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megha_b

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Posted: 12 years ago

well today the forum is very negative specially evryone is talking against Astha sooo much...but i really dont understand why...i know astha is silly,hasty,stupid ,emotional fool,and you can add some more things...but i dont think she is totally wrong...

the first and the most important thing is that astha was never ready for the divorce..it was kalindi's wish and astha just agreed to make her happy...and we could sense that from the moment she heard about divorce,when shlok agreed to give her divorce to when she signed the papers...she left evrything becoz she was angry but not ready for divorce...it came as a shock for her as it was for all of us...

and when anyone is not mentally ready for something you cannot act smartly or intelligently at that particular situation...that is why astha could not answer properly to the questions asked by the judge...she cannot say anything which she has nt felt yet..

she said evrythg about her marriage that shlok hates her,their marriage was just a revenge for shlok but it is also true that she really loves him...her feelings for him were nt fake...and all those things stopped her from saying anythg wrong about shlok..

and when it comes to coming back to agnihotri mansion...astha and her family is really simple and innocent people and they are nt as clever as NA is that's why they accepted the decision given by the court becoz for them that is the right and the only way to get astha out of this relationship...they cant think of paying the judge and get their work done..

as it comes to what anjali,sojal and jaya are doing... i think it rarely matters wht others are saying or doing when a women is cheated by her own husband...isse bada dokha or koi ho nhi sakta...and so evry other thing has minimal impact on her thats why she didnt react to the rubbish sojal was talkg...

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Neelum.drashti

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Posted: 12 years ago

Totally agree👍🏼 and judge also didn't give her chance to say much. when she started to ask question from shlok, judge said its personal matter, yet him asking aastha that does she love shlok,wasn't that a personal question too? ...and anyway, jusge was in NA's pocket, aastah could have given brilliant defence and he would have ruled in shlok's favour.

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megha_b

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Neelum.drashti
Totally agree👍🏼 and judge also didn't give her chance to say much. when she started to ask question from shlok, judge said its personal matter, yet him asking aastha that does she love shlok,wasn't that a personal question too? ...and anyway, jusge was in NA's pocket, aastah could have given brilliant defence and he would have ruled in shlok's favour.

yes absolutely and at the end astha had to come back for the story to go ahead...they cant keep on fighting a court case forever😆

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Neelum.drashti

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: megha_b
yes absolutely and at the end astha had to come back for the story to go ahead...they cant keep on fighting a court case forever😆

agreed and shlok's liver can't take t any more too😆

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tinklefan

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Posted: 12 years ago

good post.. When Kalindi came to agony house i thought she will insist shlok to come and stay at kirloskar house (as Ghar Jamai) than aastha going to agony house..

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Ishq-Dua

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Posted: 12 years ago

totally agree

what could Aastha do more than what she already did.

She told the judge that Shlok married her for revenge but the judge asked her if she did fall in love with him and Aastha answered honestly and said she did because that's the truth. In fact when Shlok and Aastha were talking to the judge both looked immature and weren't sure about their decisions. Arguing like kids in front of the judge. So that's why the judge took this decision for them cause he thought that these two need a chance to get closer and understand each other better. Not to forget the judge was connected with NA, so he would have taken this decision anyway.

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ktja

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice post. It is difficult for her to accept the fact that her instincts betrayed her about Shlok so she is basically right in coming back.

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multiDimensions

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Posted: 12 years ago

astha needs to be back physically to move on otherwise if she fleeds currently, she will be stuck mentally in the current situation, just like kalindi,

she did the right thing

she really wants to move on by finding answers instead of running away