why are they showing Hitesh's mom in bad light?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I find it really bad that the channel is always showing Hitesh's mom in bad light. As if she is playing a vamp role like yesteryear actress bindu type. I mean I find her to be very broad minded and knowledgeable, yes, she is loud mouthed but that not a negative trait.

what would her family members feel when every single frame, whatever she says or does, they put a villainous spin or a "chaalak taana" in the backgroud. I mean c'mon every single mom, bride and groom are playing a a game to win 25 lakhs first, then comes the whole bride thing.

I feel sorry for her and her family members for being portrayed like that. People who are loud are not necessarily mean, cunning people or bad people. Give a break

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tina59

I find it really bad that the channel is always showing Hitesh's mom in bad light. As if she is playing a vamp role like yesteryear actress bindu type. I mean I find her to be very broad minded and knowledgeable, yes, she is loud mouthed but that not a negative trait.

what would her family members feel when every single frame, whatever she says or does, they put a villainous spin or a "chaalak taana" in the backgroud. I mean c'mon every single mom, bride and groom are playing a a game to win 25 lakhs first, then comes the whole bride thing.

I feel sorry for her and her family members for being portrayed like that. People who are loud are not necessarily mean, cunning people or bad people. Give a break




i agree with u...even inidira gandhi was portrayed wrongly by many coz she was loud and intellegent...its a male dominating society in india... i feel sorry for her as well.. like for example in tomorows precap the way she was shown laughing was so much doctored..they put sound effects to convert a giggle into a vamps laugh... im sure they make her do all this so that they can get good TRPS... pakka
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well, they are not showing her bad, she is already bad. If priyanka wanted to elimiante her and her son she had a reason but her reason to eliminate priyanka is not justifled. She is just taking her revenge by picking her. She want all the girls to follow her but if anyone raises a voice against her that person becomes her target. First nandita told her manipulative, second vrinda gave her the answer back on the gala round kuwars elimination week, and same week priyanka wanted to eliminate hitesh. All this three girls are in her mind. She will not let pooja or rumpa go since this two are her favorite. About rumpa, Why would you pick a girl for your son who already confessed her love to Gaurav on the national television. It doesn't make any sense.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya09876




i agree with u...even inidira gandhi was portrayed wrongly by many coz she was loud and intellegent...its a male dominating society in india... i feel sorry for her as well.. like for example in tomorows precap the way she was shown laughing was so much doctored..they put sound effects to convert a giggle into a vamps laugh... im sure they make her do all this so that they can get good TRPS... pakka

Please don't compare her with Indira Gandhi. She is not even 1% close to Indira Gandhi. Indira Gandhi was very intelligent and dignified lady.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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They do it to everyone. I don't feel bad for Hitesh's mom even for a second. She is a strong woman and it seems as if she likes attention no matter what form it comes in. She is a power loving woman and she is using her power to the fullest extent. I don't find her broad minded. A broad minded lady doesn't expect her DIL to all the work. That's the type of DIL I picture Hitesh's mom to be. She is always ordering everyone around . Even at the beginning of the show she was so excited to get a bahu. She has a problem with Priyanka and Nandita because they have to study and can't do kitchen work like the other girls. What is she looking for a maid? She doesn't practice what she preaches. I remember the girls saying at the beginning that with a mother in law like this you have a chance to grow. That is wrong. I think most girls have realized it by now except the ones who are buttering her up day and night. She manipulates everyone to get her way. I personally don't know her so don't want to make false assumptions but it is safe to guess if her DIL wants to do something which is not to her liking she will always find a way to manipulate her and make it her way. And she knows it too. That's why she calls herself intelligent.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: smiley2030

Please don't compare her with Indira Gandhi. She is not even 1% close to Indira Gandhi. Indira Gandhi was very intelligent and dignified lady.

Btw, many don't think Indira Gandhi was very intelligent or dignified. India's progess was stalled by her inepitude..if she was ruling India today Indian would be economically bottom of the barel..Indira didn't understand economy at all..under her rule corruption increased many fold and India stagnated, poverty increased.
I think Gulabo is more smart than Indira Gandhi. It is stupid not to eliminate your enemy who hates you and go down yourself. Gulabo will do what she has to do..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

They do it to everyone. I don't feel bad for Hitesh's mom even for a second. She is a strong woman and it seems as if she likes attention no matter what form it comes in. She is a power loving woman and she is using her power to the fullest extent. I don't find her broad minded. A broad minded lady doesn't expect her DIL to all the work. That's the type of DIL I picture Hitesh's mom to be. She is always ordering everyone around . Even at the beginning of the show she was so excited to get a bahu. She has a problem with Priyanka and Nandita because they have to study and can't do kitchen work like the other girls. What is she looking for a maid? She doesn't practice what she preaches. I remember the girls saying at the beginning that with a mother in law like this you have a chance to grow. That is wrong. I think most girls have realized it by now except the ones who are buttering her up day and night. She manipulates everyone to get her way. I personally don't know her so don't want to make false assumptions but it is safe to guess if her DIL wants to do something which is not to her liking she will always find a way to manipulate her and make it her way. And she knows it too. That's why she calls herself intelligent.

Bahu's do all the work before marriage later on Gulabo will order her. bahu..she will try to get along..she is very smart to realized this..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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They are merely showing what's already there....nobody makes her say the things she says, or do the things she does, that;s her own doing...yes they do add voiceover's in the background that are not the most falttering, but that probaly because, it's usually soooo very clear what her hidden motives are behind her actions,.....she's a true player, a manipulative person....and it's quite clear....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: April2007

Btw, many don't think Indira Gandhi was very intelligent or dignified. India's progess was stalled by her inepitude..if she was ruling today India economically would be still in one of the bottom of the barell..she didn't understand economy at all..under her rule corruption increased many fold and India stagnated.
I think Gulabo is more smart than Indira Gandhi. It is stupid not to eliminate your enemy who hates you and go down yourself. Gulabo will do what she has to do..

well I think than she is in the wrong show. she should be in politics like priyanka said she plays politics. she can be next prime minister of India and change the economy. i would like to see that and I would be the most happiest person. But i think she can make the economy worst than Indira Gandhi. By the way, Playing games and taking revenge does not make person intelligent.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mechocoholic

They are merely showing what's already there....nobody makes her say the things she says, or do the things she does, that;s her own doing...yes they do add voiceover's in the background that are not the most falttering, but that probaly because, it's usually soooo very clear what her hidden motives are behind her actions,.....she's a true player, a manipulative person....and it's quite clear....

I disagree..
Everybody on the show is trying to do what is best for themselves, some pretend to be holier than others. Two MIL are running after doctor bahu..who cannot cook and wants to go to states for four years in future and she is already 25 years old.
She is doing the same as others are trying to get and most suitable bahu for her son. Pri abused her and wanted to get rid her. Pri threatened her survival on the show..Gulabo will be stupid to let Pri survive and hurt her again..

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