Love -Devotion Obsession and confusion - Page 2

hi piu...

fab. just loved what u wrote.

OMG we called and you answer by giving us this amazing post .

I'm still trying to figure out what is love so can't give a definitive answered but will say we all view and define love in different ways. TVS believes he's in love so I accept and Sugni & Gulabiya don't doubt his love so again I accept 😆.

That is the thing like even though TVS may love Sugni the girl is still in the dark cause of his lies. To me the reason he tried to bridge physical gap is cause he's a man in love and the girl is beautiful and they're always in these moment that seem to ignite to act on how he's feeling. True love is trust in which I find funny cause that is the one thing TVS speak on a lot is that in other for there relationship to work they have to trust each other. He trust Sugni & his love but still not enough to divulge the whole truth. 😕

Well in the case of seeing TVS for more then what he is, I would say is our own fault. He never proclaim to be anything he's just a man with faults and selfish behavior and he even though he's doing what come natural to him, we put him on a pedestal that he didn't ask for or proclaim. You said it yourself TVS holding Sugni hands and doing all these things that defy rules and regulation is how he's always been so why are we so quick to think he's a prince charming when that is the further thing from the truth. TVS has told sugni on many times he's not god but and there is no bedin or thakur in there relationship just a man whose madly in love with a woman.

I'm glad you brought up that scene again with the water cause it always confuses me 😕 The pooja was going to be done by Vik but due to an emergency Adi did but in Vik name so again how can Adi be her oasis? 😕

Oh so you also feel that TVS has actually fallen for Sugni too 😆. Hmm this is were we differ no doubt a lie is lie no matter what but how can you say that cause he lied his love isn't true? I don't think one has to do with the other. I've always find people hurt the ones we love most. I have no issues if Sugni never forgive and throw him to the curb ( then he's mine ☺️) for deceiving her but I can't say that his love isn't true. We could also argue later if Sugni truly love Vik she'll stand by him and understand why he couldn't tell the truth. Gosh I still remember the fear in his eyes when she saw his wedding pic and he put his hand on her shoulder gosh Sugni shrug it off in such a way it shock the crap out of him 🤣

I also love seeing that spunk back too and just love how he had her sit up on top stairs and him down with his hands on her lap and that nahin baba was just too cute. 😳

I don't think he was putting his thoughts in her head cause Sugni was more worried about those snob then spending quality time together. He just playfully answer her question about why should we listen to our hearts beats and said the rest. Like you said if is there is there, so to me no matter how Vik explain about his experience and feelings of love if she doesn't feel it then it isn't there. We all go through that when someone describing there love for something passionately in ways you should be on board just hearing and seeing it in there eyes but after everything you feel zilch zero . I have no doubt Sugni love Vik, I have an issue with her seeing him as a messiah then a man. That's why I was a taught never to Idolize man cause they will disappoint you cause they're humans not God.

Thanks for the beautiful description on Raai, never heard of it until this show. Yeah I knew from the beginning that there would be a obsessive behavior in his character so no shock there. If you had doubt that scene of him viewing her pics in the dark in his room should been a clear confirmation.
Ek shulja shulja sa jawab ek uljha uljha sa sawal ) 😍

I love Amu dancing with Sugvi too my favorite part about and the dance. You're so right we're a product of our environment that's the sad thing about those women who blame the bedni but not the men who suppress them to be force in this lifestyle. Chi chi

Piu I give up on the actor cause Adi is such a rich character and a fundamental part of the story but due to the actor I can't enjoy his scenes cause it lacks impact. I see him like TVS sister not sure of her name just standing there but then again I take it back even with no lines the girl delivers the right expression.

Adi & Amrita love, you could be right there is something missing or is it cause he's not giving the right expression that's why we have doubts when we probably shouldn't 😕

I'm sorry for the long reply but just wanted to show I survive your post 😆 and with a masterpiece analysis, I had to comment on all points.

PIU🤗 after a long time yes lots of developments and mystery your Popet got engaged to Amu but how long will Jiji(Uma) let it be have to watch looking at the modern outlook of Amu and her supporting VS Sugni she infact supported her even before mamaji declared his love for her and gave Vachans. Infact I also loved the way she danced along with her. Loved your analysis on Love and Raai. Did not associated it with the condiment Rai that we use every day in our" chok" for seasoning our vegetables and food indeed it was really spluttering to know😆

Liked the way you analyzed the song. Sugni's intentions and why she danced were good, she only danced for her TM and thank him and also save the family from insult though the most insulting was Jiji and the smouldering looks of anger she got from her Bro for manipulating Sugni so that she herself offers to dance .Well she is getting on his wrong side and one day she will have to reap the harvest of her hate Sugni campaign

The way you termed VS love for Sugni as obsession at present I dont think even VS realizes it but something is not correct despite his vachans and all which keeps nagging at the back of my mind maybe because of reading the gist of the story or the way VS kept watching the pictures of Sugni in the computer specially the one with her drinking water but very superb acting by Varun and Gulki which floored most of us in the forum,

Mirage and sand in the fist very poetic lets see whether its obsessive love or manipulation of an impressionable girl and with lot of economic and social discrepancies in thier lives, also age

Adi's character is very interesting though not the actor who cant get his expressions right so far he has yet to impress the viewers being a handsome hulk with doley sholey does not impress 😆😉 whereas the right acting does. Have to see how his role will be molded by the CVs and interesting predictions by you.

Its always easier to blame others then to see what faults we have so that is the attitude of Thakurs' wives who have been fed hate" Bedni" since childhood and also maybe its the norm for Thakurs to have a Bedni in that place whatever it is its the women folk who suffer whether Bedni or Thakur wives

On the lighter side TM also cant control Sugni she does what her heart tells her is right or wrong and is spontaneous so she is like running(chanchal) water cant stay at one place or follow the set norms😃👏

And agree with you very good acting by Varun Gulki Narayani and also good by others except SE who needs to yet impress his audience.

Do keep posting you make very interesting threads

Oh!!!! sach hai ya sapna...

Originally posted by: SylvaniaLUX

Fab post ... I loved the information you gave about the Raai dance form..never did connect with the mustard seeds until you said so. 😆

Thank you so much...Raai derives its name from the word 'Rihaai" which means liberation..It was performed in temples to rejoice in the soulful communion of the atma with paramatma...

Folklore also suggests that Raai seeds kept in a plate were twirled and scattered with a huge thrust and thus the chakkar of Raai had to resemble its speed..Thus the name Raai

Thank god .. I thought I was the only one who found the actor playing Adi lackluster...Next to VB, Guki & NS ..he does seem to stand out like a sore thumb .. He really has to work hard and improve a lot.

Originally posted by: ash_arti

Good to see u back piu.. missed u

Originally posted by: namitagloryz

Very insightful post. Continue to enlighten us, dear friend.