Ahem's anger is justified, Kokila's is not!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Watching the past two episodes, I want to say that Ahem's anger is justified. I know people will probably disagree, but if we see the situation through the POV of a parent, then who would not be angry in his situation? Ahem may have had his family throughout this whole ordeal, but he did not have a child. He saw Jigar and Rashi raising their children and felt pained that he did not have his own child. It's normal, it's human. I also empathize with Gopi. I also think what she did was human, but at the same time, her possessiveness for Vidya, where she is prepared to let Vidya grow up fatherless if it means having her to herself, is wrong. Gopi could have been with her family too if she wanted. She could have gone to her parents, but she chose not to. She chose to live by herself so she cannot accuse Ahem that he had his family, when she chose a lonely life for herself.
In all this, I feel that both Ahem and Gopi are justified in their emotions/behavior. Their behavior may be childish and selfish, but it's justified.
On the other hand, Kokila is completely unjustifed in her behavior. 🤢 As a mother, her treatment of Gopi is atrocious and I honestly do NOT know how they will redeem her character! I used to love Kokila. Kokila used to be the strongest and kindest character in the show, but the CVs destroyed her character. No matter what she says or does now, she can never be redeemed in my eyes. IMO there is still some hope for Ahem, but Kokila has completely disappointed me.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ahem and gopi are both missing the point in fighting over vidya they are both trying to prove who is the better parent they are caught up in the heat of the moment because none want to loose their daughter, they are forgetting what vidya wants. They need to call a truce and act like adults and reach a compromise. Ahem has probably taken this step thinking gopi will take his daughter away again and gopi is reacting to being separated from her daughter. Koki just fuels it. She was not kind at the start of the show but she made a bond with gopi and now even that is gone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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My views on Kokila r different . While i know she is unfair in accusing Gopi of Meera's death as a mother she is not really unjustified in being angry at her son's condition .

From her pov

Gopi messed up and the accidental death of Ahem's first child occured

Gopi chose to leave the marraige

Gopi hid the second child for 8 years from the family

while her son did not go in for a divorce or walked out on the marraige

stayed in a frozen angry vaccum for 8 years

when she tried to re settle him , the one who had left him turned up and messed up that attempt too .

To top it she is justifying not telling about the child and saying u guys can sometimes visit her .

Just see from her viewpoint . She is the most hated character in the forum but see her as a mother , not a mother in law . Her son's life was ruined by this woman according to her and she wants no more of it .

Gopi told Ahem u had ur full family with u i had Vidya so we r equals

i mean huh ????? What kind of weird weird logic is that ? Can immediate family of a man substitute for his children ? If so , all the women in the world get this right to withold information of children as and when they please .

Gopi acts as if Vidya was immaculately conceived

Gopi feels hogging Vidya quietly by keeping her from father's saaya and his family is justified ...again , huh ??????

Didn't feel sorry one bit for her as she stood outside the gates .

Ahem has lost out on witnessing the growth of his blood and this dame is justifying it self righteously without feeling guilty or apologetic and is apologetic about what was not her fault ...Meera's accident .

There accepting the blame of something u did not do is so patronizing , serene and has the high of mahaanta

and in Vidya's case where she really needs to apologize she is not apologizing coz the nasha of mahaanta is got by Maa dialogues .

If she really was a Maa she would have never deprived that girl of a dad .




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

My views on Kokila r different . While i know she is unfair in accusing Gopi of Meera's death as a mother she is not really unjustified in being angry at her son's condition .


From her pov

Gopi messed up and the accidental death of Ahem's first child occured

Gopi chose to leave the marraige

Gopi hid the second child for 8 years from the family

while her son did not go in for a divorce or walked out on the marraige

stayed in a frozen angry vaccum for 8 years

when she tried to re settle him , the one who had left him turned up and messed up that attempt too .

To top it she is justifying not telling about the child and saying u guys can sometimes visit her .

Just see from her viewpoint . She is the most hated character in the forum but see her as a mother , not a mother in law . Her son's life was ruined by this woman according to her and she wants no more of it .

Gopi told Ahem u had ur full family with u i had Vidya so we r equals

i mean huh ????? What kind of weird weird logic is that ? Can immediate family of a man substitute for his children ? If so , all the women in the world get this right to withold information of children as and when they please .

Gopi acts as if Vidya was immaculately conceived

Gopi feels hogging Vidya quietly by keeping her from father's saaya and his family is justified ...again , huh ??????

Didn't feel sorry one bit for her as she stood outside the gates .

Ahem has lost out on witnessing the growth of his blood and this dame is justifying it self righteously without feeling guilty or apologetic and is apologetic about what was not her fault ...Meera's accident .

There accepting the blame of something u did not do is so patronizing , serene and has the high of mahaanta

and in Vidya's case where she really needs to apologize she is not apologizing coz the nasha of mahaanta is got by Maa dialogues .

If she really was a Maa she would have never deprived that girl of a dad .






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