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Posted: 11 years ago
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Adi is a hopeless case... Raman must try to understand the same... He must move on... Even after knowing that irrreparable damage has been done to him, he's still lingering on to that boy.
Though its almost obvious that he'll blast on Ishu, it will be disappointing for us to see the same. He must refrain from letting out his anger on Ishu. Ishu is not responsible for his past. Why should she suffer???

Still, no expectations... Whatever we are going to get must be taken as bonus...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Poor guy...Stucked in between!

I wish Raman give some space to Adi and vice versa...Right now hez a spoiled brat...whatever Raman do seems offence to him...So better, Raman backs himself from talking to Adi!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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As usual aimf, a great post with thought-provoking points.
So here is my two cents worth:

Definitely Raman is in a Damned if he does, Damned if he doesn't situation

So if Raman is centred and thinking straight (which I doubt he is because this is an awkward and stressful situation and there are 3 rats there to trigger him) he would realize that he can't control anyone's reaction

  • Ashgun are going to react negatively whether he plays holi or not
  • If he does play holi then the narcissist Shagun will be slighted because Raman has moved on and isn't still mad and pining about/for her. So she will poison Adi at the party or at least after and definitely if Ashok further taunts her about it
  • If he doesn't play holi then Ruhi might be hurt although Ishita would manage that. Adi has walked in waiting to taunt him anyway so he will do it
  • So, I think he should do what is right for his family and his own happiness. He isn't about to do it for Ishita yet because that pie is still cooking but he may play along for the family. then he can deal with whatever the consequences
  • In fact he would best not to strategize anything - he should just do whatever he does in the moment and let others do what they do and deal with the fall out later. Whatever they do can't be worse then what they have done already.
  • He should defintely NOt do anything to show Shagun or Ashok anything - that's a downward spiral

There is a posiibility that he may not blow up at Ishita because:

    • he is a Corporate sponsor and has an image to maintain
    • whether he has said sorry to Ishita for the recent blow-up or not, he has recognized what she has done. In either case she hasn't done anything wrong - He never told her Adi was going to be there (although Raman does have a slight problem basing his reaction on facts)
    • He will be careful being rude in front of Simmi and Parmeet as well

Regardless, LOL lets see my reaction after the epi!!!

Edited by eternalasha - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#14
Wonderful points raised by all.

@asha. Adi is Raman's achilles heels. He is moulded in Apshagun's value systems, and in a way has the same effect on Raman that Shagun herself once did. I will write more on this after watching today's epi.

Thanks all.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Roman and Aadi . Father and son very complicated relationship . Ramen loves Aadi but he doesn't know that love for Adi is now his obsession . There is fine line between obsession and love .The pain of wanting someone who doesn't feel the same way can be excruciating.. It can make you feel like the world has slipped out from under your feet.

The saddest and most amazing part to these one-way love obsessions is how willing people are to accept so little in return. It isn't the beloved who is treating you badly ,it is you who is treating you badly by hanging around and moping after someone who isn't available. It's not uncommon for parent to justify their remarriage to their children in fact it's needed . Ramen shouldn't hesitate to play HOLI with Ruhi and Ishita . He needs to treat Inshita as mother of his daughter and enjoy the movement. Aadi will be negative with or without Ishita he just need another excuse or he will find something else to blame Ramen .Ramen needs to move on, away from Ashok and Shagun .Ramen has another child he should play HOLI for her happiness and not chase something is impossible to get right at this time .
Its time for Ramen to do what he wants to do to move on with his life .

Ishita's obsession for Ruhi has turn into very meaningful relationship . She is very nurturing and loving mother . She is strong and determined to do things she approves of.. At this time Ramen is not able of handling Aadi and needs help ..Raman will never give up Aadi and he shouldn't but he shouldn't ignore Ruhi and her happiness , and Ruhi's happiness is Ishita Mom .

PS
actor who plays Aadi looks like Ramen. but not a good actor .he is force to overact for his age . Director needs to tone it down .
stubble look vs clean look? I am not sure which one I like . His arrogance is more convincing in stubble look .
Ishita's wardrobe need attention. They need better seamstress to stitch her blouses .

@ aimf . I am sure by now you have seen today's episode , I an egar to read you POV .
Edited by Heema22 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post Heema22

I love the "The saddest and most amazing part to these one-way love obsessions is how willing people are to accept so little in return" ...that is just so sad but true

Ditto on "@ aimf . I am sure by now you have seen today's episode , I an egar to read you POV"
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ Heema

I always love hearing from you.

Great post, and your point about the obsession is right on. I wrote about this very thing today, and you will find it at this link:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ye-hai-mohabbatein/3965192/a-son-called-sun

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