Originally posted by: sunandshine
- its been almost 2 months since gaurav left, if she can move on SO CAN YOU
Did not know that a feeling so strong that gaurav evoked into Rumpa and that feeling which made her propose to him on stage, would wither away so soon? i mentioned in the post above that it was obviously a crush/attraction and it was a stupid decision she made by saying in front of everyone..it was obviously not love...and if shes happy now then you should be happy for her - gaurav was freakin STUCK on nandita, he was confused and wouldnt even try to be commited wirth rumpa
No he wasnt. If you do not recall, when Nandita had opened the 10% window for Vivek, she clearly said that she was doing this only for Vivek and that Gaurav and her would remain friends (This conversation took place at the fence). so no, Gaurav was playing the waiting game to see if Rumpa was indeed true to her words and not because he was waiting for Nandita.
actually i do remember that and i also remember guarav kept pursuing nandita despite that and nandita ended up saying in the confession room that she might open up a 10% window for gaurav as well...and if you remember when gaurav left, nandita was crushed along with rumpa
- she loved him but obviously he didnt reciprocate the feelings, she thought that if she said she loved him, maybe he would give her a response, but it was obvious from his body language that he just wasnt as into her as she was into him
One ILU does not bring about the same feeling into the other person. Gaurav felt that it was premature. Its a question of marriage and everyone has the right to judge the water in which they want to tread on. Nothing wrong in that yes she was stupid but you know some girls are hungry for love and affection...guarav was never the type who made her blush, laugh, smile...actually apart from their first date, all i saw guarav do was sometimes either ignore her or just tell her onstage or at the fence that he doesnt know, isnt ready to be committed with her yet...if she finds someone who gives her that commitment, that affection than i feel she should go for the person who loves her and will make her happy - if after abt 2 months rumpa finds a guy who gives her love and affection, something gaurav never gave to her then theres nothing wrong with her starting a new relationship
Its not about finding a guy but to sustain on the show that she latched on Hitty. If you remember, in the first few episodes, Rumpa mentioned that even if Hitty was the last guy on earth she would not marry him. Kind strange that she felt she was in love with the same guy? It seems unnatural to me. Also, she mentioned that if gaurav left she would leave the show and well we all know she is still on the show.
i actually dont remember that but even if she did say that then well life's strange like that...she never expected hitesh to like her so much as he did ...and when she saw his love she drifted towards it...
well priyanka also said she'd leave if raj left and we didnt see that happen...so what if rumpa said it? ppl say things all the time when they are filled with emotion and might not even mean them or go through with them,...that doesnt mean you judge them so harshly, shes human not perfect
i also wanna say that hitesh seems really genuine towards rumpa...from the beginning even when hitesh was with pooja he always doted on rumpa saying that shes the only girl on the show thats the sweetest and nicest at heart
- STOP going on in everywhere and contaminating every topic about how rumpa should wait around for gaurav her whole freakin life...if he doesnt care for her she has every goddamn right to move on with a guy who DOES like her so stop judging her for making the right decision for herself
Its a free forum and none dictates who should talk about whom and where. So its worthwhile to not tell others what they need to do and asking them to voice their opinion. Time will tell if Rumpa made a right decision for herself and whether she indeed stands true to her words. Lets not discuss that at the moment.
i know its a free forum but that doesnt mean you guys have to be cruel just cause rumpa moved on...even if she did or did not make the "right" decision...its her life and she has every right to do what she wants with it
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