DOTW; LOVE,HATE, FORCED AND ARRANGED marriages

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Posted: 11 years ago
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DOTW DIFFERENT TYPES OF MARRIAGES
Hate marriages forced marriages arranged marriages love marriages history is full of such marriages in the Royal families of different countries resulting in wars and also turning history what with our very recent example of

King Edward VIII did something that monarchs do not have the luxury of doing - he fell in love. King Edward was in love with Mrs. Wallis Simpson, not only an American, but also a married woman already once divorced. Yet, in order to marry the woman he loved, King Edward was willing to give up the British throne - and he did

Jodhaa Akbar is a sixteenth century love story about a political marriage of convenience that gave birth to true love between a great Mughal emperor, Akbar, and a Rajput princess, Jodhaa. King Barmal of Amer, who needed Akbar's protection for his kingdom, offered his daughter's hand in marriage to Akbar and the great Emperor Akbar decided to marry a rather reluctant Jodhaa. Little did Akbar know that the young girl he agreed to marry in order to further strengthen his relations with the Rajputs, was a fiery Rajput princess and he would in turn be embarking upon a new journey-the journey of true love.

European and Indian Royality married for convenience for expanding kingdoms , or increasing wealth sometimes a very young girl being married to aged kings princes and vice versa. Jhansi Lakshmi Bai is one such example.

51 B.C. Cleopatra and her brother Ptolemy XIII become Egypt's rulers/siblings/spouses. In 48 B.C. Cleopatra and Julius Caesar became lovers. She became sole ruler when her brother was drowned during the Alexandrian War (47 B.C.). Cleopatra then had to marry another brother for the sake of formality -- Ptolemy XIV. In 44 B.C. Julius Caesar died. Cleopatra had her brother killed and appointed her 4-year-old son Caesarion as co-regent. Mark Antony became her lover in 41 B.C.


In 48 B.C. Julius Caesar arrived in Egypt and met a 22-year old Cleopatra -- rolled in a carpet, supposedly. An affair followed, leading to the birth of a son, Caesarion. Caesar and Cleopatra left Alexandria for Rome in 45 B.C. A year later Caesar was assassinated.


When Mark Antony and Octavian (to become the Emperor Augustus) came to power in the aftermath of the assassination of Caesar, Cleopatra took up with Antony and had two children by him. Rome was upset with this dalliance since Antony was giving parts of the Roman Empire back to their client Egypt.
Octavian declared war on Cleopatra and Antony. He defeated them at the Battle of Actium.

The wives of Henry VIII were the six queens consort wedded to Henry VIII of England between 1509 and 1547.

The six women to hold the title "queen consort" of King Henry VIII were, in order:

    Catherine of Aragon (annulled; died while detained under guard at Kimbolton Castle);
    Anne Boleyn (annulled and later executed);
    Jane Seymour (died days after giving birth, widely believed to be following birth complications);
    Anne of Cleves (annulled);
    Catherine Howard (annulled and later executed);
  1. Catherine Parr (widowed).

A common mnemonic device to remember the fates of Henry's consorts is "divorced, beheaded, died, divorced, beheaded, survived". There is also a rhyme:

King Henry the Eighth,

to six wives he was wedded.

One died, one survived,

two divorced, two beheaded.

Many Guys and girls are forced to get married according to the wish of their parents. Some Parents even resort to emotional blackmail and threatening to get their children to marry the Guy or girl of their choice. Many times Parents turn a blind eye on whether the girl likes the guy or not. In Indian society, the girls are considered as the property of their married homes and the Parents try to get them married as earlier as possible. In fact, they end up sacrificing their life for the sake of keeping their parents happy.

Just gave a very few examples and no wonder this has also trickled down to all in the common life as well and we have so many shows dealing with love hate force marriages

Since Paro has to marry Rudra against her wishes I thought this will be a interesting topic of discussion,

What say friends lets start the discussion with your examples and POVs

Disclaimer no offence meant to anyone
References taken from the internet.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well... Paro have no other choice here but to accept the marriage.

If she does anything to harm herself or run away her love ones will die (Atleast that what she think Rudra will do)
She can't signed the paper because she knows nothing.

But...I fell this marriage wouldn't happened because Sumer has kept Paro photo and he will meet up with Tejawat men on the wedding night and they will kidnap her on the wedding day and Rudra will save her life again before they even reach to Tejawat.

Atleast I hope they plan some out door location shoot in Rajistani.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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AT this point Paro doesn't have a choice and Rudra is not backing down either.Lets see.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro have no other choice ... she have to accept the marriage
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro Has No Choice.
She Has To Marry.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i love your post...i was also thinking that...on honest note...
i think the marriage of parud is the only option left for paro ...because she cannot do any thing else...
secondly if paro would not marry rudra and sign the papers..then story would reach to it climax...means...villan behind the bar...rudra got to know about his mother...etc

so its better that parud got married...
on the second side...
sumer has got that picture...but i think before sumar would reach thakur sa goons ...they would already married...
but any ways...
drama is going excellent...and hope for best
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I just saw a title of a segment here on IF, that the marriage is going to be based on a contract.. Seriously? Can't these CV not be creative or what?? They are just doing another MEIEJ and another IPKKND. Sorry, but every shows are just showing almost the same. I was enjoying the show so fare, but now it's just the same storyline as the other.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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😊There are couple of things at this point...

First ,Paro doesn't have a choice at this point.

Second, Rugra has four days to come up clean and he will play nasty to come out of it.

Third, Before reaching to the next track we need some drastic things like Paro's truth to be out to heat up the situation and some one's mistake in this hasty circumstances.

Fourth, Rudra and Paro's closeness which is a cue here because to develop hate ,they have to have a spark in between them to burn like a fire so they can consume in it to reborn as new.
Edited by Roop_P - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: olfa-tunisia

Paro have no other choice ... she have to accept the marriage



Paro has choice but she is not willing to accept that choice .

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