Abeer strikes back, gets a new place to live! - Page 4

Originally posted by: Autumn.

Agreed that Meher had doubts about Abeer becoming a good father and hence withheld not telling him about Ishaan. Though it is not right but from her pov can understand. Now she is giving it back to Abeer that he was never there for his child and everything was done by her which is unfair to Abeer. When Abeer had no idea about the child from where he will come to support and love the child. If she had told Abeer about the baby and then Abeer abandon her and child then Meher had all the right int he world to say all those things.

Meher because of her fears withheld the truth. So she really should not be blaming Abeer of abandoning them.

Abeer had every right to know about his child and Ishaan about his real father. Meher bad mouthing Abeer to Ishaan is so not done.

Ishaan knows that Akshat is not his real father so if explained properly children do understand. And Ishaan will b glad to know his real dad. Because this truth will come out some day that Abeer is Ishaan's real father to Ishaan and that time all the years of childhood would be wasted. Already 8 years gone.

Both of them should stop running and face the truth and reality.

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

He shouted at Meher at the doubt that she might be pregnant.He said he is not ready to father's responsibility.Even before confirmed news.He abandoned Meher n ran away to Singapor.If Abeer had 1% concern what if Meher is actually pregnant.Did he ask Meher about the same when the divorce proceeding was happening.No he did not ask.How come we can expect Meher to say the truth to the man who left her all alone n went out of country.

Originally posted by: Autumn.

During the divorce proceedings Abeer so many times requested her to work it out. But she was adamant on her decision. Abeer was repenting upon his impulsive act then too and he had said lets work it out, lets get back together. But Meher did not budge from her stand. When kuber gave alimony cheque then too bua and Meher did not react in front of Abeer. After he left they reacted.

Meher was not aware of being pregnant during divorce proceedings. She came to know about it after it was done and over with.

I understand Meher fears because of Abeer's behaviour. But it is always better to tell the truth than hide it because one day truth will be out and mess all equations and emotions go for a toss. Here the equation was not only between them two but a child was going to be involved, is involved. Considering the child she should have told him about the pregnancy and then if he reacts unfavorably which according to her he was already, Meher could have full right to blame him now. But because of her fears she did not. Now the situation is father of the child had no idea about his child existence and Mother is blaming the father for no support which is unfair to the father.

Lack of communication from both on situations where they should have spoken along with over reactions mess up their life plus Ego. Both are at fault.

Originally posted by: malikakas

Have you watched the scene recently. Abeer doesn't apologize-- he just said we both got carried away, lets avoid the divorce. And Meher replies, that when you've come here today-- you have no sorry, no guilt, no concern. Even after hearing that Abeer doesn't assure her that he is sorry, instead he chooses to emotionally blackmail her by getting drunk.

Frankly, why does Abeer have any right to be angry about alimony? That's her legal right. He told her twice the marriage can't last and left her for weeks because he was worried she was pregnant. Meher made it very clear that she said no to reconciling because Abeer treats her like a toy and when he gets bored of her he will fight and leave her again. I find it a little immature that he was angry with her taking alimony since that's a normal part of a divorce.

I think she should've told him. But I also see why she didn't. And putting myself in her spot, I don't know what I would do. Abeer left Meher because he thought she was pregnant and didn't contact her for weeks. Telling Abeer about a child-- means exposing the child to a bipolar Abeer-- who would come and go as he pleases hurting the child in the process. Look how he treats his career-- Nissar is handing it and I can go back whenever I want. He has no respect for how that affects anyone else.

I don't think Meher is about ego-- I think she is about fear. She had no problem begging Abeer to stay. She had no problem giving up her job for Abeer. But she cannot go back to a man who is unpredictable.

Abeer says he is willing to do anything she says, but now he is back to threatening her and making her life difficult. Why can't he just be polite and understanding? He needs to show her that he is not a threat. That he is a good person who wants to make her life easier and not just always force her to live by life on his terms.