As a RR forum member Wat should we do?

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farzana

@fazanaf

Beginner

Posted: 11 years ago

i have been member of IF since late 2009. although i was and am a quite one, i always read and 👍🏼 good ones and some time i comment too. i always open my favorite forum coz i enjoyed reading posts let it be positive coment or a feed back to the cvs or actors. but now its not the same or should i say that RR forum doesnt accept a feed back comments as the members name it bashing. the forum used to be free thought coments as it increased the pages of the forum which was a point to the forum it self. But now im confused with some members that they want No Feed Back Comments to d Show. its like " u can only say good things, if u say something that u didnt like about the show, then u ll be called the so called "basher". this actually caused me totally signing out from the forum when RR only started, but i actually made myself come back thinking that its ok i wll not post any thing untill today i gathered my words and dared to post this.

RR and PaRud being our best show ever we only comment "sort of in a negative way" because we either missundrestand the massage or slow enought to get the why it was shown like that. But the forum member, instead of giving their ideas to make u clear of tat part, they tell u stop watching the show😡 and place a full stop. this is really sad part for the one who posted that, this person questions her self if she should sign in again to the forum or not. thanx for reading

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CravingKhana

@CravingKhana

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

HI There,

At the risk of sounding like a mother/teacher...

The forum is a free for all. There are all sorts here..we are blind to each others age, gender, education, profession what not

so why should the opinions of a faceless mostly nameless person bother you...

You have an opinion state it ..not everyone is gonna agree with you. ce la vie!

Have a conversation with those who will listen and ignore the rest mate

Enjoy!

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-Sush-

@-Sush-

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Fazana,

Everyone's opinions are welcome here...Many will understand your point of view if stated without ridiculing or putting any one down...even if a few people react strongly to shut an opinion they don't like...

Edited by -Sush- - 11 years ago

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tvbuf

@tvbuf

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

I hear ya

I get bashed quite often for having an opinion different from others

and pity, the bashers seem to be mature adults, not the teenagers of other forums

Oh well, I am not here to abuse or hit back, I am here to enjoy others posts, and state my opinions

There are too many good posts to miss by staying away, especially all the wonderful picture posts many TMs take so much troubvle to post 😛

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Midnight

@Midnightsorrow

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: tvbuf
I hear ya

I get bashed quite often for having an opinion different from others

and pity, the bashers seem to be mature adults, not the teenagers of other forums

Oh well, I am not here to abuse or hit back, I am here to enjoy others posts, and state my opinions

There are too many good posts to miss by staying away, especially all the wonderful picture posts many TMs take so much troubvle to post 😛

Sorry but your opinion was on personal issues which is uncanceled for, there is a limit to having an opinion than digging deep into personal life and caring what actors does on sets.

Criticism on the shows/actors/show story are more than welcome with open arms because that's what the forum is about we are here for the show mostly and not for what goes on behind RR scenes.

Crossing the line with Personal life is not at all welcome no one should care what actor does or how they behave behind closed sets our actors are matured adults to take good care of themselves and can work out there personal issues.

You thread for example "Not nice Ashish" (If that's what your talking about) criticized him for a silly reason wasn't needed at all you had double standard there. If there was anyone we should bash there it's Sanaya because she wanted to win by cheating!

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--Naina-

@--Naina-

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: tvbuf
I hear ya

I get bashed quite often for having an opinion different from others

and pity, the bashers seem to be mature adults, not the teenagers of other forums

Oh well, I am not here to abuse or hit back, I am here to enjoy others posts, and state my opinions

There are too many good posts to miss by staying away, especially all the wonderful picture posts many TMs take so much troubvle to post 😛

May be we are not agree to each other in some post.. But at end we all are RRians ...

Sometimes i react rudely to some post.. But its not that i dun like that character or actor.. Its just that very moment wat i am reading.. I always love your post . Todays was exceptional 😆

See you around😛

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farzana

@fazanaf

Beginner

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising
Sorry but your opinion was on personal issues which is uncanceled for, there is a limit to having an opinion than digging deep into personal life and caring what actors does on sets.

Criticism on the shows/actors/show story are more than welcome with open arms because that's what the forum is about we are here for the show mostly and not for what goes on behind RR scenes.

Crossing the line with Personal life is not at all welcome no one should care what actor does or how they behave behind closed sets our actors are matured adults to take good care of themselves and can work out there personal issues.

You thread for example "Not nice Ashish" (If that's what your talking about) criticized him for a silly reason wasn't needed at all you had double standard there. If there was anyone we should bash there it's Sanaya because she wanted to win by cheating!

(QOUT) hunny u just did tat to sanaya what u were advicing her/him for ashish 😃
i dont know what she said and i havnt read that post but all i know is the SBs Video u are talking about. the Sbs Sbb Segments videos are not about their personal life, or even if it is, they share it for entertaining so it is not personal anymore. and SBs videos are not personal, they are part of the tv shows. and we all know that we start liking the actors from their offscreen chemistry too that show us on these videos. so the sbs etc is a part of the show and their actor. and yes, if we can share the videos in IF then we can surely talk about it

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bohemia

@bohemia

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

Been around IF way too long (when it was an .in instead of a .com). A negative comment has always been termed bashing here. It is a discussion forum, not an appreciation forum. 😕 RR forum is one of the more sane ones, so to speak. Have yet to encounter fanatics and the vitriolic haters. People do accept criticism here, if you back it by reasoning... they are more open to critiques. Just need to be careful how you word the post. And draw the line somewhere.

Sometimes, I guess you just need to let it go. I had MAJOR (pun intended) issues with the uniform. It is wrong in so many places. Not the first show that messed here, and definitely not the last. Lingering on the same topic gets boring with time.

Like CK said, not everyone is going to agree with you. Be ready to validate your opinion or in some cases, agree to disagree.

Sorry if I sound preachy. 😊 This forum has way more positives than negatives. Just pick the posts/members you want to follow. Ignore the rest.

Edited by .bohemian. - 11 years ago

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