It's pathetic how they are blaming Nikhil!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Does anybody else feel this way? I mean it's just pathetic how everyone in the village is blaming Nikhil for Lajjo's condition. Lajjo left Nikhil with her permission, she didn't even bother informing Nikhil. She wanted wanted to be mahaan so there you go. Nikhil's grandad forced him to marry Lajjo, Baba ji manipulated Nikhils brain which forced Nikhil to marry Lajjo. If anyone is to be blamed it should be Baba ji and Lajjos parents. They just gave her daughter away like she's some kind of a trash or a product that you sell and buy. Baba ji knew that Lajjo won't be happy with Nikhil but he still forced him to marry Lajjo. I am not saying that Nikhil is innocent he is also to be blamed but my main point is that this time Nikhil is not at fault. Lajjo left the house because she thought it was the right thing to do.
What's the point of staying in a marriage when there's no love, no future and it's just baseless. It wasn't a marriage anyways, it was more of a complication that Lajjo ended. People have the limit of tolerating things and Lajjo had enough of it. She made the right choice by going. I know it's hard to do so but why stay in pain in suffer when you're not going to gain love or respect.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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today my heart broke for Nikhil, I understand Laajo's plight and I understand Nikhil's dilemma
.It is bit too much by Laajo's mom I feel .I am very much ok with initial reaction by parents in yesterday's episode. I understand bua's concern too about Laajo and her self respect.
But Saraswati was cruel in my opinion, I understand but am not happy with her, she is also at fault. I feel she behaved bit like his own mom who blames him for her elder son's death--knowing very well that she is also to be blamed for not taking care of her children na.
Same is with laajo's mom ,she has a punching bag too as in Nikhil, she can just shoot at him and run from her own guilt of her reaction to Laajo's river drowning incident. Even then she over reacted. I feel she in her grief looses senses and needs punch bags.
but hopefully tomorrow Laajo will start to be on mend...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I believe that Nikhil is going to Ishanna. He is not staying. Lajoo's parents know the truth and do what is best for her. There is no Nikhil and Lajoo any time soon. Nikhil would have married Ishanna regardless. Lajoo will sent him back
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Completely agree with you.I felt bad for Nikhil. He is not alone should be blamed .Baba,Laajo,Laajo's dad n mom all should be blamed . They conveniently put all blame on Nihkil . Baba cleverly used the pain Nikhil having that he can't save his bro to make him marry Laajo by saying village all will taunt her and the girl cannot live peacefully[Indirectly saying she will die] .Laajo's mom the way she behaved when Laajo broke the marriage ,when Laajo came with Nikhil after spending entire night with him because they cannot cross the river because the water was overflowing,she threatened she will commit suicide and was ready to marriage Laajo to a older man who is a divorcee and had children . Her behavior made baba think the other way and he emotionally forced Nikhil to marry Laajo.Now she is blaming Nikhil for all this mess. If a guy suddenly comes n say I will marry your daughter without having any doubt why sudden change in his behavior.They are happy their daughter will go to city and will get married to a rich family . They did not find the need to talk with Laajo if she is ready and also to Nikhil why sudden change in his decision. Laajo mom said , Laajo does not speak she silently take everything . Did any one stitched Laajo's mouth. If she felt bad when Barkha ,Nani N Ayesha taunted her she should have spoken. Laajo's dad said Laajo is very self -respect girl .But I do not find she is a self-respect girl. As long Nihkil did not blame her for separating him N Ishana till that time she had no issue .Then she left the house without informing any one . Just as mahan. She could have spoke with Nihkil n left the house with a good note .

Why did Laajo say what Nihkil told her and she accepted what he said . Nikhil said he can't give her love and she accepted it. I agree Nikhil sometime shouted at Laajo . But many time he stand -up for Laajo and did is responsibility towards Laajo .

