Naren Dumped Ankita !

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Bushra

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Posted: 11 years ago

PR story going the way Ankan separate soon if ofter met Pari Naren leave Ankita its called dumping?

Naren married Ankita with the Name of Ahana , he love ankita because he think she is ahana , he want to see her happy because he want to see her ahana happy .
For Naren Ankita not Exit in his life .

Ankita married Naren knowing everything its not Ankita responsibility to take time to make relationship in other level she wait till then Naren recognize her as Ankita . She now love Naren its not her fault but if knowing all this Naren not accept her its not Naren right why called dumping ?

Ankita married to mentally unstable Naren for her family benefit its not also wrong so why only blame naren if Ankita have tough time ofter all this she is not also responsible for all this .

she love and care for naren because she love him but naren love and care for her because he love Ahana and she is her Ahana not Ankita .

Ankita use Ahana name very 1st day of marriage and still even she is now preg ( Even Mostly Poeple say Pari and Naren use fake name so thier love and relation is not pure ) then how Ankita love and relation is pure when she also use fake name ?

I am not think ofter all this Naren want to leave Ankita its called dumping . He have a right ofter become normal he axcept or reject this relation which is base on lie what ever deal happen between Ankita and Rusali its not necessary to naren except this whole heatedly .

Its just my point of view but want to know guys ur point of view .

Edited by muaaz - 11 years ago

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 11 years ago

Muaaz , Naren does say that he loves Ahana but the last 6 months he has been living with a girl called Ankita ...

He loves her nature , loves her looks ( many times he looks at her and tells her how beautiful she is ...he does not see Pari's face when he sees Ankita ) ..He loves her cooking , loves the time he spends with her , loves her completely as a person .

If she was not a good person then he would not have loved her , not even if she was called Ahana ...

She is a wonderful human being and that is why their relationship has become stronger .There is an illusion called Ahana in his mind but his real life is getting used to a girl called Ankita who is not an illusion but a reality ...

When he makes love then it is to her .In that hut , he looked at her and kept coming after her because he wanted to get close to this girl who was standing in front of him that night in his white shirt ..

It was Ankita who turned him on , not Ahana ...

He made Ankita fall in love with him .She told him many times that she did not love him but he kept going after her ..

If she called herself Ahana then it was not for her own personal gain , it was to save his life ...No one likes to live in the shadows of someone else but Ankita did this because she wanted her husband to get better ( as she was told that Ahana was killed In the accident ) ..

Now if after all this Naren only thinks about his past love and totally ignores how Ankita was a part of his life then for me it is dumping of the worst kind ...

I don't think I will be able to respect Naren after this ...If this happens then he clearly is not someone who deserves Ankita's love and her loyalty .

Life is not perfect , because of that accident he and Pari split up ...it was not Ankita's fault at all . She too is a victim of circumstances like Naren and Pari ..but now that she has lived with him as his wife , is knows as Mrs . Naren Karmarkar , has done nothing wrong deliberately to use or hurt Naren ...is even about to become the mother of his child then why should she be punished ...

Pari and Naren were lovers once , they still probably have strong feelings for each other but things have changed , they cannot go back to being the love birds that they were once ..

Now Naren is a married man who was enjoying the perfect marital bliss with a beautiful wife ..he had a good functioning marriage and a beautiful home ...He was still not completely well but his wife was working hard towards helping him the best possible way .

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 11 years ago

On their wedding day , when Manav and Archana found out the truth , they told Ankita that they will take financial responsibility of her siblings but she should leave Naren as he is mentally unstable ...

But Ankita refused that help ..

She said that if she leaves Naren Sir then he will die , She said that he is her husband and she is going to support him and will help him to get better ...

It was her determination and strength that pulled Naren out of that darkness. Remember how he was dragged out of the wedding hall, tied and his mouth taped ...the man was in a very bad shape . She saved his life , not because she wanted money from him ( the Deshmukhs were offering money to help her ) but because she understood her responsibility towards her husband ...though she didn't even love him then

Now it is Naren's turn to show his responsibility towards his wife and if he doesn't then I will at least not respect him as an honorable good man .

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGZz4jP2G0I

Look at this episode , the Deshmukh family is clearly offering Ankita financial help , her own brother wants to drag her out of the wedding hall but she is not listening to anyone and is firmly standing by her mentally unstable husband because she respects her marriage and had responsibility towards her husband ( see how she protects him against anyone who calls him paagal ) ...

Look at the shape he is in , compare to how he is now ...if he is doing so well now it is all because of her he would not even be alive if it was not for Ankita ...

so if he leaves this girl and only thinks about his past love affair then in my eyes it will be dumping his wife and his responsibilities ...

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Nikita Lakhe

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Posted: 11 years ago

Many a times what is right technically and legally speaking, may not be right when seen through an ethical and human perspective.

Logically, it's all very simple. Naren was not in his mind when this marriage was done. He hadn't consented to it, his opinion wasn't asked. Whatever happened in that marriage now, is not his responsibility. For all we know, the marriage might not even be legal. He should have the choice to make his own decision.

But when it comes to 'making his own decision,' we cannot ignore the point that this decision could shatter of two other individuals- Ankita and the unborn baby, and that too after all Ankita has done for him- she has actually walked on burning coals for him and this marriage.

