles) dragging her personal life in a cheap way??!Is all this fair enough Mods,I need answers Now...!!
If people really agree with My point given in the most decent language as I could make it,Hit the like button and plz comment giving your view on this matter as it is really needed.
P.S.:- To Mods,I don't know If such post is allowed or not but I felt the need to put forward the view of Paridhi and Akdha/PariJat fangroup here too,and the biasedness going on here...I tried to be as polite and gentle as I can and put forward My view...If anyone is hurt this time too,Then I'm sorry...I just think that a Peace Treaty is needed for this forum now to resolve things out between the three fangroups of Rajat,Paridhi and PariJat...I hope and Its My request to Mods not to shut down this topic,And go through the views of members here...And take a Healthy Unbiased decision for the peace and mental welfare of all the members here.I for once just want the Old Happy Jodha Akbar forum back in which everyone can freely stay peacefully and friendly enough with each other and In which I was totally in love with till just two nights back...😳
If people really agree with My point given in the most decent language as I could make it,Hit the like button and plz comment giving your view on this matter as it is really needed.
P.S.:- To Mods,I don't know If such post is allowed or not but I felt the need to put forward the view of Paridhi and Akdha/PariJat fangroup here too,and the biasedness going on here...I tried to be as polite and gentle as I can and put forward My view...If anyone is hurt this time too,Then I'm sorry...I just think that a Peace Treaty is needed for this forum now to resolve things out between the three fangroups of Rajat,Paridhi and PariJat...I hope and Its My request to Mods not to shut down this topic,And go through the views of members here...And take a Healthy Unbiased decision for the peace and mental welfare of all the members here.I for once just want the Old Happy Jodha Akbar forum back in which everyone can freely stay peacefully and friendly enough with each other and In which I was totally in love with till just two nights back...😳
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