ok i been reading thru the topics and all i have been hearing is its ovi child or its purvi child only. um did these children come out of nowhere. there is a father involved. i like purvi and dont like ovi. but no matter what, these 2 never had any right to hide arjun child from him. every father deserve the right to know his child. arjun has never proven to be a bad father. yeah we nvr saw a mourning scene from ovi and his stillborn but i honestly blame that on the writers. plus before he knew that it was his and purvi child he stayed up a whole night to take care of the child. if anythin arjun was more careless w/ pari afer the revelation bc he lost her 2x. say what u want about purvi/ovi but no person has a right to deprive a loving father from the knowledge of his child. a child does not exist w/o a father just as it would not exist w/o its mother. if we want fathers to take responsibilty of a child even when he doesnt want it, then we cannot decided that if we dont want him involved we simply wont tell unless for good reason (abuse, mental incapacitation, safety). it may pain us but to deprive a father of a right to his child is inhumane. if not for the father, then for the child. no matter whether we are adopted or have stepparents that love us like bio parents, at the end of the day every child longs for a connection with their bio parent unless that parent has done them wrong. blood is thicker than water. if ovi/purvi could not do this bc of the pain of seeing the father, then they should do it for their child. every child has a right to know where they came from and our own pain is no reason to deprive the child of that. we are the adult who created this child and it is our job to make sure that our mistakes dont haunt our children
Edited by nikki1591 - 11 years ago