Similarities Between Anshuman, Tanya, Girish, Lavanya!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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For the sake of this topic, despicable = manipulative, selfish person.

Anshuman hid the truth from Paakhi. He manipulated her. He brought her to his house to send her away for his own image, his own selfish reason. He broke Paakhi's heart and trust. He was a despicable person.

Tanya is hiding her true nature from Anshuman. She's manipulating him. She wants to marry him for her own selfish reason. She's going to break Anshuman's heart and trust. She is a despicable person.

Girish hid his drunken one night stand truth from Lavanya. He manipulated her in the sense that he made her get comfortable with Naina and accept her before coming clean to her. He broke Lavanya's heart and trust. He is a despicable person.

Lavanya is hiding the truth from Girish that she is getting close to Vikram as an act. She is doing the exact same thing that Girish is doing - she's trying to put out fire with fire. She's manipulating him to believe that she really does love Vikram. She is breaking Girish's heart and will break his trust. She is a despicable person.

See the similarities? All of these character's are very similar in nature when it comes to their love interests. What sets them apart from each other? Their differences. But where do the differences come in?

Anshuman feels guilty about hiding the truth from Paakhi. He realizes his mistake and he aches inside that he did this to her. He considers her to be too good for him. Hurting her has really taken a toll on his own self confidence. We can see him repenting.

Tanya does not feel guilty about this, nor will she. She will not learn from her mistake. She wants Anshuman by hook or by crook and is under the impression that she is in love with him. She acts fake with him and pretends to love Ayaan unconditionally, when in reality all she wants to do is send him away. Once Anshuman finds out the truth, she won't accept that she's wrong. She won't repent.

Girish is repenting big time. He's watching his own wife "falling" for someone else in front of his eyes. He will leave her if it makes her happy. He told the truth to Lavanya himself which is the biggest step he has taken to get rid of his despicable trait. Now he claims that he will leave Lavanya if her true happiness really lies with Vikram. He does truly love Lavanya.

Lavanya will be in the same position Girish is in once he finds out the truth. She will regret doing this because her equation with Vikram can only end badly. You can't fight fire with fire and she will learn that the hard way. Hopefully she repents just as much as Girish, because she is intentionally cheating him right now by lying to him and breaking his heart.

Okay, I don't know what I just typed. Bear with me, it's past 2 AM here. 😆
Edited by ilovepyaar - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago
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There are similarities but one thing Girish did not do that intentionally to lavanya.he even wants her happiness and will carry that burden of that one night mistake..whereas Anshuman did all this cheating towards pakhi with full sense and now his sister doing same as her Bro..
Anshuman is repenting credit goes to Pakhi but Lavanya is sure going to fall in her own trap of deceit soon..Vikram is fishy..

For me Pakhi..Girish are good soul and can do anything for the happiness of the one they love..Might be Anshuman will realise the worth of Pakhi in his life sooner or later ..coming to Lavanya her Ego..attitude will bring her downfall..that image in society she keeps ranting will get destroyed by her own revengeful idea against Girish..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yup I agree. Girish did it unintentionally. Anshuman, Tanya and Lavanya are intentionally making mistakes. However, they're all mistakes and their mistakes have affected/will affect their loved ones negatively.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thats why at the end it Will be just for the 3 of them ansh lav and girish
Anshuman Will find his other half and the happiness of his life(paakhi)
Girish Will be forgiven by his wife
And same for lavanya
And tanya the door is Waiting for her to get out
We all do mistakes some just chootiii one and some really big ones
But what make us different from eachother is our reaction and our true personalityy
What make 4of them dif from eachother is tge way veryone Will deal with it
By person anshuman is a good person for sure thats why he accepted his mistake and even while doing it he was uncomfortable and even his intentions Were not to Hurt Anyone else
Same for girish and even lav (though i think lav Will learn hard the mostt)
Tanya neither her intentions are good or she is good from heart or even have reasons why she doing this
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am finding this Vikram very fishy. Earlier I had wished he would take a liking to Paakhi and somewhat give Anshuman the jealousy vibes. Now I am not sure where he's heading, if his suspicious action with Lavanya and Girish's ominous words are any indication.
I think Vikram deserves a full topic for his discussion. 🤔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikki.171

I am finding this Vikram very fishy. Earlier I had wished he would take a liking to Paakhi and somewhat give Anshuman the jealousy vibes. Now I am not sure where he's heading, if his suspicious action with Lavanya and Girish's ominous words are any indication.
I think Vikram deserves a full topic for his discussion. 🤔

yes very true something fishy he is intentionally involved with lavanya. And now his sister is mentioned. Who is she? some new revelation. Or is it possible that his sister is the one Girish wronged?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I would like to add one more aspect to Anshuman's doings. He is in love with Tanya ( that is what he thinks)for the fast 5 years, How can he leave her like that. At least he is being true to his love mate Tanya. He has not known Tanya's true intentions . He beleives Tanya truly loves him and does not want to hurt her also.
That does not justify his cheating Pakhi. But now everything is out in the open I like Anshuman that he is not ready to leave tanya and cheat her , It is another matter that Pakhi is too good a soul and make a better wife and mother'
He also believes that tania loves aayan. so naturally his choice would be Tania only.
I pity Anshuamn that he is in a fix now and doesnt know where to turn. Totally in a confused state.
Soon there will be realisation and ansh will understand what true love is .
AAyan has done mistakes but the child has understood the facts better.
Off all these people I wonder why Lavanya is so against Pakhi. . I would say her mistake is the biggest as she cannot see the true affection pakhi has got for AAyan and Anshuma. As a big sister she should have been more wise and understanding. Why she is so obsessed with Tania?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jakr

yes very true something fishy he is intentionally involved with lavanya. And now his sister is mentioned. Who is she? some new revelation. Or is it possible that his sister is the one Girish wronged?


Agreed, He is there on purpose. I was thinking, they would reveal his intentions and at least hint at it through showing his sister, but they have only left a lingering doubt in the viewers' mind. I am also curious as to what his purpose is and have the same questions as yours. But if its Girish he is after why is he dragging Lavanya into it? 😕 Plus, sometimes he lloks like he is attracted to her. 😕

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