Its always been Sugni's dream one she has been living since childhood to marry somebody who would love and respect her. Though a Bedini by birth, Sugni never followed the life-style of one...She wanted to become the Jeevan Sangini of one not many...And wanted the respect a wife would get in the society...
Her Dreams found wings , they started taking shape when she met Vikram and eventually fell in love with Him...But no matter her attitude on the Friday episode was completely out of character and unreasonable. The one and only point where her actions and dialogues can be justified is that she is in love...But frankly what she did was a complete contrast to the Sugini that they have always shown...She is in love i agree but did she sell off her self-respect which she held high above all?
Gulabiya mentions that she is her mother and has seen the world much more than Sugini...But i don't think for a person who swears to live by her honor and self respect there is the need of any experience or high intellect to understand the taunts and insults session that took place at her home solely headed by Vikram Takur's Sister...I am saying this again "I KNOW SHE IS IN LOVE" but does that give you the audacity to talk to her mother in such a rude manner when somewhere deep within her heart she knows that her Mom was right and Takurain Devi was in fact insulting them?
I can never blame Gulabiya for her actions and Salute her as a mother!!!! Not once did she hesitate to stand up to Takurain Devi's Taunts and insults...She plain simply stated what was actually going on and questioned Takurain Devi bearing in mind her position as a Bedini but not forgetting that she is a mother too and that to one who places self-respect above all.
There was a question that Gulabiya asked her daughter "Had Vikram Takur become more important?" there was so much pain and expectation in it that question...All she had to do was say "Aisa kucho nahi hai Maai" and calm her mother, because Sugini knows that there is something disturbing her mother(The whole Rewa Manzil)...
"Apna toh aakhir apna hota hai..." and this is probably the reason that Gulabiya did not back off and went on to investigate what's the secret inside "Rewa Manzil"...I wonder what Sugni would do on finding out the truth about Vikrams' Wife???
So maybe what i am trying to say is that its impossible to relate to Sugni's behavior on Friday..."Josh mein aake Hosh gavana nahi chahiye"
Love Viji