Ruqaiyaa The Balika Vadhu Of Jalal

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Posted: 11 years ago
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The Word "Balika Vadhu" Comes From An Old Well Known Tradition Called "Child Marriage"

Child n Marriage Both Are Two East n West Type Totaly Different Words In Every Sense!

Marriage Is Not At All A Child's Cup Of Tea n All The Childs Are Too Innocent To Understand The Depth Of Marriage!

Ruqaiyaa Sultan Was A Child When She Got Married With Her Friend Jalal n Became A Balika Vadhu Of Jalal,

At That Time For Both Of Them Their Marriage Was Only A Ritual, After Marriage Also Their Relationship Did Not Cross The Border Of Friendship!

They Were Friends, Childwhood Friends, They Used To Share Each n Everything With Each Other, Their Feelings Their Doubts, Their Opinions, Their Most Of The Times, Their Play Grounds, Everything, So It Was Natural For Both Of Them To Develop A Special Bond With Each Other!

They Were Each Others Support System, They Had An Understanding n They Knew Each Other More Then Anyone Else, They Were Very Much Comfortable With Each Other!

n Then A Time Came When Ruqaiyaa's Friend Became A Shaheenshaa, n Due To Their Comfortable Equation Ruqaiyaa Became His Begum-E-Khash!

They Entered In A New Phase Of Their Life, Where They Had Lots Of Duties To Fullfill Towards Each Other n Towards Their Kingdom,

Peoples Made Them Understand The Fact That Husband-Wife Relationship Not Only Demands Mental Supports It Demands Physical Supports Too!

They Silently Followed Their Elders Advice n All The Rules Of Kingdom, They Became Husband-Wife In Every Sense, They Tried Their Best To Be A Good Saheenshaa n Begam-E-Khash n They Successed Too!

Where Jalal Was Too Busy With His Political Life, On The Other Hand Inbetween Her Political Works Ruqaiyaa Started Developing Some More Then Friendship Feelings For The Only Man She Cared, Just Like Any Other Normal Young Girl,

But In Return She Got A Weird One Liner "Shaaheensha K Pass Dil Nehi Hota" Asusual She Believed It Blindly n 1st Time In Her Life She Made A Huge Mistake!

Instead Of Making A Way Towards Jalal's Non Existing Dil She Made Her Way Towards His Dimag! Raj Karne K Liye She Choose His Dimag Not Dil

There You Go, She Made A Place On His Brain n His Kingdom, Then Along With Jalal She Fall In Love With Her Position Also, Only To Impress Jalal Ruqaiyaan Became An Another Jalal,

Ruqaiyaa Was The 1st Young Girl Jalal Knew, Jalal Was Very Much Impressed With Her Beauty With Brain Personality, She Was Just Like Him, He Used To Respect Her Alot,

Then One Day A Rajput Princess Made A Grand Entry Into Their Life n Turned It Upside Down!

She Made Jalal Fall In Love With Her n She Made Ruqaiyaa Realized The Fact That,

Jalal Loved Ruqaiyaa But He Was Not In Love With Ruqaiyaa!

Unlike Jalal's Rajput Begum Ruqaiyaa Never Had A Family, She Had Only Jalal,

When Ruqaiyaa Lost Jalal Due To Her Own Stupidity, She Became Jeolous n Insecure But It Did Not Change The Fact That Jalal Was Not Only Hers!

Ruqaiyaa Got Her Friend Jalal's Care Love Pampering Anger Support n Everything But She Never Got A Loving Husband In Jalal,

They Both Remaind As Best Friends Only Becoz When There Was A Right Time, That Time They Both Failed To Understand The Actual Meaning Of Husband-Wife!

Jalal Got The Love He Deserved From His Rajput Wife, But Ruqaiyaa Never Got It Becoz...She Was A Balika Vadhu Of Jalal,

Note > This Post Is Not To Justify Ruqaiyaa Its Just A Light On Jalal-Ruqaiyaa's Complicated Relationship From A Third Person's (Me) POV!

Btw I Am Arpita, I Am A PRC Fan, I Am Not Active In This Forum, Its My 2nd Post Here, I Just Love Rajat n Lavina's Performance as Jalal-Ruqaiyaa So Made This For Them, Hope Everyone Will Like It, Thank You!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post... Rukaiyya is Balika vadhu of jalal... Lol... 😆 and iss weekend pe sare posts on rukku only 😆 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes Balika vadhu of jalal..
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Hi Arpita, a good post. Because they were married at early age and grew up together, whatever Ruk learned it is from Jalal. But my question here is did she learn everything from her Jalal?? I think not. She learned the qualities that best suited her. Yes Jalal was ruthless in his control over others which Ruk adapted to her harem. But Jalal was also loyal to others such as Abdul n his bodyguard (sorry forgot his name). Was Ruk ever loyal to a single soal (except Jalal) for a span of atleast say 1 episode??? Jalal always listened and took advise from others be it may BK, MA, Bharmal, his khass begums (honorary mention here Mirza). He has the quality to respect n regard others opinion. Has Ruk ever gave a passing thought even when other when out to advise her?? I can go on with some more but the point is saying that she is this way entirely because she did not grow up in ideal family environment would be a mistake. Yes, the initial behaviour might be accountable for this. But she also had HB and Gulbadan with her rite? Controry to what people say HB might have tries to help her at early stages but the problem with her is she initially tries and then gives up to god to guide them. But genuinely think that Ruk received some sort of love from Gulbadan. You can see the closeness between them that should have developed during her childhood. So she does know about love and caring but Ruk chose to behave like Jalal rather than be a lovable person and make him love her. Ok I get that he keeps saying that 'I have no Dil' and you accepted it because it is easy way out rather than trying hard and fighting with him over it. See the contrary to his statement is right in front of her eyes. She herself says to MA during MC track that Jalal's jaan rests in three persons - HB, Ruk and MA. It indirectly states that he loves them and respects them (note here he is angry with his mother for abandoning him but she is still his loved one). Ruk herself claims that she is so intelligent that she has control over sehenshah's mind. Then I wonder how hard would it have been for her to figure out that he loves them, if she really wanted him to be in love with her???

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved your post Arpi!!! 👏
Jalal loved her but was not in love with her...so true!!!

Lavina's performance makes me fall for the character..and Rajat ..he is beyond any appreciation!!! ❤️

Beautiful post!!!
I really love Jalal-Ruqaiya no matter what!!! 😊

In order to fit in his life she tried becoming a person which she wasn't and she succeded...and that was her mistake! But can't blame her for that..she was tooo young to understand!
No family..nothing!
I remember during divorce track she said...humne sirf Jalal ko apna manna aur kisi ko nhi. Kisiko apni zindagi ka hissa nhi banne diya..kisiko apne dil tak nhi phuchne diya..sirf Jalal ko chodke!

(It was something like that) And it is so true!!

But nevertheless..I love Ruqaiya and I love Jalal!!

Ravina rocks!!! 👏

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice Post Arpi
But the truth is frnds are important part of ur life n so is ruqu spl to jalu but the sum1spl for jalu is not ruqu, she can be the one if she had ever tried to understand that thr's a big heart behind the saying "i dnt hv heart"
Jalu finds his luv in sum1 else

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