Purvi is not a good mother:Mod note pg12&20

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This post is not to hurt anyone at all but I do not think Purvi is a really good, caring mother. She doesn't seem to be concerned at all for her daughter Pari but is rather neglecting her when she is in need of her parents. Purvi very conveniently just left Pari on her own, not caring about what is going on with Pari, after ruining Ovi's life she wants her daughter's life to be ruined as well now. Purvi also didn't bother to find out about Pari getting married, she doesn't check up on Pari once in a while to see if she's ok, the least Purvi cud do is call Pari and ask her how she is. Pari is in an upset, hurt and disturbed mood all the time due to Purvi neglecting her and not caring for her.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bhalla , they are all bad mothers in this show .Every single one of them including Archana ( the main protagonist ) too who was only a good mother to Purvi .
As for Purvi, she is not shown taking care of Pari because the actor has left the show so she is not part of the story line .
Edited by Tanyaz - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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How can the character of Purvi check on Pari when there is no actress to play the role of Purvi anymore?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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How can Purvi call her daughter if there is no one playing Purvi in the show?
If you look in the discussion thread many members brought this up.

When Asha was in the show her character did call Pari.

Also this line

"after ruining Ovi's life "

How did Purvi ruin Ovi's life?????
A person is in control of their own life, someone cannot come in and simply be blamed on ruining it.
Ovi choose not to call her parents one in 20 years not Purvi.
OVI is not an angel and Purvi is not the devil.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: soniiyaa

How can the character of Purvi check on Pari when there is no actress to play the role of Purvi anymore?


Exactly this is Ekta and Balaji's fault it is a creative fault.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The first thing that the members here (and other thread also) have rightly pointed out is that the actor playing Purvi has already left PVR... Now if Cvs do not want to bring the character back or have not yet found her replacement, then it is CVs who should get all the falk..

Secondly, the character Purvi was shown leaving for Australia to treat Arjun's brain tumor.. It is not something like she was shown leaving a good time while leaving her daughter distraught and pensive...

Thirdly, you have brought up Purvi destroying Ovi's life which ,according to me was absolutely not necessary while discussing Purvi as a bad mother... But since it is brought up I remember Ovi too had left her premie back in Canada. Pia was an unhealthy pre matured infantt that was left incharge of strangers. After that she was never shown checking on her but enjoying wedding and shopping in India...She remembered about her ONLY after getting the news of Purvi's second pregnancy. That surely was a height of being a bad mother. Let me not even go into the details of her drunken stupor during her first pregnancy...But now I simply commend her for being such a good mother to Pia and bringing her up wonderfully.


With regards to Pari now , Pari is a strong, independent girl and Purvi had left her with her family, most importantly with her aai, baba and Teju who simply love and care for her...

As far as caring for Pari goes, I feel she had cared for her enough by NOT choosing to abort her to save her face after giving up Arjun for Archana's reunion with her family. But she did indeed become a bad mother when she gave her away to Ovi minutes after birth. She became a worse mother when she initially refused to take Pari back from Arjun when the truth about her parentage was revealed and Ovi did not want her... But NOT now...



Edited by bitasta - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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bhalla, even me too think. let's wait and see if new purvi is coming or not. or else the replacement of purvi is coming or not.
so we can't blame purvi as she left the track. she is not responsible for doing like this. only CV and ekta is responsible for doing writing the scripts.

i hope that new arvi will be coming soon. we can't imagine about this. only ekta decides what she wants to do in PR's future.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank u everyone for ur responses😊 I completely respect everyones opinion, and dont want to hurt anyone but I still think it wud never hurt if Purvi tried to get in contact with Pari. The reason for her not getting in contact with Pari is only because of the fact that she doesnt care for her, if Purvi did care for her then she wud have called Pari by now, but she doesnt seem to care. Maybe if Purvi had paid a little more attention to Pari then perhaps Pari wud not be in this sad, disturbed state right now, Purvi also tried to put bad thoughts about Arjun in Pari's mind so Pari wud think of Arjun as a bad person, Purvi was angry at Arjun and Ovi all this time so maybe she tried to get Pari to feel the same way about Arjun and Ovi. Purvi has caused a lot of pain for Ovi unfortunately, she and Arjun are both enjoying themselves in Australia and they had no problem with Ovi going to jail when Rishab Kapoor got shot, Purvi also caused Onir lots of trouble by making him do the baby swap, which caused Onir to lose his doctor's license and then accusing him unnecessarily for being with Shalini when Onir was doing this all for Arjun and Purvi's benefit.
Edited by bhallarox - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhallarox

Thank u everyone for ur responses😊 I completely respect everyones opinion, and dont want to hurt anyone but I still think it wud never hurt if Purvi tried to get in contact with Pari. The reason for her not getting in contact with Pari is only because of the fact that she doesnt care for her, if Purvi did care for her then she wud have called Pari by now, but she doesnt seem to care. Maybe if Purvi had paid a little more attention to Pari then perhaps Pari wud not be in this sad, disturbed state right now, Purvi also tried to put bad thoughts about Arjun in Pari's mind so Pari wud think of Arjun as a bad person, Purvi was angry at Arjun and Ovi all this time so maybe she tried to get Pari to feel the same way about Arjun and Ovi. Purvi has caused a lot of pain for Ovi unfortunately, she and Arjun are both enjoying themselves in Australia and they had no problem with Ovi going to jail when Rishab Kapoor got shot, Purvi also caused Onir lots of trouble by making him do the baby swap and then accusing him unnecessarily for being with Shalini when Onir was doing this all for Arjun and Purvi's benefit.


Umm, how will Purvi call Pari if there is no one to play Purvi?? So your statement just does not make sense with the current scenario. Also I'm pretty sure that Purvi would have been with Pari and comforting her if there was an actress playing her but there is not. So really there is no point in discussing this topic any further cause Purvi will not come anytime soon unless a new actor steps in or so. So I think it would be appropriate to have discussions on characters that are currently in the show rather than just ranting on a character that you hate that is not even in the show right now.

Also like really Arjun and Purvi are enjoying in Australia, they went for Arjun's treatment! I'm sorry but your arguements are really not backed up appropriately and it just seems like you are expressing your hate on Purvi! And many people are still fans of Purvi and may not like the way in every post you are bringing Purvi where she has no connection to the plot what so ever. I suggest its better to end this discussion.
Edited by .Nikki. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@bhallarox..
I think this thread was to discuss Purvi as a bad mother but wow... I'm not at all surprised..

BTW just a correction... From the last scene shown of Arjun and Purvi they had left for Australia to get Arjun's blood clot treated and NOT to enjoy themselves... It seems you have confused it with the caps and videos of Ashvik's Aussie holiday that they earned as one of the prizes of winning Nach Baliye..

As for other things you have accused Purvi of, those points are beaten to death.. No point flogging a dead horse over and over again... So let's agree to disagree..
Edited by bitasta - 11 years ago

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