Are the aloof people misconstrued?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Buffie

Isnt it??😭...Why would otherwise a relatively reticent Shveta be called "arrogant" and the very very gregarious and "LOUD" mona be called warm,friendly,sweet,humble etc etc....I posted this thread while JDJ was going on,and when everyone were lapping upto Mona only because she smiles🤢...Think about this topic in that context,you'd know where I'm coming from!!

PS..Shveta's rocking👍🏼...Post JDJ,she's being invited to do many shows...Thus corroborates that true Talent always triumphs!!..SOrry for divagating!!

I know exactly!!! Moreover, she did not even create an unfriendly / unwelcoming environment at JDJ. If the participants found themselves in an unfamiliar territory around her, it was because she DANCED, while they were either working hard / improving / desperately seeking publicity through their earlier roles. 😉
Abhishek also seems introvert and so is Rani, ajay devgan. It s not that introverts don;t have fun, rather they have a close group of people they open up to. I doubt the dancing JDJ auntiies (Rati & Pooja) gave Shveta any friendly feeling either. Everyone indulged in bad publicity of shveta. Boy oh boy! Good for them that she is an introvert. If she opened her mouth against them, the show would have been called "Dancing with Big Boss" 😆😆😆. She is a fabulous dancer and will always be remembered as the best dancer on the show who know abcd of dance. Opinions of the rest don't quite matter in the real judgment 😉. Fans will always be fans, that's all.
subha di

Does Maya want to add 2 cents to this discussion about a misconstrued ill-judged Shveta Salve?? I hope so 😛

Originally posted by: lighthouse

🤔 Maya , you could have fooled me. over 1400 posts in less then 2 months.😉

😆. I take that as a compliment 😉. Didn't I mention that I am a chatterer among friends😳. Reality shows like JDJ, NB, BB and now Fame-X increased my post count😳

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Does Maya want to add 2 cents to this discussion about a misconstrued ill-judged Shveta Salve?? I hope so 😛

QT & Buffie, You guys have said it all.

Originally posted by: caramelcj

I like that..and what you say is very true.. but it is quite difficult to be that way too..

I know it is difficult to be that way all the time.. But i guesswe can survive it out until we make ourselves a big name 😉. It is actually more annoying when you have to pretend to care about a person that is rather irritating.

yes..and always!its pretty difficult for such people coz ur boss may not notice u...but i sometimes wonder...is ur work not enough to show them ur calibre.but then its a known fact tht being confident,pleasant and a striking personality always helps.u need not be sugar n spice..but have a pleasant personality.dont misunderstand me...im totally the opposite...an out and out intovert.god knows how im gonna deal with my patients 😆

I agree that people misconstrue quiet and reserved people as being arrogant and obnoxious but I wouldn't blame them either . See, we judge a person based on the way they react to us and its obvious that we would react warmly to the ones who react to us in a warm ,nice and positive way but we would obviously react negatively abt the ones who give us a negative reaction by being aloof or reserved in the sense , by not reacting the way we expect them to . That forms the basis for our judgement . Its wrong but thats the way it is .

I agree that each ones character is different and theres nothing wrog in being aloof and reserved if thats their genuine nature but its also a fact that such people never get noticed and if they do , its always in the negative coz they never manage to create a bond with most of them and react the way they want .

Nice topic, Buffie. Since its opened up again, I thought I will throw two my cents too. Everyone knows that quiet and reserved people are under estimated due to their lack of participation or feed back. It happens for various reasons: They are quiet by nature, they are quiet because when they say something, no one likes them or aprreciates their input, lack of confidence to speak up in Public or they don't care i.e. absent minded. But in modern age, one has to show his/her ability in order to be recognised. No once will just assume that you know more than what people think, you must prove it.

I think all misunderstand ASH as she is aloof

sociopaths are aloof, schizophrenics are aloof, psychotics are aloof.. intelligent people are aloof so its obvious to misconstrue aloofness.....

I am only worried about aloof people being misconstrued as intelligent..... 😊

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

sociopaths are aloof, schizophrenics are aloof, psychotics are aloof.. intelligent people are aloof so its obvious to misconstrue aloofness.....

I am only worried about aloof people being misconstrued as intelligent..... 😊

Very true!😊