He deserved a thanks instead of taunting!! - Page 6

Originally posted by: mik07

I think she behaved that way coz zain wanted to take credit infront on usman that he's trying to be responsible and that its "al-ya" who doesn't want to share anything with zain coz of her ego. Zain did help her but he made "al-ya" look like an egoist and immature person in front of usman. Lets not forget that alya did ask zain why he helped her if he hates her so much! I think she understands and is grateful but they both refuse to bow down in front of each other. Its mutual i guess!

Originally posted by: togepe30

Arey,...Copy paste ka option bhi hai na😆

Originally posted by: MyInspirationz

woh akrne mein bhi aalsipan tha 😆

Originally posted by: miss_bennet

Jyo, I'm here finally!😆

So, I've read almost all of this discussion, and must say, this is quite an interesting one. So yeah, congrats on turning this into a hot discussion topic.😆 While I agree with you on the point that Zain behaved like a hero and did deserve a thanks, at the same time he also owed her an apology for jumping into conclusions about her, and all those harsh words he said without thinking. I would have loved it if Aaliya had been honest with him in the first place, but when I think more about it, I realize neither Zain nor Aaliya have reached that point in their relationship where they would actually confide in each other. And here, as someone already pointed out, it was not even her secret to tell. Do you think, if Zain was in Aaliya's place, he would have confided in her?

And if we really start counting the number of times they should actually have apologized or thanked each other, I'd say we'd lose count. Even before the nikaah, all those times Zain put Aaliya in a tricky situation, he has never apologized to her... And they were not all harmless. One of his pranks led them to the nikaah they both did not want, and another prank almost cost Aaliya her life-- it was pure luck that Zain got to know of his goof up regarding the jamalgota-rat poison incident and was able to stop Aaliya from consuming the poison. Even the nikaah-- Zain did not for a moment believe he was to a major extent responsible for the whole thing, and was quite quick to blame Aaliya for the incident if you remember. And not to forget all those times he has been mean to her post-marriage, especially the Waleema incident.

And about the Thank yous. This is not the first time Zain has eased Aaliya out of a tricky situation. Saving from the goons no matter what method he adopted for it, saving her from the humiliation at the party (although unknowingly he was responsible for this), speaking up for her and now easing her out of this jewellery situation... All those situations did call for some gratitude. But they don't say it to each other, because that is not the zone their relationship is in, right now. They are more comfortable with the bickering, that's how they connect to each other. Thank Yous and Sorrys put them in an awkward situation, so they revert back into their comfort zones. That is the specialty of their relationship. It is almost like how we try not to bring thank yous and sorrys among our close friends- it makes things awkward, because we know if our friend was in the same situation as us, we'd do the same for them and vice versa. If Zain was in a similar situation and if it was up to Aaliya to bail him out, she wouldn't think twice before she did that and bot Zain and Aaliya know that.

And why do you think Aaliya does not feel the gratitude? She did ask 'why you saved me, even when you hate me so much?' and as someone pointed out, Zain acknowledged it by showing her why he did that. She does know that Zain has helped her out of a very tricky situation, but she has not yet gotten enough time to retrospect on that yet. There were bigger problems to tackle.

And if we look from another point of view, don't you think Zain was obliged to ease Aaliya out of the situation after knowing that she did all this to help his brother? Would he be able to live with that guilt had he let Aaliya get blamed and humiliated knowing it was all for his brother's sake? So, it was as important for Zain's own conscience to help her out of it, as much as it was important for Aaliya.

But none of it takes anything away from Zain's behavior I say. He did deserve thanks from her, as did Aaliya deserve apology from him. But it is okay if they don't say it, because these are gestures they deserve, but not what they need right now in their relationship. (Okay that kind of sounded The Dark Knight-esque😆)

There will come a time in their relationship when they will appreciate each other's actions more and will actually express them. Now is just not that time yet.

*phew* That was indeed long.😊

-Harsha