Raman is a bad father,worse than Ashok

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hate him for pushing lil ruhi today, 2 days ago also he almost pushed her in drunken state and today he pushed her in party , hate men who hit/push lil kids.
The moment he knew Ruhi is not his biological daughter (which ofcourse she is) he started hating her and pushing her etc

atleast Ashok knows Ruhi isn't his daughter but still wants her to come stay with them nor ever hitted or pushed her.

and Raman's mom always defending him is also wrong, Ruhi said what she feels ''papa acche nahi lagte'' it's really wrong to bring kids in your own misery

Shagun said correctly he is one jealous person in 6 years he is still not over Shagun,he hasn't moved on and is jealous of Ashok/Shagun relationship.


And if he really doubts,why don't he take a DNA test? it only takes 1 hair.

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Mages thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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he is a very complicated man.. only ishu can handle him n make him straight...

I don't think he is jealous of Shashok...he is only affected by shagun's betrayal...for a highly emotional person like him...its not easy to forget his first so called love got betrayed...the problem with him is that he is not expressive either...he hides all his tears...pain...within himself...he doesn't know how to heal pain...that causes him to be frustrated n venting out anger to everyone

he loves his daughter...but I agree he is a bad father...he is ruining his daughter's life by involving his past

Its only matter of time...ishu will reduce the gap b/w father-daughter n raman fall deeply in love with ishu...shagun existence will be erase from his life forever

I don't want to compare ashok with raman...he is a psycho
Edited by Mages - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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instead of finding out why she is only blaming him and making him look bad in-front of his dad 👎🏼
so far not liking her behaviour towards raman at all .. she is only nice to ruhi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yu could say shaman are bad parents
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ahh raman is a man who is crushed down by pain of loosing someone who he loved and trusted more than his life it self😭ashok isa simply a big time creep in it's purest form who use even his own mother for a gain🤢so there already there's no comparisons 😲and raman has now a new light in his life inform of ishu his wife to bring him out of that heart crushing pain and show him the true path of father hood 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Priya-

instead of finding out why she is only blaming him and making him look bad in-front of his dad👎🏼

so far not liking her behaviour towards raman at all .. she is only nice to ruhi



Becos raman has only shown his negative side to ishu...if once he shows his positive side...the next moment its back to square one...she doesn't know him well...they got married in haste...one can't expect to understand his turmoil when she doesn't have a single clue what happen in the party...why he got drunk...what is running in his mind

she told Mr Bhalla becos she expects him to advice raman n try to find out why did he behave so cruel to ruhi

If she wants to make him look bad infront of his father...she would have done the same to ruhi

All ishu needs is one clue...only one clue so that she can solve the issue as well as understand raman's pain n help him to heal it n break away from his past...n bond him well with his daughter

If u notice...after marriage...ishra doesn't even talk to each other...they behave like strangers...ishu sleeps in ruhi's room while raman either sleeps in his own room when he is in sense...when he is drunk...he sleeps in the living room on the couch...with such distance...how would Ishra understand each other n work on their marital relationship...there should be some source of communication to strike a chord...when they open their mouths its either fight or taunt

Ishra marriage is based on compromise n ruhi's sake...of course ishu will be more concern for ruhi than raman...for ishu to care for raman...he needs to make ishu meet the real RKB...not the fake bitter RKB
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages



Becos raman has only shown his negative side to ishu...if once he shows his positive side...the next moment its back to square one...she doesn't know him well...they got married in haste...one can't expect to understand his turmoil when she doesn't have a single clue what happen in the party...why he got drunk...what is running in his mind

she told Mr Bhalla becos she expects him to advice raman n try to find out why did he behave so cruel to ruhi

If she wants to make him look bad infront of his father...she would have done the same to ruhi

All ishu needs is one clue...only one clue so that she can solve the issue as well as understand raman's pain n help him to heal it n break away from his past...n bond him well with his daughter

If u notice...after marriage...ishra doesn't even talk to each other...they behave like strangers...ishu sleeps in ruhi's room while raman either sleeps in his own room when he is in sense...when he is drunk...he sleeps in the living room on the couch...with such distance...how would Ishra understand each other n work on their marital relationship...there should be some source of communication to strike a chord...when they open their mouths its either fight or taunt

Ishra marriage is based on compromise n ruhi's sake...of course ishu will be more concern for ruhi than raman...for ishu to care for raman...he needs to make ishu meet the real RKB...not the fake bitter RKB

how does backbiting ever help
never once dd she try to find out why
she didnt even ask what made him angry

sorry but she is really irritating
yes marriage is for ruhi's sake but that doesnt mean she doesnt take care of her husband
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Posted: 11 years ago
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and no he is not a bad father in this case, what would anyone's first reaction be when his fatherhood is doubted
dna test idea will come later i hope though
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Posted: 11 years ago
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oh come on guys bade lecture de rahe ho Raman crushed by love and betrayal

Come on , he must wakeup and smell the coffee,it has been 6 freaking yrs already. Shagun did niot loved him and left him for a rich guy, is it really worth sitting and weeping for a woman like her since 6 yrs?

I Find people like Raman kind of desperate(my opinion, you can't change it)

He is good-looking, rich,a CEO, He should have tried to move on with a better girl in 6 yrs

glad Ishita came, and about Ruhi who cares if the DNA does not match watch veera serial and you will get

it's not justified to vent your anger on an ex wife on your little id, especially how Ruhi always tries to be close to him, she was only asking whom she looks like more when he pushed her, most of the times he is drunk n misbehaves.

Sorry I don't find him a good father at all, his ego overshadows him, he feeds his ego and nothing else.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have to agree, as someone who has dealt with an abusive father, I must say that ANY excuse, whether it is office-related or even personal, should not be taken out on a CHILD. My relations with my father despite apologies, will never be the same. I will always look at him and think of my childhood. Ruhi might grow up to be a normal girl, but it will always haunt her, and I would know. I know this is a fictional show, but it should, its a little hurtful seeing people still support Raman. He might be a good man, but right now, his behaviour is disgusting and should not be condoned under any circumstances. Five is still young, if Raman doesn't fix himself, she will never change her opinion. I have to also agree with you, that whatever Ashok's motives are, I would rather have a father who was not really around, than one who treats me like crap. I'm talking from personal experience, you can feel free to disagree though.
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