I sincerely pray Gauri will not fall in love with Soham

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

He is insensitive and selfish. He didn't have even the tiniest bit of concern for anyone, not even Gauri. He put Gauri's life in danger in every single way possible. He doesn't love Gauri at all. What he loves is himself. he loves Gauri because she was the first woman to ever show genuine concern for him who was not related to him.

I am so upset about this whole thing. The Deshmukh family is stupid. There was one Soham carrying a woman and whole family with 3 men, and armed police couldn't stop him. That is just ridiculous.

Women issues are very close to my heart and I am disgusted and so saddened when they show women falling in love with these monsters. You give women the wrong lessons. This is why women in India face so much abuse. This is why India is such a terrible country for women. Not every man needs to be fixed by a woman. We deserve respect and love. We do not exist to "fix" broken men, to please their ego and love them when they don't deserve love. Growing up in bad background is not an excuse!!! You cannot harm another girl because life was unfair to you at some point in your life. So I pray to god that Gauri will not fall in love with him.

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

See that is exactly what I disagree with. "wish he would reform". Do you know how many women regularly put up with abuse hoping soon their abusive partners would reform?? This is not just about a show. It is the whole idea that women should put up with men who behave this way. He just put her life in danger. Heck this is his second attempt at killing someone and imagine if he had succeeded. Also I am kind of annoyed by the whole "aww my poor Soham!! He was such a nice boy why did they ruin his character??!!!" HAVE YOU MET ABUSIVE MEN IN LIFE? Have you dealt with them? Do you think these men wear a tag around their neck that says watch out women I have abusive tendencies. Most of them appear nice from the outside or most of them start out nice before something happens that doesn't sit well with them and they turn out to be monsters. You think men who abuse their wives or girlfriends at the beginning tell them hey guess what I am going to be put your life in danger later on in the future. NO!! Things change, people change. Circumstances change them!

I agree with the Purvi thing. She shouldn't have saved Soham that time. Your kindness means zilch when it hurts other people. If tomorrow I decide to house a serial killer out of the kindness of my heart and the next morning he kills 5 people there was no value to my kindness. I know Soham is a not serial killer and I am exaggerating. Women like her promote such behavior from men. And I also agree that almost all men in this show are horrible. I always had a problem with Arjun more than I had a problem with Purvi and Ovi because he was the only person who knew the whole situation.

I probably take these things too seriously unlike some people here. So I apologize. Due to my personal experience in life I cannot take these things lightly. When the Delhi rape happened I was so heartbroken and angry. I still cry when I think about it. I wondered how could men do these things to a girl. And then afterwards how could politicians and their lawyer say that girls should be more respectable because if she was more respectable then the rape wouldn't have happened. Why didn't more women speak up about these issues sooner??! Why do women put up with men who abuse them. And then I come in this forum and I see people, YOUNG GIRLS say Soham should "reform" and then Gauri should fall in love with him because it is cute!! And then it all makes sense. Because women are willing to accept such shit for the sake of "love" a love that has nothing to do with respect, a love that has nothing to do with the girl's well-being!