Yes, he has a right to choose what he wants to, but it is also a true that somewhere something would just be very very wrong morally and ethically if Ankita ends up suffering so much after having done all that she did, and the baby would be dragged in all this too. Surely, somewhere it is going to prick his conscience too. Fine, if he feels his happiness lies only with Pari and he wouldn't be able to keep Ankita and himself happy in this relationship, it is best to move on. Also, maybe in today's world, it is a little too much to expect anyone to think about others well-being and life rather than about what they want for themselves, especially when logically things are in their favour. But a CONSIDERATION and acknowledgement of all that Ankita did, and to at least treat her and the baby with due respect is the least that I would expect of Naren, being the good man that he is.

And since I personally believe 'love' which destroys is not worth it, I would really respect Naren if he decides to move on in life and accept this marriage HAPPILY.

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Bushra

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
On their wedding day , when Manav and Archana found out the truth , they told Ankita that they will take financial responsibility of her siblings but she should leave Naren as he is mentally unstable ...

But Ankita refused that help ..

She said that if she leaves Naren Sir then he will die , She said that he is her husband and she is going to support him and will help him to get better ...

Yes i know this but this is hocking for dashmukh naren is mentally unstable not Anikta she make the deal ofter knowing about what naren is then how she back out at that time . As i say when marriage happen she is as open but Naren is not they show Naren Ankita as Ahana and then he ready to merry so now they show Ankita as Ankita and he refues its sound bed but not called vellianry act .

It was her determination and strength that pulled Naren out of that darkness. Remember how he was dragged out of the wedding hall, tied and his mouth taped ...the man was in a very bad shape . She saved his life , not because she wanted money from him ( the Deshmukhs were offering money to help her ) but because she understood her responsibility towards her husband ...though she didn't even love him then

Ankita love Naren ofter staying with him but in aother hand they never give any hint Naren love Ankita persona even he is not happy to changes about lundon wali ahana , he try hard to see the same ahana in ankita he loved how she dressed , how she ,sing / Dance or liking pizza or everything then how we say she love Ankita persona ?

Now it is Naren's turn to show his responsibility towards his wife and if he doesn't then I will at least not respect him as an honorable good man .

I agree its his responsibility towards his wife which is not his love and now she is pregnent she may be agree to live with her because of karmarker and dashmukh pressure but not because he want in start he met real ahana.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGZz4jP2G0I

Look at this episode , the Deshmukh family is clearly offering Ankita financial help , her own brother wants to drag her out of the wedding hall but she is not listening to anyone and is firmly standing by her mentally unstable husband because she respects her marriage and had responsibility towards her husband ( see how she protects him against anyone who calls him paagal ) ...

Look at the shape he is in , compare to how he is now ...if he is doing so well now it is all because of her he would not even be alive if it was not for Ankita ...

so if he leaves this girl and only thinks about his past love affair then in my eyes it will be dumping his wife and his responsibilities ...

He is still not normal he behave well because he think his ahana with her but nothing much progress in his condition . If now they try to say him he live with Ankita not Ahana and Ahana is dead do you think he become not violent .

I know Ankita is his responsbility and he think about her but its not crual just because during his mental unstable situation make any realation ofter become normal he is not think about the love he become mad for and always want to her in life how its call dumping .

The relatiopn he is not envlove from the binging make him bed if he choose his love ?

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: muaaz

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 11 years ago

I liked the way Niki has explained her reasons in her post ..I pretty much think the same ...

Morally and ethically it is wrong to leave your wife when all she did was to love you and help you ...of course Naren can do that , he can leave her but then do not expect to just walk away as if nothing happened and he can just start with Ahana from where he left ..that can never happen now ...

If he does not do the right thing then there will be a price to pay ...I will speak for myself only here , I will start disliking this character and will not respect him anymore the way I do now ...maybe there will be others also who will feel this way , maybe not ...but I am just telling you my choice .

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Bushra

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yes if he forgets Ankita completely and never remembers her again then definitely you can say that ...but let's see how it happens ...

The way I see it ( in my opinion ) . Naren's mind is different . He is a genius and his mind pretty much works like a computer ...One feeds information in a computer , like Ahana likes Pizza, Ahana likes dancing etc etc ...when Ankita wanted garlic bread he got upset because his mind has been set in a way that she is only supposed to like Pizza ...but then he got her the garlic bread the next day again ..

Right now it is all fed in his brain that he is in love with Ahana , it was love at first sight and they spend some special moments together and they are meant to be with each other forever ...On the basis of this he probably reacts ...but the heart is not a computer , it is going to have it's own say in time ..

I want Naren to listen to his heart ( which I believe loves Ankita ) not his mind which tells him that he loves Ahana ( again this is how I saw the story could be just my way of seeing it ...but I strongly felt that this is what the writers so far were trying to show and that is why they call naren and Ankita's relationship a Pavitra Rishta so far ) ..

The reason why Rushali went after Ankita is because the doctors told her that the only way to make Naren better is that he should fall in love with another girl and then he will move forward in life with her ...I believe this is what happened to him ..He did fall in love with Ankita unconsciously and that is why he was living such a happy life for the last 6 months ...

I do believe that him and Ankita had their own special relationship ...Only after he saved her from the burning car he started talking about Ahana's like and dislikes , before that all this was hardly shown ...

chalo , let's see how things happen ...it was nice debating with you .

this is my final word on this debate , don't have anymore to say now 😊

Edited by Tanyaz - 11 years ago