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a very nice post ...hatts off to u man ,
at least someone stands for a girl thanku so much,i am a married woman of 26 year old from three years though its not a long time but still its reallly meanigfull to express here ,i watch this programme and was very excited to see gur and yash as a couple but after 2nd oct his last meeting to gurpreet everything changed and in gala round i have seen yash's mom how she talks to a girl in a very insulting behaviour and blame her to attached with only boys and not with mothers.how shamefull this to say a girl infront of the media and she tried to discuss with her son too in the meeting which is wrong .i have never seen her to talk too much with any boys so indirectly she insulted her on her character.for me she is only one who has strong charachter and not go with any one else even in her worst days even in the name of friendship or to live in the game to use someone which shows her character very strong and clean.when she came to the show she was full of life and was very supportive but she was badley insulted by yash's mom calling her not sanskari and even tell her intercast is not allowed in my family ...as a girl myself feel so bad that time and some time i feel i can kill that woman .how can u be so harsh to a girl who loved and came to here for marriage .as an older mother she should play her role like a resposible mother.but i found her stubbon ,somewhat jealous of her relation with here son,dominant and conservative in her thoughts .yash'mom ruined that girl mentally by troching her and for me this is abusive voilent. yash should talk to gurpreet and should tell her how to be with her mom even gur ask her mny times how she should be with her.but its not gurpreet fault its mother and son faults who have not healthy relation and this is called generation gap .as a wife i need my husband support at this crusial moment and i have seen many arrange marriages where a girl want to live separate even after one month so what is the respocibilty of a boy as a son and as a husband .he should divorsed his wife becuase he is living with his mother for so many years and cant not leave them ?for me no,because a wife has right to live how she wants to live and husband is a provider to her .but its husband duty how to handle that situation even his wife is blunt or rude .for gurpreet i feel so sorry because she is only 21 years old and faced alot .yash proves to be egoistic just like his mother.i dont think people, like them, should come to this kind a show if a son is totally depends on his mother.where gurpreet is now and in what situation she is ,its only becasue of yash and his mother.they are resposible to ruiend her image.now she is helpless and all frustration is making her bad and i think star plus also showing only in the favour of priyanka and not showing what is reality .for me gurpreet is a really good girl who respect her parents alot and because she has to face alot at this early age .i feel sorry for her from the core of my heart .but for yash ,he is not a good son and good husband and who ever will be his wife i dont think she would be happy with him and a person like him remains un happy himself because of his incomplete personality and cant able to take decision in his life.
thank you safeena,I know taht u can understand,because you i am sure are with nice man and family ,and you are i am sure shocked at the way these idiots have behaved with her.Now they also want that she should not object .She was still trying,silly girl.She should forget these people as a bad dream and find a lovely family and man.I am sure there are thousands of them out there if not million.Comeon yaar there is i am sure some nice guys out there.Not all are from caves and live like janglee. i am sure many know how to treat there women.I wish her all the happiness.
Just because of gur i saw all the previous episodes and i felt this is only yash mom's fault..she treated gur very badly. i just wonder why this dark bitch and puppy allowed to participate in this show????
and i also felt that mostly mom went for light skin girls..yash mom also like nandita, pooja and priyanka..when she said in the gala round she does not like gur eating chicken... but at the same time she want nandita as her bahu..who alos ate chicken with gur..WHY THIS DOUBLE STANDARD????
i like gurupreet so much.. she is very innocent...i wish all the best to her....
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