Vickram's Calm Goes Kaput! - Page 2

Originally posted by: payal7

TVS behaves like that because he is fustrated.

TVS has told her that his marriage to Reva was over a very long time ago and he will divorce her so that can they can get married and live their life happily. Generally men deal with issues/problems in a practical way. Hence his practical answer to their problem.

Sugni unfortunately has not been able to clearly articulate to him that as a Bedni she and her caste are already considered home rackers and if he divorces Reva and marries her than she will be called a home racker and she does not want that stigma. Women are generally more emotional so instead she keeps saying things like "mein apna pyaar krubaan kardugi" "mein apni kusshi ka liya kisi ka ghar na todugi".

I think he does not understand why she is obessed with marriage when he considers it to be over.

In ideal world these two need to be locked in a room to talk. He will shout at her, she will scream at him but once they have got all that pent up frustration out of the way they will able to talk to each other calmly make each other understand their point view. They may not agree but will understand. Only then they can move forward. We all know thats never going to happen so this is just going to go on until we are bored stiff.

Payal you are so right...To Vickram the solution to his problem is the divorce. The big problem I am havng with that is Adi, because Adi was witness to Reva's violent side and he understood the depth of Vickram's feelings , yet he decided to stobbornly, or what he terms selflessly , stand in the way!! So where you are saying Vickram solution to the problem was a logical practical one, Adi's solutions was an emotionally based one??? What about the phrase "Blood is thicker than water"?? Vickrams feelings ment nothing to him.
As for Sugni...she needs to set her prorities right!. She is confused because in not breaking one unhappy home, she is ruining everything else in her life!...I would love to see a real showdown between Vickram and Sugni with the shouting , crying accusations but I agree with yoiu they might not give us that!

Originally posted by: seemasr

In my opinion it is Sugni who is making him crazy.She comes up with excuses that is unbelievable.

Most of the time she does not have any rational answers for Vicky's questions.

When she could not find answer she start counterblame.

Any man can go mad.

I hope the way Vik said " my foot" should tell sugni "go to gutter".

Sugni has no answer for Vickram because I am sure if she thinks about what he said it will all make sense to her and she dose not whant that. It is alughable when she told him by the pond , he forgot the meaning of love...she forgot he was the one who thought her what love was! lol

Originally posted by: cherryb

Having to deal with Sugni would even try the patience of a SAINT 😕

That it would indeed!

Originally posted by: JulieD

She is an irrational person who does not think about the consequences of her actions. TVS on the other hand keeps trying to explain his position to her and try to make her see the stupidity in what she is doing. She does not want to accept that she is wrong and therefore cannot answer him and goes and do another stupid thing. That then triggers him into being a crazy guy. It is all a chain reaction

Some make call it youth, immaturity, teenage years! We all went through it, where we acted befor we thought it through!. Vickram being the mature of the two is able to see the foolishness of her actions,and he understands it . But sometimes I think she goes pushing to far and his patience starts running thin...
His love for her is feeding on her arrogance and somewhere along the line her ego is saying "I wonder how far I can push him befor he breaks!" It just might backfire on her one day if she is nt careful because Vickram maybe in love with her but he is no body's fool and there is only so much he will take before he strightens her out

I know I will get grief for saying this but I actually like this TVS better - a little rough around the edges.