gulabia is breaking sugni's heart not TVS - Page 2

G SEEMS TO LOOSE HER BALANCE TODAY AND I HAVE EXPRESSED my displeasure at her through emoticons in WU she is shouting and talking all sort of nonsense and worst was asking VS to do Sugni's sardakayi why is she shouting her approach to the problem looks odd but thata what maybe people do at that level and CVs showing it she is not educated and does not seem to know how to tackle one side Sugni is disbelieving her and TVS is too powerful and can hide the proof.

I think by saying do sugni's sardhakai instead she meant atleast sugni will b prepared tht she is his bedni and he will b honest about that..
Wat TVS is doing right now is building hopes of sugni jus to crash them, which is gonna brk her beyond repair..
Jus my pov.

I think Gulabia is not breaking sugni's heart... She is trying to save her daughter from danger that see feels... because TVS first wife is alive... She is very much helpless and can't do anything as sugani is not trusting her and she had no evidence of Rewa to show the truth to sugni.

I think Gulabiya is just frustrated at this point and doesn't know what else to do. But she should never have mentioned Sardakhai. That was just disgusting.

ithink we are looking at this from a wrong perspective. from what i think she believes vikram will never marry sugni because he is married and she is using reverse scicology to make him feel bad about what he is doing to a girl who love him with her body heart and soul. meaning better he do her sardakhi and she will remain his misterss because she will never be his wife unless his first wife dies and the way dhannuma operating dont you guys feel thats her daughter vikram wife.so in my mind i dont think she want him to do sardakhi because she knows that will break her daughter heart

I disagree

Gulabia knows that Sugni's heartbreak would be bigger if her faith in VS's love for her would break, that is if Sugni finds out that VS lied to her about his dead wife.

Sar Dhakai seems to be lesser of two evils in Gulabia's mind. She has tried her best to make Sugni realize about Reva and has failed. She can see how badly Sugni is trapped in VS's love. Gulabia has tried to reason with VS to spare her daighter from the heartbreak but has failed. G thinks that TV lying about his wife being alive would be a bigger shock for Sugni. G may also be trying to make VS's true agenda come out since she cannot understand why VS is lying about his wife. Any mother would think her daughter is being played with

Originally posted by: Laila2009

At this point Gulabiya hates TVS because she (Sugni) will be a mockery as his second wife..but the fact she is OK in selling her to TVS apalls me. I think TVS should have just written her check right there and said to Sugni...your mother wants to sell you. I am going to "BUY" you and then we will do some stupid sardakai and THEN I will marry you..Play her trumph card. She's not helping her daughter...the fact is her daughter IS going to be broken at this point...it would have happened period.

Between the two of them, Sugni is going to have a breakdown.

In most cases 2nd wife has no legal status and would be considered as a mistress. How can a prostitute be any different than a mistress??

This is my first post. I hope I do this right. Wish me luck!I think G's reasons behind saying that to V was to see how far he was willing to go. You guys have to remember that all these years she has kept Sugni away from doing what all the other women are doing. Keeping her dreams alive of one day making them come true. And for a while, she thought they were and she was beyond herself. But that was when she thought that V's wife was really dead. Even if V marries Sugni now, Sugni is not going to get the respect that G and Sugni have always dreamt of. Even if V marries Sugni infront of everyone with all the traditional stuff, Sugni will become the 2nd wife. And in G's eyes that is what G herself is and she doesn't see a difference. A 2nd wife is a 2nd wife. She doesn't want Sugni to go through the same things that she went through. And for Sugni it is going to be ten times worse beucaue all her life she has been running away from being the 2nd women, but if V does marry her (with Reva alive), then she will be the 2nd women and she is going to hate herself for it. That is what G fears the most and that is why she can't think straight or "logical" as some of you might say. When you have children and they are in trouble, all logic excapes your mind becasue the first thing that comes to your mind it to keep them away from harms away. And for G harms way is V and she is going to do whatever it takes (even if it's her life) to make sure V stays away from Sugni. That is all she can think about now. Being a new mom myself, I don't think G is doing anything wrong. She is doing what any mom would do and that is to protect her love and joy, her baby. Sometimes we do things even if it makes the people we love mad because it is for their own good. And as parents we do that everyday. Think of your parents. How many times have they done things that mave made you furious. But when you think of it now, you know it was for your own good.