Its True Love makes one BLIND! DUMB & DEAF follows

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I had not seen the Friday episode, else i would have made a post on this earlier...but after seeing the repeat just a few mins back i had to make one...

Its always been Sugni's dream one she has been living since childhood to marry somebody who would love and respect her. Though a Bedini by birth, Sugni never followed the life-style of one...She wanted to become the Jeevan Sangini of one not many...And wanted the respect a wife would get in the society...

Her Dreams found wings , they started taking shape when she met Vikram and eventually fell in love with Him...But no matter her attitude on the Friday episode was completely out of character and unreasonable. The one and only point where her actions and dialogues can be justified is that she is in love...But frankly what she did was a complete contrast to the Sugini that they have always shown...She is in love i agree but did she sell off her self-respect which she held high above all?

Gulabiya mentions that she is her mother and has seen the world much more than Sugini...But i don't think for a person who swears to live by her honor and self respect there is the need of any experience or high intellect to understand the taunts and insults session that took place at her home solely headed by Vikram Takur's Sister...I am saying this again "I KNOW SHE IS IN LOVE" but does that give you the audacity to talk to her mother in such a rude manner when somewhere deep within her heart she knows that her Mom was right and Takurain Devi was in fact insulting them?

I can never blame Gulabiya for her actions and Salute her as a mother!!!! Not once did she hesitate to stand up to Takurain Devi's Taunts and insults...She plain simply stated what was actually going on and questioned Takurain Devi bearing in mind her position as a Bedini but not forgetting that she is a mother too and that to one who places self-respect above all.

There was a question that Gulabiya asked her daughter "Had Vikram Takur become more important?" there was so much pain and expectation in it that question...All she had to do was say "Aisa kucho nahi hai Maai" and calm her mother, because Sugini knows that there is something disturbing her mother(The whole Rewa Manzil)...

"Apna toh aakhir apna hota hai..." and this is probably the reason that Gulabiya did not back off and went on to investigate what's the secret inside "Rewa Manzil"...I wonder what Sugni would do on finding out the truth about Vikrams' Wife???

So maybe what i am trying to say is that its impossible to relate to Sugni's behavior on Friday..."Josh mein aake Hosh gavana nahi chahiye"

Love Viji


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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you re: Gulabia's actions but I think Sugni's acting like any young girl in the middle of her first grand passion. The world well lost for love, zamane ko dikhana hai, etc. Poor thing is going to take a big fall one of these days and then she will appreciate Gulabia even more.

I also suspect Gulabia was pretty much the same when it came to Jwala Thakur. (Gross!)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Viji a very good post and I like your analysis reasoning as well as the title of your thread. In fact from the past few days it has been happening and Sugni is in fact placing TVS above her mother especially from the time he has publicly declared that he will marry her.she is refusing to see the problems and feels everything is rosy TVS has completely swept her with his charm and putting her above all his family she is following his example at her home and he is also telling her whenever occasion arises not to listen to anyone and follow her love😉 which she seems to be doing even if something very wrong about him is revealed I fear she will not leave him. She is totally infatuated with him as she does not know what love is yet.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bumtrinket

I agree with you re: Gulabia's actions but I think Sugni's acting like any young girl in the middle of her first grand passion. The world well lost for love, zamane ko dikhana hai, etc. Poor thing is going to take a big fall one of these days and then she will appreciate Gulabia even more.


I also suspect Gulabia was pretty much the same when it came to Jwala Thakur. (Gross!)



This is exactly why i mentioned that she is in love and thus the actions...😆 but yes i agree coming days its going to be a huge blow for Sugni
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: chalhov

Viji a very good post and I like your analysis reasoning as well as the title of your thread. In fact from the past few days it has been happening and Sugni is in fact placing TVS above her mother especially from the time he has publicly declared that he will marry her.she is refusing to see the problems and feels everything is rosy TVS has completely swept her with his charm and putting her above all his family she is following his example at her home and he is also telling her whenever occasion arises not to listen to anyone and follow her love😉 which she seems to be doing even if something very wrong about him is revealed I fear she will not leave him. She is totally infatuated with him as she does not know what love is yet.



Thanks dear!

Oh i don't hope that happens...The moment she saw the pic of Vikram's wife she was ready to flee from the scene but well now it can be too or against also😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bumtrinket

I agree with you re: Gulabia's actions but I think Sugni's acting like any young girl in the middle of her first grand passion. The world well lost for love, zamane ko dikhana hai, etc. Poor thing is going to take a big fall one of these days and then she will appreciate Gulabia even more.


I also suspect Gulabia was pretty much the same when it came to Jwala Thakur. (Gross!)



Great Post !
100% agree that soon the blinders will be off and she will understand her mother's concerns, sad thing is she might have to get her heart broken to realize it.!
I do think Gulabiya was still the same where Jwala Thakur is concerned, maybe she still is, any one remember her reaction when they were about to remove the mangal Sutra? She was visibly upset, and till today she wears it I would say proudly, so I would say she still has feelings for him!
The difference I always found with Sugni, is although she listens to Vickram, she also takes her mothers view into consideration, and she always asks him about it, even if she takes a while, like the night she asked if "there love will change into marriage" and off course he knows what to say to appease her and she takes whatever he says happily to heart!
Now with Friday's episode, she know very well that JiJI dislikes her, that was nothing new, and because she is witness to the discord between brother and sister where she is concerned and she even told him that., they should end the relationship, (which he became a little crazy at that thought) she know how much family means to him. I think she was going to "take one for the team" and swallow the insult just for His sake. I understand where she is coming from.
Both mother and daughter were right in their stance that was just a lose- lose situation.
Love makes us do crazy things and it is sometimes left to those outside the bubble to snap us out of it!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Interesting title👏 true love makes one blind but Sugini's behavior is more like of a girl who is infatuated. In true love a person is able to see his or her lover's flaws but is willing to accept them. Sugini is not being able to see TVS'S flaws and is blaming her mother instead.She should listen to her mother and I would never blame Gulabiya for standing up to Jijii. Sugini is heading for a blow
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: anastasia211092

Interesting title👏 true love makes one blind but Sugini's behavior is more like of a girl who is infatuated. In true love a person is able to see his or her lover's flaws but is willing to accept them. Sugini is not being able to see TVS'S flaws and is blaming her mother instead.She should listen to her mother and I would never blame Gulabiya for standing up to Jijii. Sugini is heading for a blow




Thanks dear...That's an interesting perspective...And i agree Sugni is surely heading for a blow
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vinnie79



Great Post !
100% agree that soon the blinders will be off and she will understand her mother's concerns, sad thing is she might have to get her heart broken to realize it.!
I do think Gulabiya was still the same where Jwala Thakur is concerned, maybe she still is, any one remember her reaction when they were about to remove the mangal Sutra? She was visibly upset, and till today she wears it I would say proudly, so I would say she still has feelings for him!
The difference I always found with Sugni, is although she listens to Vickram, she also takes her mothers view into consideration, and she always asks him about it, even if she takes a while, like the night she asked if "there love will change into marriage" and off course he knows what to say to appease her and she takes whatever he says happily to heart!
Now with Friday's episode, she know very well that JiJI dislikes her, that was nothing new, and because she is witness to the discord between brother and sister where she is concerned and she even told him that., they should end the relationship, (which he became a little crazy at that thought) she know how much family means to him. I think she was going to "take one for the team" and swallow the insult just for His sake. I understand where she is coming from.
Both mother and daughter were right in their stance that was just a lose- lose situation.
Love makes us do crazy things and it is sometimes left to those outside the bubble to snap us out of it!





That's a different way of seeing it..😊

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