Bol Bachan - Page 3

Originally posted by: Shell16

Hi Srushti,
Hi Shelly
I find the last two episodes have been about setting up the dynamics of the Vickram household. From Adi's closure of his father's betrayal by completing the son's duty of the last rights. To Friday's power struggle between the brother and sister. They are indeed changing the dynamics ...Before that it was the dynamics of Sugni and family...and now since the greedy gobblers and free loaders are satisfied and are busy playing cards😡 we are subjected to even worse ...Lady Gaga🤢

All the scenes show us how the same incident shapes and affects different people differently.

Jiji - even though she was the one most severely affected by the incident has chosen to blame the bedni for what happened. She is not willing to accept that her husband rejected her and his family for another woman and perhaps she should blame him. Or maybe there was something wrong in their relationship that her husband found what he was looking for in a bedni. She has decided to blame the woman and not the customs which had made both her and Rashem a victim of a practice that should not exist. The advice she is giving her brother is to continue with a tradition that at the end not only hurts the women but severely scars the children as well. She wants to find Vick a respectable wife and close her eyes to all the other consequences. Pathetic pscychology of the women who are not ready to take responsibility or face the fate...and always ready to blame the women who are just victims of the society and its rituals...

Adiya - as a child witness to the whole saga blamed the bedni but is mature enough to acknowledge that not all bednis are the same. Finally...and we so wish that he would not become a chameleon overnight ...because from his expression whe Vikram took Sugni's side and told his sister off was again that classic 'It is because of you...you bedni!!😡'

Vickram - has taken the most mature lesson from his sister's situation. He understand that it is the tradition of "sardakai" and the Thakur/Bedni system that is the problem not the bednis. He doesn't believe in the system and is willing to fall in love with a bedni and make a commitment to her.
He did take a stance in front of everyone too na??? and the way he said that this rituals were started by them...and they need to stop this and he had no qualms whatsoever in taking the lead!
So far the makers of the show have done a great job of developing the story, characters and have definitely kept us engaged. Let's see how long they are able to sustain this! yup...it is the old 'wait and watch' wala system😛

Originally posted by: kamala2012

shell 16,
loved your analysis. yes, the CVs have concentrated the last two months in setting up the characters. And they have done a good job. The story has not started yet.

shrusti,
loved your point about the two different vachans, one made inside four walls, and one made in public, one more equal but doubtful, and one between people in different status, but more trustworthy.

Originally posted by: manzilmukul

PIG ..🤗.Me bhi a agayi..Sabse late lateef😆 PIG🤗arrey sab late hi hai...and are your athithi devon bhava...gone ???

Oh One should actually do something to all these spurned thakur wives..I was shocked ki wo chudail itna low kaise bol saking..Just horrendous I am missing Thakurain too.Dono ko ek saath milwa ke Muhuwari ke kuen mein daal do Grrr😡WHAT A LOSER BRIGADE😡and she was talking about SANSKARS and a SANSKARI BAHU...IMAGINE!!!!!😡

But I really lubbed your Bol bachan😳Mast analysis tha ekdum..Dhinchka bole to aur ghatiya shayari to me to fida...A PG IN NEED IS A PIG INDEED😆woh toh banta hai na...Warna how could have I justified my title😆

Well the contrast of both the vachans are indeed well described PIG loved it👏What I love about this show is a very high level of unpredictabilty which makes it interesting till now...Ahhh I love the characters but POPAT is seriously a big sore *I am talking about the actor* Not to the eyes😆but to the ears...I wonder where Bamsukh has gone😆and I miss JT tooah the unpredictibilityalthough it is sheer ingenious on the part of hte CVs it does take a toll on my health😆 oh Bamsukh and his mucchi. and not to forget the truck..Miss it so much

Mansi..Me POPAT dreamland mein abhi bhi hun😆

Shelly loved your analysis as well👏

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Nobody told you to read the Jibber I write...Go and get a life instead of stalking me around 😛😛
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Uh oh😲 meri srushtu bura maan gayi ...rukh yeh meri srush nahi ho sakthi bolo koun ho tum aur kya kiya meri behana ko😭 if i did'nt love what u wrote would I be stalking u as u said from thread to thread😭 u r the only one i bully to this extent which shows na how much liberty i take coz i thought we understood each other so well or so i thought sowwie 'kaan padoing'... ajao jhappi lo 🤗 aur kya boli tum, "go get a life"😲...i want my life back U r my jaan

about the epi, weekend was hectic with guests so have to watch and comment as it has been dhamakedar epis...will come back u cannot drive me away from your life😆😆😆

Edited by chithoo - 13 years ago