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skar1984

@skar1984

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Posted: 11 years ago

I'm thoroughly disgusted after watching today's episode. I couldn't stop myself from making a post today. I know that if it bugs me this much I should probably not watch the show - and I fully intend on not watching it for sometime.

However - I just can't comprehend what world Samrat lives in. So basically according to him women have no value they are just baby making machines and a glorified chef and maid. A wife especially will not have any say, is not allowed to express her thoughts and views and god-forbid she speaks her mind. My question is why - what makes him think this is ok?

As I was watching the episode - and Urmi and Samrat's scene all I could think was why doesn't she scream at him and tell him to STFU. He married her - he didn't buy her. She is a person and if he's going to teach her about her "Duties" and "Responsibilities" of a wife - what are his responsibilities as a husband? Keeping her in his house, using her for sex and giving her 3 meals a day is not the beginning and end of his duties.

Urmi needs to stand up for herself, she needs to scream back at him and put him in his place. If he kicked her out of the room - good that she's going back coz its her room too but in addition to that she needs to not take care of him. Stop fawning over him, handing him his things etc - she needs to make him feel that until he learns to respect her - she's not going to respect him.

Wake up Urmi and walk out. Put the bas***d in his place and give him a taste of his own medicine.

What are CVs trying to show/prove? I'm a little confused on the message here - if the concept of the show is to say that a girl comes to her in laws with a lot of hopes and desires and reality is different becoz she and her husband are 2 different ppl - they don't need to show him as a monster - they could show a mature progressive story of 2 very different individuals bound by matrimony and how they work it out - grow together or apart - both are fair.

By showing him as a monster - im not sure what the idea is - she's a good wife who took as much as she could and then broke down/got stronger/walked out... I just don't get why they need to show him as a monster.

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srividyahv

@srividyahv

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi. I just read the written updates alone. This Urmi needs to grow up spine. She has to put an end to her mil's crap first. What does her mil want from her? She is always plotting against her. First she should catch hold of her sister in law. Then she will come to know what is the problem in Samrat. She has to get to the root of the problem. But the cv's will take a lot of time to show that. Let's c how the story unfolds.

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

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Posted: 11 years ago

My good Lord!!!! Samrat is just plain disgusting🤢

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

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Posted: 11 years ago

Samrat used to be very realistic, he wasn't over the top in that you could believe he's a total ass, but still a functioning member of society and the family.

One of the things I loved about the character. And even then, I wanted Urmi to walk out on him and for them to never get together.

It's one of the downfalls of this format, I suppose. They want to keep it running so it means keep showing Samrat worse and worse till the time comes for Urmi to start standing up (and I hope) leave him and start a new life.

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Pialovemohit

@Pialovemohit

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Posted: 11 years ago

I want urmi to reform him..as such men exist in indian society..they need to be reformed for the betterment of society..

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Suresh

@suresh555

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Posted: 11 years ago

I think Sammy's mommy should have manipulated the honeymoon sequence and gone to Goa with Sammy instead of Urmi (just to spite Urmi). While in Goa, a white mafia gang should have kidnapped them and bring them to their country and made mommy a maid and Sammy a butler

Can dream can we not ????😉

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shiv0624

@shiv0624

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Posted: 11 years ago

I guess these things happens in the real world and that's what they are trying to portray...however yes I am very disgusted by Samrat...have they found out that he cheated on Urmi yet??

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

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Posted: 11 years ago

Well I completely agree that Samrat is a horrible horrible man.

However, I think the cvs are trying to show that men like Samrat does exist and women like Urmi who take this abuse does exist.

Women like Urmi don't get strong overnight. Men like Samrat normally either don't change or something bad would have to happen in his life for him to change.

So, the only thing we can do is be patient to see what happens or quit watching as this is a very realistic show.

Urmi may never change and Samrat may never change, people like them still live in society.

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dirk41

@dirk41

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Posted: 11 years ago

But just because they exist in society why of we have to show then on television? It appears to give stamp of approval on thus type of behavior.

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zoha11

@zoha11

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Posted: 11 years ago

#10

Normally to deal with issues in society u hve to show them first as hw wud u show solutions to problems unless u show problems..nd its imp for such people to change for a change in society..

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