I loved the episode yesterday, but...

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So my first post in this forum. Work in the media industry and used to be a regular on IF earlier but later stopped posting.

Have liked this show from the time i understood the story. (the initial promo really confused me 😆😆) and esp. loved the last 2 episodes esp., with the awesome characterizations shown... the small nuances that changed the cliches & banalities into very real, believable and flesh n blood people...

1. Loved why Zain doesnt want to marry her, coz he's a carefree, bindaas guy who wants to just live life for now, but not someone who's a good-for-nothing shirker. He has a strong sense of right & wrong - against dahej, comforting her, staying on coz of a sense of 'what is due to his father's trust'

2. Esp. loved why Alia didnt want to marry him, which otherwise would have seemed a good match from her POV and in her predicament. The fact that he is immature, against her grounded self. And esp. the fact that it would seemingly give substance to the unfounded aspersions cast on her characters. Really made her rise in my mind as a rare self-respecting character

3. Loved how Usmaan dealt with the situation. He was not like a typical GEC father being scandalized by the situation and jumping to wrong conclusions about his children. He was like a regular, sensible yet strong n principled father who correctly gauged the situation and scolded where it was due - he knew the problems of a joke taken too far and in possibly not very good taste yet he knew that his son was a good person capable of keeping Alia happy. He was the best friend to both and genuinely realized that these 2 will keep each other happy coz of what he knows about both of them, something that even they dont know about the other yet.

This was all the good part... BUT...

The one part i felt uncomfortable about was that... till now theirs has been a very equal sparring, with equal mischief, attitude and even reluctance on both sides... however with yesterday's episode, it seems as if he and his family will see Alia's change of stand as a betrayal. And i fear that the equation post marriage will, instead of a mutual irritation, become a one-way thing wherein the onus of proving that she didnt trap him into it will be on her... SO DON'T WANT THAT. SO WANT THEM AS MUTUALLY RELUCTANT SPOUSES TO REALIZE THE OTHER'S WORTH 😭

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I like the points you mention except -the fact that Zain is immature as Aliya states, had he been he would have walked out those doors when given the chance. He has this childish enthusiasm, which makes him see the lighter side of life as he sails through.

I think your But comes more from being concerned about the show and wanting to love it the same in future.

When Zain heard Aliya had said yes not only from her side but his too. He was dejected and felt betrayed, not angry. ||Edited: This will be that one thing which he will hold against her, coz only recently he admitted it was his fault and apologized. So until then things were fine, but now Aliya broke her promise.

So both of them now have something to hold against each other as they get wedded, which will bring a balance on both sides. ||

Being Positive about the show, so far they have Exceeded Expectations 👍🏼

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Posted: 11 years ago
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interesting points, Zain has till now only felt irritation towards Aliya but after yesterday there will be hatred and betrayal and that I think how the future episodes will be dealt with, this show has surprised everyone hoping for the best
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheWandmaker

I like the points you mention except -the fact that Zain is immature as Aliya states, had he been he would have walked out those doors when given the chance. He has this childish enthusiasm, which makes him see the lighter side of life as he sails through.


I think your But comes more from being concerned about the show and wanting to love it the same in future.

When Zain heard Aliya had said yes not only from her side but his too. He was dejected and felt betrayed, not angry. ||Edited: This will be that one thing which he will hold against her, coz only recently he admitted it was his fault and apologized. So until then things were fine, but now Aliya broke her promise.

So both of them now have something to hold against each other as they get wedded, which will bring a balance on both sides. ||

Being Positive about the show, so far they have Exceeded Expectations 👍🏼


SO i used 'immature' not in the negative sense, but in the carefree, blithe sense. you know those guys who with the best intentions in the world will sometimes 'just not get it' as to why someone is taking 'so much load'. immature not in bad sense but in the unworldly sense where one hasnt become as worldly-wise, Eg. a joke like this could go awry...

And yes, my 'But' is COMPLETELY in the zone of 'i want to continue loving this show'.😆😆
i would be happy if each one holds one thing against the other, balancing the equation 😛😛rather than her being at the receiving end, something that is being shown across love stories currently, something that isnt here as yet and sets it apart!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Desigirl_21

interesting points, Zain has till now only felt irritation towards Aliya but after yesterday there will be hatred and betrayal and that I think how the future episodes will be dealt with, this show has surprised everyone hoping for the best


That is true... this show has always surprised us with refreshingly different ways in which issues are dealt with. Am hoping that even this gets dealt with in a different way, and not the GEC way i am fearing!
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hehe akkiluvsnbt, dont just stalk, please let me know your views!! 😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agreee with your post completely! This is what I was mad at, that Aliya is being portrayed as someone who trapped Zain into this marriage. No wonder he's going to make life hell for her.
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Originally posted by: ash.17

Agreee with your post completely! This is what I was mad at, that Aliya is being portrayed as someone who trapped Zain into this marriage. No wonder he's going to make life hell for her.


Yup!!! and i SOOO dont want that... it would have been nice to have another BALH for a change... wherein both of them are stuck in a situation and not just one
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Desigirl_21

interesting points, Zain has till now only felt irritation towards Aliya but after yesterday there will be hatred and betrayal and that I think how the future episodes will be dealt with, this show has surprised everyone hoping for the best

I swear to god I was so about to type this down until I saw your comment!! You literally read my brain!! 😆

Topic Maker: Nice Post 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Maryam.K-

I swear to god I was so about to type this down until I saw your comment!! You literally read my brain!! 😆

Topic Maker: Nice Post 😃

Ha Ha nice one, glad to know we hve similar view points😆

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