Episode Discussion Thread -1 - Page 74

20 years have passed and Soham is still ill treated by his parents. I hate the tone Archana and Manav use with him, when I see the way Savita and Sulochana talk to him compared to how Archana and Manav speak to him you can see the difference. There is a way to talk to your child especially one you know has a justified reason to be upset, he feels his daughter has been cheated is that so wrong? They easily believed Ankita's words but that does not mean her father has to, if Mansi didn't buy it why should he?

Then there is this confirmation about another leap, seriously why bother? Just so they can repeat history and show the same failed plot devices? It is not worth it anymore

Today's episode was just for Ankita Lokhande's splendid performance. She briliantly potrayed two different characters.

Originally posted by: jjj123

Today's episode was just for Ankita Lokhande's splendid performance. She briliantly potrayed two different characters.

I felt like slapping that idiot Pari in the precap. You are getting married so talk about your future life. Why always throw dirt at Ankita's legitimate poor unborn baby while she herself was an illegitimate child born out of wedlock. Sorry for saying this but how she always talks cheaply talks about the baby compelled me to write this.

I can kind of understand Pari in the precap. To me it looked like she was feeling more concern for Mansi rather then hate for Ankita, she is looking out for Mansi. Pari has absolutely no idea that the baby Ankita is carrying is really Naren's so i guess thats why she said this, Ankita did wrong by making her believe this, she still is not telling Naren that the baby she is carrying is Naren's. Pari will definitely think of Ankita as bad since Ankita hasnt told her otherwise, though Ankitas intentions might be good but its really going to hurt everyone in the end

I dont agree that Pari was feeling for Mansi. Did Ankita ever say that the baby is Shshanks? It is just the conclusion of the dirty thinking of Naren and Pari, who are assuming things. They are of course compelled to conclude all their conversations talking about Ankitas baby .
As for Nina, i hope that soon somebody reminds her that her hubby is the original "illegitimate" baby of the deshmukhs. So what is new now?

Originally posted by: bhallarox

I can kind of understand Pari in the precap. To me it looked like she was feeling more concern for Mansi rather then hate for Ankita, she is looking out for Mansi. Pari has absolutely no idea that the baby Ankita is carrying is really Naren's so i guess thats why she said this, Ankita did wrong by making her believe this, she still is not telling Naren that the baby she is carrying is Naren's. Pari will definitely think of Ankita as bad since Ankita hasnt told her otherwise, though Ankitas intentions might be good but its really going to hurt everyone in the end

Originally posted by: jjj123

I have no issue whther she cares for Mansi or not. I dont even care. I just want her not to interfere in Ankita's pregnency. She thinks it is the child of Shasank and she has also seen Mansi is happy with Ankita( after the misunderstanding got cleared). Then who is she to suggest whether Ankita should keep the baby or abort it. In her opinion Ankita is a characterless girl as she is carrying her BIL's child. So what about her own mother who also was carrying her married BIL's child and she is that child. Is not that hypocritic?? IMO she is just insecure and deep in her mind she is not denying the doubt of Naren being the father of Ankita's child. That is why to console her mind she is repeating the same thing again and again. Deep down her heart she even knows Naren does not remember past 2 yrs of life and if that memory comes back what if Naren returns to Ankita. This is her main fear. That is main reason for her hatred towards Ankita.

Arjun was not Purvi's brother in law when they conceived Pari so that argument is basically mute.
Pari seems to think that Ankita and Shashank are in love because of whatever ankita said at the time to break Pari's nuptials with shekhar. it's not just about the pregnancy. She seems to think that ankita and shashank are having an affair right under Mansi's nose. That's why Pari is thinking so low about Ankita right now.
And even if the story was different and had Pari been born from a mother who had an affair with her brother in law, why in the world can't Pari be against that sort of thing? Pari is her own person and her life is not dictated by what her parents did or didn't do. Her thoughts should not be dictated by whatever her parents did.
So if she is against someone getting pregnant with her future brother in law, then that's her prerogative.

I'm kind of okay with the fact that Ankita is keeping quiet about said pregnancy because when truth comes out she can prove paternity by DNA and Pari will have to believe her then.

I don't think Pari is a 'bad' person or even evil. The 'bad' award seems to be reserved for Naren these days. Once baby is born I wonder what she will do however because in pavitra rishta anyone can become 'bad' at the drop of a hat.

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

20 years have passed and Soham is still ill treated by his parents. I hate the tone Archana and Manav use with him, when I see the way Savita and Sulochana talk to him compared to how Archana and Manav speak to him you can see the difference. There is a way to talk to your child especially one you know has a justified reason to be upset, he feels his daughter has been cheated is that so wrong? They easily believed Ankita's words but that does not mean her father has to, if Mansi didn't buy it why should he?

Then there is this confirmation about another leap, seriously why bother? Just so they can repeat history and show the same failed plot devices? It is not worth it anymore

So is it right that soham pushes his mother away from him really hard?
What if manav wasn't there to catch hold of her?
What if she had fallen and knocked her head against the concrete floor?
People die because of all the complications from a knock to the head.
Even then archana stood in front of him to stop manav from slapping him.

In what tone are they speaking to him? I'm genuinely curious to know. Have you heard the tone that he uses with them?

I think if he wants respect then he should give respect.
I'm sorry but soham is not innocent in all this at all.

He calls his father by the name 'sasura deshmukh'.
Is that a good name to call your father? Does that name imply respect? Does he speak it in a good tone?
No. His mother and father gave him some semblance of respect by calling him 'soham' even though he is a gunda.

If they are taking one step towards him then he also needs to take one step towards them.
I don't think it's right for him to throw an ultimatum on his parents like that, if he talks in a tone like that then do you seriously expect his parents to be all hunky dory and fluff and fairytale on him?

Yes Ankita deserves to be with her husband. But only if said husband wants to be with HER. He has said he doesn't want to be with her so what more can the deshmukhs do for soham.

They are torn between two granddaughters and they don't want to break the heart of their eldest granddaughter Pari who has finally gotten her love back and whose fianc is desperate to be with her.

They can give Ankita happiness by other means, by being there for her, during and after her pregnancy, by giving financial support, maybe even finding a good man for her, if she agrees.
Soham doesn't seem to understand that his kids have finally found their way home, they've found the family that they were always looking for. How selfish is he that he's delibrately pushing them away from their newfound happiness. If he doesn't want to be with deshmukhs then so be it but why force his kids to be away from the one thing that they were so desperately looking for their entire life?

Naren Karmarkar gave Ankita a blank check ...but she never en cashed it .. today she tore it away .

At this point I think the Naren and Pari marriage will happen and then the show will move forward and somewhere down the line he will remember Ankita and that she was pregnant.. and will search for her. And Ankita will be somewhere living alone raising a child (similar to Ovi's situation). They need to think of something more original. It would have been better if Naren actually got his memory back before the wedding. I liked him and Ankita together and Pari's not even 100% trusting of him otherwise she wouldn't constantly feel threatened by Ankita.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Naren Karmarkar gave Ankita a blank check ...but she never en cashed it .. today she tore it away .

How come Naren has never noticed this fact that Ankita never en cashed the check .He is a good business man and giving someone a blank check would definitely be a matter of interest ...to know how much was withdrawn ...

but just like all other good things , he did not notice this good deed done by Ankita ...

He is too busy talking about characterless Ankita and her illegitimate baby to notice that she has not withdrawn a single penny from his account for the so called Contract marriage ...

He remembers and notices only what suits him. We have seen too much of it by now.😆