Insides of a criminal's parents' mind

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Often it's seen that in police station and in court the parents of the criminal support their son/daughter even if knowing the truth. In case of Sanchi's case the whole Kabra family knows regarding the video. They definitely know what their son has done to deserve such a luck. Still they are supporting him.

Similarly in Nirbhaya case, I have heard that the parents of the culprits even claimed that their innocent boys were in Bihar/Jharkhand with them when the incident occurred.

Well it is difficult to imagine ourselves in that situation. However what you people thing, a normal parents would do under such condition? Would you be like Kabra or his parents?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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even in Mumbai case similar thing happen one off culprit mother help him to run away 😡but Police find him

this is reality...people are like this Kabra family never accept their own kid made mistake or being culprit


well Kabra family linking Sanchi's past which was quite mainly their own son's Saurabh who always lie...Kabra mom dad blind faith on him...


Both are ignoring facts feels Sa deliberately fasao their innocent kid...


both Kabra parents won't believe until they see their ladala's kartoo in front of their eyes.


or worst case If similar thing not entirely but at least attempt happen with their own daughter where other party accuse them 🤔


Kabra's are Duplicate of Ira Sa and may be Alok too
Edited by blushing - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Debbie,
I could never believe there are/ will be parents like Kabras , the way they are being shown. Its just plain disgusting. One reason to abhor their presence even on the TV screen , more than anything.
Am' much more shocked to read this now, that such mentalities are indeed there in real too 😲
Coming to the portrayal of the entire Kabra clan in the show, as disgusting the parents and the younger son are, am' failing to see any sort of sense in the elder son too ( who is being shown as the new Hero ).
If I were an off spring to such parents ( the thought itself is 🤢 ), I would detest such mind sets, can never have a least bit of sympathy or emotions for their taking the side of a R****t son, in spite of witnessing the truth in front of their eyes.
Contrary to how the elder son is behaving, I would behave in a very radical / revolutionary way !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think usually they will be like Kabra's parents only. Infact even when they know that their son did commit the crime, they will never accept it. They may chide him in private but still they will defend him in public and try to save him from any sort of punishment. Thats what happens in normal cases.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i was wondering if samples like sanchi n saurabh r the byproducts of their own genes, ie their parents? If so, how come they have great siblings like shiv n vivek?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Debbiee

i was wondering if samples like sanchi n saurabh r the byproducts of their own genes, ie their parents? If so, how come they have great siblings like shiv n vivek?



it happens...😛 In real life many siblings look wise nature wise poles part.😛


Well here in BV case both parents have blind love for younger kid...i.e. Sa and Sau. both kids are over pampered spoiled arrogant. Shiv Vivek get only good gens from parents.

Plus Shiv is not Ira Alok's biological son 😆 his parents are good 😆 not like Ira Alok ke dup 😆

you can't always blame parents for kid's bad behavior just like parents can't take entire credit for kid being good behavior too. 😛




In film this has been glorify from ages many famous movies basic plot is this one is criminal other one is in Police 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Honestly I didn't mind Kabras hoping for their son not be punished even after truth was revealed. It is natural tendency for parents to sympathise with their child even if he is wrong.
But what is upsetting is that they are choosing to overlook facts to the extent of taking revenge from Saanchi. When they clearly know that their son is not innocent. Had he been, then they would have appealed to higher courts n not just done stupid cheap acts of defaming Sa.

This only shows that their mentality is to dominate n control. Just like Saurabh's. Hence he also never repented for his crime.

Such society is responsible for crimes like rape, where the victim who is already weak (emotionally) is dominated while the rapist who is hard to control is feared.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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To tell the truth, we do not know what is inside of a criminal's parent's mind - unless of course, they are themselves involved in criminal activities. In TV/film land, things are shown differently - just to show contrast of black and white- in real world, things are quite different. If the parents are not themselves criminal - I think - their first reaction would be disbelief (thinking that their child has been wrongly accused is natural), anger etc. When it is clear that the crime was actually committed by their child - still most parents will want to save him/her or to get a chance for him/her to reform - ultimately there will be a sense of grief and helplessness.
It is easy to write ideal things - but we do not know how we will behave ourselves in such a situation. Some reactions are unpredictable, it is a part of our personality, that becomes known in certain circumstances only - just like people do not know how they will react in face of danger - some very timid/weak people behave so courageously that in normal circumstances, nobody would have believe them to do so.

Coming to Kabras, perhaps only the lawyer has seen the video. Their reaction of believing their son is understandable - but their maligning Sanchi shows that they themselves have criminal tendencies.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It's sad what they did. Well looks like Sanchi will become the elder kabra bahu!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with most of you that mostly people support their own children even if they committed some sin. I myself have faced such an incident where the parents as we considered were good people. However when they knew that their son could be thrown behind the bars, they supported him.
Also I feel that its easy to advise others.

We ourselves would not know what we would do under such situation. We all consider ourselves good; however only difficult situations testifies the goodness in us 😊

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