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Posted: 11 years ago
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Just like sanskari aloknath who has become famous, one day gopi may become sanskari bahu of Indian television beating anandi of BV, Sandhya of DABH and others.

The sanskari bahu is the one

Who never opens her mouth in front of her mother in law.

She will never point fingers towards her mother in law even if the saas is committing the most heinous acts and barbaric.

The sanskari bahu will forgive everyone very easily.

The sanskari bahu will think suffering is her birth right and responsibility.

The sanskari bahu will never think of her mother as it suggests she is not loyal towards her sasural.

The sanskari bahu will never think of marrying again.

Can any of you think of others qualities that makes a sanskari bahu?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Would give up her freedom for someone else ...

I don't think I ever want to meet a women like her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kokila has stopped thinking about gopi positively whereas gopi's mother sheds tears always thinking about gopi.
Strangely gopi never thinks of her mother while only worshipping Kokila. And also telling to Vidya that Kokila is her mother.
In real life daughters are not like gopi forgetting their mothers. While they may have good feelings for their mother in law, they always nurture love for their mothers too.
Does SNS wants daughters to forget their mothers after marriage?
While those who think about their mothers are portrayed not so ideal bahus. Example Rashi and Kinjal.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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A sanskari bahu , always put her life in danger to her in-laws😊
when gopi make hersellf responsible for umang's murder it was really worst. How could she save anyone from going to jail and without confirming that is it was kinjal or anyone else. so worst.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Kokila has stopped thinking about gopi positively whereas gopi's mother sheds tears always thinking about gopi.
Strangely gopi never thinks of her mother while only worshipping Kokila. And also telling to Vidya that Kokila is her mother.
In real life daughters are not like gopi forgetting their mothers. While they may have good feelings for their mother in law, they always nurture love for their mothers too.
Does SNS wants daughters to forget their mothers after marriage?
While those who think about their mothers are portrayed not so ideal bahus. Example Rashi and Kinjal.



You are right but in Gopi's defence she has never actually bonded with her mother, she was lost in the floods and brought up by urmila from the time she was 2 or 3. Urmila never treated her right and koki initially atleast gave her love and support that a mother should. so koki is the only mother she knows. In madhu's defence , she never came out of the tragedy of losing gopi in the floods for many years so she feels a lot for gopi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Kokila has stopped thinking about gopi positively whereas gopi's mother sheds tears always thinking about gopi.
Strangely gopi never thinks of her mother while only worshipping Kokila. And also telling to Vidya that Kokila is her mother.
In real life daughters are not like gopi forgetting their mothers. While they may have good feelings for their mother in law, they always nurture love for their mothers too.
Does SNS wants daughters to forget their mothers after marriage?
While those who think about their mothers are portrayed not so ideal bahus. Example Rashi and Kinjal.


I agree with you, but I think the reason behind this is that Gopi never grew up with her mother, Madhu, so she never really had the affection one gets from a mother. As terrible as Kokila is now, she was the first woman who had shown Gopi a mother's love. She never got it from Urmila either. In fact, she was treated like a slave by Urmila and Rashi throughout her childhood. She had never known a mother's love until Kokila came along, so that could be the reason she worships Kokila so much. Although Kokila failed in her role as a mother and mother-in-law, I think Gopi will always hold her on a pedestal for this reason, as she thinks of Kokila as a mother more than mother-in-law.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Kokila has stopped thinking about gopi positively whereas gopi's mother sheds tears always thinking about gopi.
Strangely gopi never thinks of her mother while only worshipping Kokila. And also telling to Vidya that Kokila is her mother.
In real life daughters are not like gopi forgetting their mothers. While they may have good feelings for their mother in law, they always nurture love for their mothers too.
Does SNS wants daughters to forget their mothers after marriage?
While those who think about their mothers are portrayed not so ideal bahus. Example Rashi and Kinjal.

The problem with this is that Gopi did not know her real mother she was never part of her life until recently, she always thought of kokila her mother but in reality kokila is just a saas n can never be a mother to gopi. Madhu was right there, today showed how much madhu loved Gopi also baa is a mother to Gopi who missed gopi terribly she showed her true face when she saw gopi tears poured down her face n her smile came back where the rest were all shocked.

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