Nikhil at-least he came to see Laajo not out of love but out of humanity. He was ready to do is level best to save Laajo and the way Saraswathi behaved was so rude . She is ok if her daughter die in village .But she will not send to Delhi for treatment .Yesterday I was so pissed with Saraswathi's behavior.

Now Laajo realized nothing left in the marriage and she came back on her own wish.Then why all blaming Nihkil as if he throwed her out of the house.

Nikhil is the fav punching bag for Barkha N now for Saraswati.

It's so pathetic all blaming Nihkil alone. He is not solely responsible for the cureent scenario all are equally responsible for the current scenario including Laajo.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Completely agree with you.I felt bad for Nikhil. He is not alone should be blamed .Baba,Laajo,Laajo's dad n mom all should be blamed . They conveniently put all blame on Nihkil . Baba cleverly used the pain Nikhil having that he can't save his bro to make him marry Laajo by saying village all will taunt her and the girl cannot live peacefully[Indirectly saying she will die] .Laajo's mom the way she behaved when Laajo broke the marriage ,when Laajo came with Nikhil after spending entire night with him because they cannot cross the river because the water was overflowing,she threatened she will commit suicide and was ready to marriage Laajo to a older man who is a divorcee and had children . Her behavior made baba think the other way and he emotionally forced Nikhil to marry Laajo.Now she is blaming Nikhil for all this mess. If a guy suddenly comes n say I will marry your daughter without having any doubt why sudden change in his behavior.They are happy their daughter will go to city and will get married to a rich family . They did not find the need to talk with Laajo if she is ready and also to Nikhil why sudden change in his decision. Laajo mom said , Laajo does not speak she silently take everything . Did any one stitched Laajo's mouth. If she felt bad when Barkha ,Nani N Ayesha taunted her she should have spoken. Laajo's dad said Laajo is very self -respect girl .But I do not find she is a self-respect girl. As long Nihkil did not blame her for separating him N Ishana till that time she had no issue .Then she left the house without informing any one . Just as mahan. She could have spoke with Nihkil n left the house with a good note .

Why did Laajo say what Nihkil told her and she accepted what he said . Nikhil said he can't give her love and she accepted it. I agree Nikhil sometime shouted at Laajo . But many time he stand -up for Laajo and did is responsibility towards Laajo .

Nikhil at-least he came to see Laajo not out of love but out of humanity. He was ready to do is level best to save Laajo and the way Saraswathi behaved was so rude . She is ok if her daughter die in village .But she will not send to Delhi for treatment .Yesterday I was so pissed with Saraswathi's behavior.

Now Laajo realized nothing left in the marriage and she came back on her own wish.Then why all blaming Nihkil as if he throwed her out of the house.

Nikhil is the fav punching bag for Barkha N now for Saraswati.

It's so pathetic all blaming Nihkil alone. He is not solely responsible for the cureent scenario all are equally responsible for the current scenario including Laajo.


šŸ‘ Bravo, you're so correct totes agree with you.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree ..and today Laajo's dad said the right thing ..they pressured all these and now she can't Nikhil for everything!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Jes...

agree ..and today Laajo's dad said the right thing ..they pressured all these and now she can't Nikhil for everything!



Laajo's dad accepted their fault.He spoke very sensibly and also put some sense in Saraswathi .Made her remember what all she did . He also said Saraswathi can't blame for Nikhil.Which I liked it. Kudous to CV's .They gave a message to all the parents who have daughter. Marrying off daughter is not important. They should think about their daughter. Should not give to social pressure. Should always support their daughter.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Completely agree with you. 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M



Laajo's dad accepted their fault.He spoke very sensibly and also put some sense in Saraswathi .Made her remember what all she did . He also said Saraswathi can't blame for Nikhil.Which I liked it. Kudous to CV's .They gave a message to all the parents who have daughter. Marrying off daughter is not important. They should think about their daughter. Should not give to social pressure. Should always support their daughter.

@Bold: totally agreed .. it is a great message by CVs! hats off šŸ‘

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