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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: msin

Sush since yesterday there has been numerous posts on paro being a widow... Bla bla her dress code.. All that

I really don't think cvs have thought of it as a widow remarriage story... The way I see it it was a bogus marriage.. The baraatis were all disguised terrorists...
I feel the truth of paro' s cousin will come out soon ... To nullify any thought in Paros and audience mind that her marriage was valid...because rudra knows the truth about them I don't think he sees as A widow..



Regarding the whole widow angle..my view is...

The plot they started with and the way presented it...became more negative and serious than what they intended...so they have backed off the constant flash backs of her husband killing shot...and I am glad they have...I was kinda getting tired watching Varun-sa of dying a thousand deaths...😔

Paro has accepted her fate for her reasons...she is not fighting it any more...she has made her peace with staying with him...she asked the God to give her a sign...and she got one...😊

I personally don't expect a bride in her position, who didn't even have any idea who she was going to marry till the day of marriage ...would be so attached to her husband that she would be grieving her loss forever...she has gone through a significant trauma...not only losing her husband but a lot more...but she is taking life as it comes...She has gone through her cycle of grief...even had suicidal thoughts...has tried her best to find an alternative and finally decided to come back...And She is still positive, because she thinks God will make the right win..👍🏼 I do not hold it against her that her grieving cycle does not match some set expectations or social norms, and that she is not wearing certain clothes...I do agree that he does not think of her as a Widow either...

Regarding her spirit or positivity- In a study they found that how positive a person is quite unrelated to the events they go through...for example...very positive people are more positive even after an event like an amputation than negative people ...who stay negative even after winning a lottery and find something to feel sad about and complain...such is human nature...usually positivity comes with letting go of the bad and making peace...🤓

So I am quite OK with giving the creatives a break and enjoying the show which is here purely for entertainment purposes... And yes, hopefully the truth a about these false weddings will come out soon ...😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Vera


I noticed it too! 😊

Lovely post Sush!


Ranwat SR.. Liked her as his Bahu even before he knew her name...the name was a ver positive sign confirming he made the right judgement😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: -Sush-



Regarding the whole widow angle..my view is...

The plot they started with and the way presented it...became more negative and serious than what they intended...so they have backed off the constant flash backs of her husband killing shot...and I am glad they have...I was kinda getting tired watching Varun-sa of dying a thousand deaths...😔

Paro has accepted her fate for her reasons...she is not fighting it any more...she has made her peace with staying with him...she asked the God to give her a sign...and she got one...😊

I personally don't expect a bride in her position, who didn't even have any idea who she was going to marry till the day of marriage ...would be so attached to her husband that she would be grieving her loss forever...she has gone through a significant trauma...not only losing her husband but a lot more...but she is taking life as it comes...She has gone through her cycle of grief...even had suicidal thoughts...has tried her best to find an alternative and finally decided to come back...And She is still positive, because she thinks God will make the right win..👍🏼 I do not hold it against her that her grieving cycle does not match some set expectations or social norms, and that she is not wearing certain clothes...I do agree that he does not think of her as a Widow either...

Regarding her spirit or positivity- In a study they found that how positive a person is quite unrelated to the events they go through...for example...very positive people are more positive even after an event like an amputation than negative people ...who stay negative even after winning a lottery and find something to feel sad about and complain...such is human nature...usually positivity comes with letting go of the bad and making peace...🤓

So I am quite OK with giving the creatives a break and enjoying the show which is here purely for entertainment purposes... And yes, hopefully the truth a about these false weddings will come out soon ...😃
[/ Nice post sush . I am satisfied to see the positive thought about paro being widow . I am sure they will not prologue this part more . The c.v.'s will have start the story of paro's sister to nullify the marriage . I don't see one reason to say it was a valid marriage .
Disher is a man with good heart and his efforts to clear paro's character was really appreciable. The man who thought his son not to trust beautiful woman now takes paro side , again a beautiful woman . Though he suffered in past he still sees the goodness in people .

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Posted: 12 years ago
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As usual loved your take.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think the reason why Rudra listened to Parvati's requests was because she was only asking for things she needs. New clothes were an absolute necessity even he realizes she can't wear that bridal ghaghra forever and then when the shirt ripped it needed to be fixed. He also realizes that he is the one that has to take the responsibility in providing it for her. She is all alone and has absolutely no where else to go and that he created the situation that she is in. On a side note I really liked how he had to pause and basically weigh the pro's and con's before asking Sunerhi for the needle and thread.

The scene with Sumarat and Tanveer was just him keeping his emotional wall intact by using the only thing he knows, his authority, to keep them at bay. He is not ready for family to enter into his world, so he has built not only a physical line for them not to cross but an authoritative one, by declaring it his father's house and if they want to stay they better just do as he says and not to discuss household grievances at work.

Dilsher. What can I say about this man? For someone who has only known her for a day and a half, when he saw this innocent girl being painted as a s**t, he not only stood up for her but embraced her as a daughter today. Not only sheltering her from the harsh words being flung at her but by giving her a relationship that she could use as a salvation from them. I really can see why he would take Rudra out of this house when he was younger. He didn't have a way to stop the insults then so he did the only thing he could to keep the taunts from reaching his sons ears, he chose to leave. Even under his gruffness I think his love for Rudra made him choose to leave and take him away from the negativity. Yes, he was harsh with him but I think that might have been partially his frustration in watching Rudra clinging to hope that his mother would return one day and him needing Rudra to face the reality of the situation.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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b👍🏼ring it on i loved your post babes
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dakshaavi


I agree Daksha...Thankur was pretty much selling the village girls in the pretext of it being a marriage...Thats that...!



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonia_1

Lovely post.

Rudra will have to mend what he has torn...wonder if he will do that just as quietly as he acquiesced to the needle and thread demand 😆

👍🏼Of course the deeper context is to fix the deeper mess he has made by his approach to tear the entire sleeve out when there is a small tear ...which could have been fixed with a more delicate approach...



Well stated Sonia,
Getting needle and thread for some one and
Marrying some one...

Hmmm...

Could be a bit different, Just a wild guess!!!😆

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