All I can say ultimately is that Big B can take a few lessons from Sivakumar, his son Surya married Jyothika, the two biggest stars in south Indian cinema. Their wedding was truly the fairy tale type story, nothing close to ash and abhi. Sivakumar was a total class act in how he explained his stance so clearly to the media by holding a press conference, and letting the newly weds Jyothika and Surya speak at the press conference right after the wedding. They answered all the questions and went their separate ways and the media got the publicity they wanted and did not disturb them further in the end everybody is happy. That was just so great of him and it shows he respects the media and the public.
Listen I understand all this talk about privacy, and I don't care about who they invited that is their wedding and is their choice. But Big B is acting like a child trying to run away from the media and wanting to protect abhi and ash as if they are infants. Are you telling me these two cant handle the media glare. How long has he been in this business what like some 40 yrs. He should know the harder you try to push the media away and isolate them, the crazier they get and start getting anxious. Infact after Jo and Surya got married I didn't read one negative article about their wedding, everybody was such high praises for this young couple who showed such maturity and poise under such intense scrutiny, Sivakumar too highly commended. I will tell you guys that Sivakumar commands more respect and adulation in south Indian cinema than what Big B has in Bollywood. While Sivakumar was praised for being so honorable, Big B is being touted as being petty.
The relation between media and a celebrity is a delicate one. Big B making a big mistake by irritating them and testing their patience. These guys are like a pack of hyenas they can easily make your life miserable. Jo and Surya are enjoying such positive feedback from Media, they have requested for their privacy and they have got it, but unfortunately for Ash and Abhi they will only get hounded further because they did not extend similar courtesy to the media themselves.