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Originally posted by: onirfans
excuse me, but what is a 2nd daughter? Whoever was born first of the twins would be first, then the 2nd twin, then Purvi is the 3rd daughter. Likewise Soham is the 2nd son, Sachin being the first.I most certainly hope your reference isn't to divide between a child by birth and a child by adoption but since your previous posts say as much i have to believe that is what you meant. . Do you know how many people watching this show might be adopted children, or have adopted children. Do you really think a mother who truly loves her children differentiates? Do you know how offensive and hurtful that is to adoptive families especially one watching who is themselves adopted?---------------what problem with u navva...did u read my comment properly or just jump to criticse me...first read comment properly...what u think and what ur in mind dear or what u think i hv no feelings...ur opnion really hurt me,,,,,,,,,,,,, i know how many people watch this series and what they feel by seeing the show ...i did not mean about adoption and real daughter ...here i just wanted to tell 2nd daughter means other daughterwhy u avoid the main topic by taking such horrible meaning itself ...even i did not mean about this...its ur thinking just go towards that...sorry if u feel bad but i did not told anything in my post like this what u understood...i just wanted to told whats is important in this situation for arman ...arvi remarriage or searching ovi and pia...purvi who is with them from 20 years ,she got fulll support of family and she herself responsible for her broken marriage ...now her misunderstanding with arjun is clear ( according to arman) then if they will be delay the marriage of arvi nothing will be disaster ...they can wait some more daysbut after knowing the whole truth that ovi was also innocent and she is not with arjun...and she is missed with her daughter then their first step should to find out about ovi may be she could be in problem or may be in these years she dead or something...but not they did not bothered if ovi is not with arjun then where is she and pia ...but they go to preparation of remarriage of purvi...archana just told arjun that where is ovi but they r wait to listen arjun word but jump to arvi marriage date...it seems they just fullfill the formality to asking about ovi ...if they really want to know about their daughter then why not they try to search but they go to canada for buying jwellery for marriage...\so i just asked as parents or as a human which is important first to search missing daughter or preparation of other daughter's third marriage with her ex husbandu teached me then answer my question which is mentioned in blue color...
I am sorry Onirfans if i jumped to the conclusion of the adopted vs the birthed. In your dislike of Purvi I thought you were one of the many who constantly talk about her adopted status making her inferior and worse. I apologize if you are not one of those but the way you wrote the post lead one to think that is what you meant. Plus, it was off the topic of the thread, which was that Ovi had at least apologized. The thread was not about Arman.
But I agree to your blue.. I think ArMan should be looking for Ovi, for sure. They do know she's not dead as Arjun told them she was living in Australia. But I think no parent should ever disown any child. We've discussed this before. I also think Ovi should have tried to clear the air and not cut herself off from her parents. As I have said so many times, each and every character has been written to do such stupid and unrealistic things. That's the difference between us I guess. I think they've all committed the mess, and i can't single out any one person as the problem. Except Ekta maybe, or us as viewers because we watch the silly thing.
