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Yesterday's epi gave more shades to Meher's character. First linear thinking. In other words she has certain thought processes which she thinks is right or rather I would say a person who would prefer to go with majority view. Her speech on Socialist Vs Capitalist prove that. She believes the rich people have time to party, they come to college for time pass, to trouble genuine students, their friendships are just show offs etc etc..
And according to her if you are studying you only need to study, no friends, no light moments and of course no luxuries. Yes it is true to some extent that we should not lose sight of the goal. But that doesn't mean you have to be emotionally detached. Problem with Meher type individuals is that,they give up so much to reach the height of their career which inturn makes them bitter inside. Having not enjoyed the best years of their life in the right way, they will feel anyone enjoying the life is wasting their time. They define their life with marks, grades, trophies and scholarships. And over time become egoistic and have superiority complex that where they are because of their own effort. Meher suffers from all this.
She treats life as a competition, a competition in which she has to win. I wouldn't blame her completely for her attitude. It might have been moulded by her father's neglect of her mother. Her mother's quite suffering accepting that this is a woman's fate. She doesn't want to accept what other's tell as woman's fate and the same competition mentality and trust deficit because of her father would have played havoc in her married life too.
Another shade came out when she decides to offer nissar a new time slot. Her intention was right, but execution wrong. This girl simply doesn't know to manage relations. Her EQ is very very low. Again the problem happens because of the broken relations in her house. Yesterday epi showed her house as dysfunctional. Her bro treats her a money minting machine, but doesn't approve her personality. He adores his jiju. She could have of course given Nissar a new time slot. But in a better manner. Without hurting Abeer. Without implanting the doubt in his mind that she is splitting the 2 friends. She had the opportunity. When they were in the car as friends she could have causally bought the topic after nissar ended his song. Sasha would have supported and it would have been done much nicely in a personal environment than a professional environment.
Meher needs to grow up a lot. I still see a deprived and furious girl somewhere inside her. And Abeer needs to understand this vulnerability, this insecurity about her than find fault with every of her actions. Agreed on the surface it is hurting him as he seems to be a emotional person, but then he has also not understood his wife completely.
