Why Anshuman never say i love you too..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anshuman claims to love Tanya twice with pakhi..

Yesterday we got a romantic moment of Anshuman..Tanya..

Tanya.she yells it on top of the roof i love you Anshuman..I was waiting for him to reply back like i love you too Tanya but nothing..

Tanya on cloud nine when Anshuman guessed her name and she was like you love me like crazy right again Anshuman did not utter that three golden words..

Today once more Anshuman will tell Ayaan i love Tanya...

What do you think is Anshuman in very denial mode ..meaning denying the truth in his heart ?.. ..i mean if you genuinely love someone there should be no hesitation in saying the i love you too ..

Edited by saveeta24 - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago
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tanya always throws herself on anshuman...his i love tanya is so not convincing..and also I feel with tanya he seems he can be himself the spontaneous adventure loving free himself...with pakhi I do not know maybe she really wants to change him..i feel pakhi should let anshuman be anshuman too..ofcourse improve his life but not to change him completely perhaps thats why anshuman goes more towards tanya cause he feels she accepts him for what he is..just a thought


Edited by LadyZaib - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He is just infatuated by Tanya and moreover its Tanya who always tries to give words to Anshuman's confused state of mind even before he can arrive at any conclusion. I would just say that Anshuman does not know the difference between love and attraction He does not love Tanya but maybe it wil take some time for him to understand this
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Marrying Tanya is another commitment for Anshuman. Its business too. So he is declaring it again and again. I dont think there is love involved. Always Tanya goes to him, she sweet talks to him. We never saw Anshuman encouraging her. He is considering it as a duty and doing it. This is quite normal for his character. He doesnt even show tenderness to his son. So may be this all he is capable of 😉.He loves Tanya with his brain. But when he starts loving Pakhi it will be from his heart. But dont know when!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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When he says he loves Tanya in front of Paakhi and the others he is just trying to justify himself, his actions and meet his goal. Remember the end purpose of what makes him pick Tanya time and again over Paakhi, which does not tarnish his reputation or at least makes him come across as some sort of a gold digger who is vested in a fake relationship only because it profits him. As a man who is too concerned about his image, he is just not ready to admit this to even HIMSELF, that he can be in a relationship only for monetary profits and social status, it would bestow upon him. He would rather be a lying scumbag, a philanderer in the eyes of his immediate family and wife.
But he cannot admit to being someone so opportunistic that he would be in a fake relationship if it helped his image and his standing in the business world.

Tanya comes from an influential family so being connected to them helps him overshadow the past of his own family, who he admits arose to this station from humble beginnings.

But yes, he cannot say those words to Tanya because he knows, deep down, they would be empty. It would be an absolute lie and to confirm it to Tanya... by a verbal admission in the book of Anshuman Rathore would be nothing short of making a commitment on paper, giving his absolute word.

And despite being so conniving, so manipulative and selfish, Anshuman cannot bring himself to admit this one thing, toy with Tanya completely or even a cross a line with her whenever she initiates any physical act is perhaps because he knows he is lying to himself, and in lying to Tanya, in admitting it to HER, that he indeed loves her he would be gone so far along that there would be no coming back for him.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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He was affraid of us (audience) to kill him if he does 😆
Ok seriously now anshuman cant say it coz he doesnt feel it
And when he said he loves tanya to ayan or paakhi he means "he want to marry tanya he would love to marry her" thats the real meaning of i love tanya
Anshumaan Long Time decided to marry her as she is just Right for him and the while situation is perfect for him he calculated his Life Long Time before paakhi coming on the pic
And now things changed and anshuman changed situation changed his feeling changedd
But he still doesnt want to change his mind and still trying to see all this with his old eyes
Anshuman CAN flirt with tanya ,not stoping her from anything but "i love u tanya" is a big thing for him
His heart CAN accept him to fake his happiness and his goals but not his true feeling
Its very diff to fake love and anshumaan cant fake i love u to tanya
He said it twichiyatt but not to her(coz its easy )
I m Waiting for the say when anshuman Will start usine his mind i m saying his mind MIND coz i feel like he stopped thinking and Will ask himself why he is still going on this ? Why he still wana marry tanya ?
If everything toward me changed so why i m still not changing my mind ?

I think ayan plan Will help him to see it so clearly
Edited by Ilhamez - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In few days back episode Girish told Anshuman love Pakhi n not Tanya...

He wants to merry Tanya for his bussiness purpose n high society image...

He started loving Pakhi but not yet realizing...

So he never tells Tanya three golden words...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@All..Thanks for reply and nice POV..

@Ilhamez..."He was affraid of us (audience) to kill him if he does"...lol that was a good one but you might be right as the creatives know this would have really frustrated the audiences ..they know viewers waiting for a love confession of Anshuman not to Tanya but Pakhi..

lets wait and watch how he comes out of this denial mode and accept his heart feelings without his image conscious phobia..


Edited by saveeta24 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: saveeta24

@All..Thanks for reply and nice POV..


@Ilhamez..."He was affraid of us (audience) to kill him if he does"...lol that was a good one but you might be right as the creatives know this would have really frustrated the audiences ..they know viewers waiting for a love confession of Anshuman not to Tanya but Pakhi..

lets wait and watch how he comes out of this denial mode and accept his heart feelings without his image conscious phobia..



exactly and thats why i love this show
They try as Much as they CAN to show us logical things drama but still not to anger their audience
Even when they show us something we dont like the scene after they show us something good so that we forget about the previous one
I just love how cvs handle this situation and how they r trying to answer so many questions that is turning in our mind
Lets wait and watch as u said we r eagerly Waiting for this day
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Posted: 11 years ago
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honestly I feel he finds it hard to express his feelings mainly because he himself is unsure he believes he should feel for Tanya because they are equally matched in his mind.. his mentality is such that they are from the same world and Paakhi is literally too pristine to be apart of their fake world. he has repeatedly portrayed these emotions to himself as well as to others.. he wants others to believe he loves Tanya not because they are his real feelings but because he wants to justify his actions and force himself to accept what he is doing is correct..

There is a part of him that comprehends he is in the wrong.. yet he refuses to budge or step back and ponder the situation because that would mean having to accept the lasting impression and the place Paakhi has made for herself in his life.. He would rather not feel and with Tanya he can better control his emotions.. he understands with her money equals happiness.. but Paakhi always leaves him bewildered he has never liked being taken off balance.. and with her he can never seem to guess what's in store for him.. he is fond of taking his empire forward and Tanya is simply a means to an end.. that he can deal with.. hence he is far more comfortable with cold hard facts.. as expected.. and tends to run from emotions..!!

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