YHMians do you believe in love marriages or arranged marriages- Page 3

Originally posted by: rockstar29

I don't know about love marriage were ppl run and marry I believe in parents approval and blessing is important even if it's love marriage .
Arrange marriage is more fun it's like discovering ur partner each coming day .

dear i did have a love marriage but we didn't run off 😉We married with approval and blessings from both side with a typical tahitien wedding even thaugh my hubby's family are catholic😉And me and my hubby known only 24 hrs before we deside to marry each other it was love at first sight😉And we only waited 6 months waiting periode only because he had to move to Tahiti from brazil😆So even in love with a love marriage and all we didn't much know about each other till we married and start living together☺️I have became sort of a daughter to my in laws while my hubby became a son to my parents 😆So agree love marriage is more and more beautiful when you have blessings love and support of both sides of parents😆

Originally posted by: _Serz_

A Happy marraige

🤣🤣Great answer😉And i can honnestly say yaar happy marriages are heavenly😉

Originally posted by: ForbbidenLove

I actually prefer Arrange Marriage in a pakka traditional way with doing every ritual from A to Z. It's kinda thrilling, having to discover your husband.HAHAHAHA My parents had a love marriage (sort of a taboo kind I would say during their time that is, as my mom is 1 year older than my dad, but mom had her MIL's full support😉 so 3rd parties opinions were irrelevant) & so is my Grandma&Grandpa[papa's parents], so I have been strictly told by my parents & grandma (grandpa passed away wayyy to early 😭 never seen him though I've always felt his presence through my grandma, she's loves talking about their love story till today & theirs was truly flimsy with songs&dance😆) that I too have to follow in their foot steps and fall in love which I have clearly said a NO too.LOL😉 But I believe it all comes down to the 2 people who are married to each other. It can either be a arrange marriage or love marriage but for it to be successful is solely based on the couple. I guess after seeing my parents love, I don't wish to disappoint myself if in any case. Love has become a commodity, changing partners like changing clothes & the ONLY REASON, I believe TRUE LOVE does exist is because of my parents seeing them fall in love in everyday till today*touchwood*, feeling blessed as their kid. & I guess maybe the fear is what makes me wanna get an arranged marriage. Better play safe.😛

P.S. Sorry for the super long post, with topics like parents&love I will end up writing an essay.😃

it's ok dear but i loved your answer👏