PBNMBD CC#23- Are O Sambha Kitne Villains hai?

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@Katyayani_devi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#641

Originally posted by: malikakas

I think they could've worked back in the day when women had less options. But I doubt they would work that well in todays' time.

do women options has any value in any time in men world lol.watever times n options ppl just compromise n say worked out ,it's not actually work out,u see like there is difference btwn surviving n living d life. making peace with life n living with wat u get.

in present day chaos world who ve tat much time most of them survive n those who can't takes lives

u want n u get is luck

u want n u wait is time

u want u wait n won't compromise is success

u want u wait n compromise is life

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asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

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Posted: 10 years ago

#642

Originally posted by: malikakas
In my mind its a form of emotional cheating.

I have had this discussion before... and some people argue that a relationship is about commitment. Which I agree with to a certain extent... I don't think its unusual in a long marriage to find yourself attracted to someone else and there are people who have long lost loves etc. But for me a pair bond is about emotional honesty.

Sorry for the late reply. I went to go have dinner.

I understand that in life you will meet people where you have a greater attraction than others. But I think I'm going to side with the people who say relationships are commitments. It is you stating to be by their companions in various forms - emotionally, financially, romantically, sexually etc. If the relationship is an open relationship, where dating is permitted by one party and the other is fine with it, then I have no objections to it because both parties were aware of the conditions. It's when one party remains in the dark when I have a problem.

It's kind of like in Kumkum Bhagya where Pragya was okay with Abhi and Tannu carrying on their relationship despite Pragya and Abhi being married. All parties were fine with this. Until several other problems arose of course.

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Isha

@tereliyex

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Posted: 10 years ago

#643

Originally posted by: malikakas

I know right. 😉

Finally. Ham sab ki khwaish aur Abeer ka manokamna poori hogayi😆

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asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

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Posted: 10 years ago

#644

What was Meher wearing glasses for? Near sight? Reading? Why doesn't she wear them now? 😕

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asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

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Posted: 10 years ago

#645

Tayi - Yeh hammer wala teri coffin ke upar nails maar ra hai 🤬

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Isha

@tereliyex

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Posted: 10 years ago

#646

Maybe she wears contacts now ?😕

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Isha

@tereliyex

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Posted: 10 years ago

#647

And let's not forget how her hair magically grew for the engagement 😆

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

#648

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Sorry for the late reply. I went to go have dinner.

I understand that in life you will meet people where you have a greater attraction than others. But I think I'm going to side with the people who say relationships are commitments. It is you stating to be by their companions in various forms - emotionally, financially, romantically, sexually etc. If the relationship is an open relationship, where dating is permitted by one party and the other is fine with it, then I have no objections to it because both parties were aware of the conditions. It's when one party remains in the dark when I have a problem.

It's kind of like in Kumkum Bhagya where Pragya was okay with Abhi and Tannu carrying on their relationship despite Pragya and Abhi being married. All parties were fine with this. Until several other problems arose of course.

That's exactly how I think too. There is no hard and fast rule.. what works for one person may not work for someone else etc. But the only way you can know what is right/wrong for someone else is if you are honest with them. I have to admit I would have a big problem if my husband was in love with someone else and still had that person in his life.

I had this problem with Bones... they tried to pretend that the male lead was the most honourable man on TV for proposing to another woman despite declaring that he loved someone else more and would always keep that person in his life. But he was never honest with the woman he proposed to about his real feelings. Whenever she asked he lied to her. People like to argue that he stayed true to his commitment but it wasn't real commitment in my mind. It was superficial commitment. Especially as he tossed the GF out of his life when she reminded him that she told him all along she didn't believe in marriage. So I always thought that was such a cop out to keep the lead "honourable" especially because later he stays with the female lead despite her not believing in marriage either.

I don't know the story of KKB that well but if Pragya was okay with Abhi/Tanu then its not big deal... the only caveat would be if Pragay didn't really have a choice to walk out of the situation due to emotional or familial pressure. Whatever I've seen of the story I always thought Abhi was a bit of jerk for marrying Pragya to begin with. 😆. Its why I never really bought into that love story.

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

#649

Originally posted by: Savz_Startling

do women options has any value in any time in men world lol.watever times n options ppl just compromise n say worked out ,it's not actually work out,u see like there is difference btwn surviving n living d life. making peace with life n living with wat u get.
in present day chaos world who ve tat much time most of them survive n those who can't takes lives

u want n u get is luck
u want n u wait is time
u want u wait n won't compromise is success
u want u wait n compromise is life

All life is a bit of compromise. I loved that line in Yeh Jiwani Hai Diwani... Kitni hi kohshish karo zindagi mein kuch na kuch choot jhata hai. Jho hai ussi ka maazo lo.

But my original point was-- I think women are a little less willing to compromise as much as they used to in the past. With more options you aren't forced to compromise the way we would've been forced to in the past. Like no one can force be to get married to someone I don't want to.