Meher right or wrong lying to Abeer about Ishaan?

So we now know Ishaan is MehBeer's child and after watching tonight's episode, I am torn on Meher's decision to keep the truth from Abeer especially after Abeer's scenes. When Abeer was watching that home video of him and Meher, which by the way was adorable and the flashbacks that followed where Abeer insulted Meher over her potential pregnancy I feel she was justified in keeping the truth from him. Abeer did leave Meher and he did make it clear that he didn't want to be a father, so what was she to do? If she had told Abeer the truth 8 years ago would anything have changed? Would Meher have felt he was only staying with her out of obligation and not love? What about Tayiji and Kuber whose reality was known to Meher? Also it seems this pregnancy happened is a result of their night before the divorce, so maybe she never got the chance to tell him.

Fast forward 8 years later, Meher and Abeer meet again and he has fallen for her all over again. Unfortunately things are a lot more complicated with Meher planning to get engaged to Akshat and Abeer believing Ishaan is Akshat's son. Meher is not being honest with Abeer but she she should be. It has been 8 years, a lot has changed and Meher has seen how remorseful Abeer is over his actions. I don't believe Abeer would hold it against Meher for not telling him about their child. Abeer has matured, I believe he would wholeheartedly accept his son. Meher should not keep this from him.

I'm actually liking this track, it is not illogical at all. Meher and Abeer are a divorced couple and it has been 8 years since their divorce. It was speculated a lot about Meher being pregnant and now the CVs are going with that. I don't feel it hurts the story or has MehBeer reunite only because of Ishaan. Abeer started falling for Meher much before knowing about a child or even the accident that nearly killed her. Abeer has tried everything to win Meher's heart, to prove he is deserving of a second chance but she is not ready to break. I feel seeing Abeer with their son will be what breaks her, what makes her realize he is not the same Abeer who left her.

I think she should now tell him.
This is really hard time for Abeer to know that he has become father 😭

poor abeer i cant able to see him like this..

Its not about being right or wrong is all about time and situation...8 years the situation was all wrong for being Abeer not wanted to become a father so soon..to the hard time of thier maaraige and oof couse the tayiji ki mahima..so meher as hidden from abeer keeping stick to 8 years old perseption which is totally wrong..

Think Abeer should know the truth after he strikes some kind a truce / bond with Ishaan.

I am not sure about the right and wrong of Meher's decision. Yes she was hurt badly. Taiji and Kuber were mean to her. She had every right not to tell the truth to them and then tie herself up once again in their life. But then on the other side Ishaan is Abeer's child means he deserves truth. But then lot of water has flowed under the bridge and now it is better Abeer knows this on his own and understand why Meher didn't tell him

Originally posted by: antika11412

Its not about being right or wrong is all about time and situation...8 years the situation was all wrong for being Abeer not wanted to become a father so soon..to the hard time of thier maaraige and oof couse the tayiji ki mahima..so meher as hidden from abeer keeping stick to 8 years old perseption which is totally wrong..

8 years have been a very long time...and meher...is not able to see the reality...bec he is judging abeer by his appereance and silly behaviour which in reality we have seen how emotional and broken abeer in from inside which comes out only infront of Suman and sometimes madhvi too...Suman and madhvi...know the real abeer which unfortunately..Meher...never known or if known just pretending...to be unknown...and there starts all the complication..agree 8 years..earlier the situation was not in control but now 8 years back Abeer has all right to know about his son...and here meher is just ...not expecting the truth...that no matter what for a child father and mother both are important...no maater Akshat can give Ishhan the love but what akshat cant give ishaan is the...True love ,care and overall the fathery...touch which only abeer can give..

and i am sure after learning Ishaan truth abeer to be broken more...bec he has never ever...imagine in the world that meher will be lied to him...it will be a big shock and i am sure after that abeer will transform himself compl,etely and then the real story start form being badtammez and abeeri to mature..more responsible angry young man kinda man..

and then meher will realise what the blunder she has done and what she has lost!!😭

He will be broken but I don't think he will resent Meher especially given the flashbacks he had. It will just make him more determined to fight for his family.

@Shruti Exactly...the big question is now Ishann seems to like abeer ki parchai...highly possesive of meher...is what thinkin me up plus his bond with akshat and tashan with Abeer

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

I am not sure about the right and wrong of Meher's decision. Yes she was hurt badly. Taiji and Kuber were mean to her. She had every right not to tell the truth to them and then tie herself up once again in their life. But then on the other side Ishaan is Abeer's child means he deserves truth. But then lot of water has flowed under the bridge and now it is better Abeer knows this on his own and understand why Meher didn't tell him

That is where I am torn, on one hand I understand Meher but on the other Abeer has the right to know the truth. Abeer needs to realize just how much his actions impacted not their lives but his son's as well.

Here we thought Abeer's biggest challenge would be to win his love back but its a whole other story with Ishaan. For Ishaan, Abeer is a stranger and he is rather protective of his mother. Ishaan won't want Abeer around if he feels Abeer is the reason behind his mother's pain. Abeer needs to win over both his love and his son, this track is going to be good!

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

So we now know Ishaan is MehBeer's child and after watching tonight's episode, I am torn on Meher's decision to keep the truth from Abeer especially after Abeer's scenes. When Abeer was watching that home video of him and Meher, which by the way was adorable and the flashbacks that followed where Abeer insulted Meher over her potential pregnancy I feel she was justified in keeping the truth from him. Abeer did leave Meher and he did make it clear that he didn't want to be a father, so what was she to do? If she had told Abeer the truth 8 years ago would anything have changed? Would Meher have felt he was only staying with her out of obligation and not love? What about Tayiji and Kuber whose reality was known to Meher? Also it seems this pregnancy happened is a result of their night before the divorce, so maybe she never got the chance to tell him.

Fast forward 8 years later, Meher and Abeer meet again and he has fallen for her all over again. Unfortunately things are a lot more complicated with Meher planning to get engaged to Akshat and Abeer believing Ishaan is Akshat's son. Meher is not being honest with Abeer but she she should be. It has been 8 years, a lot has changed and Meher has seen how remorseful Abeer is over his actions. I don't believe Abeer would hold it against Meher for not telling him about their child. Abeer has matured, I believe he would wholeheartedly accept his son. Meher should not keep this from him.

I'm actually liking this track, it is not illogical at all. Meher and Abeer are a divorced couple and it has been 8 years since their divorce. It was speculated a lot about Meher being pregnant and now the CVs are going with that. I don't feel it hurts the story or has MehBeer reunite only because of Ishaan. Abeer started falling for Meher much before knowing about a child or even the accident that nearly killed her. Abeer has tried everything to win Meher's heart, to prove he is deserving of a second chance but she is not ready to break. I feel seeing Abeer with their son will be what breaks her, what makes her realize he is not the same Abeer who left her.

Which episode..what episode plsss give me the link..😒