here... this post is the impact of the highly probable book that I am currently reading .. Taleb's 'The Black Swan'. 😛
Here is the scenario...
Ashu knew Mallu for a looo-ooo-ooo-ng time.. So, they are compatible at a level better than the couple in arranged marriages. With this, I make a theory ... because of this long standing 'soul' relationship, they would have proved a better couple than AshNi.
Though we know, that there was a relationship between them, we behave as if it doesnt exist! We never wanted to take that "risk" of acknowledging it. We brushed it aside a low probable phenomenon. Hence the problem!
Had we accepted the uncertainity that Ashu was going through ( by being a plumber / electrician and giving high priority to Mallu's faltu problems than Nidhi's pure love!)... we would have been a happier lot to see Nidhi happy with some other 'young', 'energetic' and importantly a 'loving and caring' husband... This husband would have been a person who doesnt have a friend of twelve years! This person wouldnt have fired her from the job! and this person would never have asked her to get out of the house in the middle of the night!
See.. how simple.. All social scientists should give me a prize for finding this!😳😳
Sigh!! though we try to make so many theories...using economics, finance or risk management... I remember my granny's words... yeh sab apna apna fate hai... Nidhi ke fate mein likha hua tha.. that she should get married to Ashu... aur it is not written in our fate.. to see a happily ever after relatonship of Ash-Mal... Kya kare...huh!
You often ask me why do I make posts on Mallika...
In Taleb's words... This combination of low predictability and large impact makes the AshMal's soul relationship...a great puzzle!😳 and I like puzzles..😆
There is another reason to make this post! It is Anjani9's wish... to get AshMal married ... so that, Nidhi woould be a happier person !
Now... bhaago... from here ... before economists / finance / management people come after me