Minnie very nice topic 😃 .
Dor was excellent movie and Ayesha did a wonderful job playing that character. There was no mention of this movie on either FF or Z cine awards 😕
Excellent points have been made by many Shikara, Minnie, Pradarshak, Abhi and others so far. Mostly the women who have suffered as DILs end up doing same to their DILs as soon as they beocme MILs 😕 . But not all are like that.
There are some MILs who remembers how it was when they were DILs and they will make sure it does not happen to another woman in the family. Education sometimes is not enough to broaden one's views. SOme times being learned about different worldly and relationship issues and simple common sense can help these situations.
In our society these type of legacies gets carried on from generation to generations. Ofcourse men should support women in these issues but If women does not stand up for themselves or other women why should men do it for them? We each have responsibility as human beings and the sex god has given us to make the best of it. As long as things are done in respectful ways and in moderation.
Great one by Abhi SShukla : A favorite Gandhi Quote: rivaaj na kuvaa maaN tarvu saaruN chhe pan DuubavuN khotooN chhe. (It is good to swim in the well of customs but wrong to drown in it.)
When we drown in social customs than we are encouraging bad behavior and pacifiying the culprits.
My POV only.