Purvi is completely right! - Page 2

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Exactly! And this is the same Arjun who went and lived in the chawl, worked as garage mechanic to win Archu's approval to marry Purvi! This is the same Arjun who was promising to look after Purvi one week ago, when he found out she was pregnant! What happened to all those promises? Suddenly hes all abt money- money and Dad- Dad, etc. , behaving like a typical arrogant male!

Ekta changes characters personalities at the drop of a hat! Like she changed Soham from a cheeky young man to a psychopath! Now shes changing Arjun from a loving husband to a chauvinistic male!

Okay, I don't understand one thing. Arjun, DK, Manav, they are all supposed to be professional, keeping business away from personal problems. Maybe Manav is ill. But DK has full consciousness. Shouldn't DK and Manav speak to each other in private and separate the business from the personal, they are friends and now related by marriage. So if one person wants to move on, what's the big deal? They should say 'it was nice working with you but we need to think about our personal life and separate our business life, if you need any help or if you get into trouble then I'll always be there for you'
Why not just divorce business proceedings and keep the personal intact?

As for Arjun, he knows what an emotional fool purvi is, taking EVERYONE's problems onto her shoulders. Why doesn't he sit her down, tell her to look after her unborn child and think of how to work through the problem together? I mean his is a SMALL problem, what happens when ovi's truth comes out? Will they divorce cuz they can't handle the truth?

Arjun forgets that Purvi also has an identity, just because she's married to him so does that mean she only belongs to the kirloskars and should forget her mother?
For gods sake she's not having an affair, she's just going to help her dad out.

They are adults not kids, why do they have to be on 'sides'? They can be neutral TOGETHER and help sort out the problem.

But seems like everyone's becoming an emotional fool these days.

Sometimes i feel like the woman in our desi societies have to forget everything abt their maika. It just isnt fair.

Originally posted by: soniiyaa

Sometimes i feel like the woman in our desi societies have to forget everything abt their maika. It just isnt fair.

Originally posted by: ambolove

Okay, I don't understand one thing. Arjun, DK, Manav, they are all supposed to be professional, keeping business away from personal problems. Maybe Manav is ill. But DK has full consciousness. Shouldn't DK and Manav speak to each other in private and separate the business from the personal, they are friends and now related by marriage. So if one person wants to move on, what's the big deal? They should say 'it was nice working with you but we need to think about our personal life and separate our business life, if you need any help or if you get into trouble then I'll always be there for you'
Why not just divorce business proceedings and keep the personal intact?

As for Arjun, he knows what an emotional fool purvi is, taking EVERYONE's problems onto her shoulders. Why doesn't he sit her down, tell her to look after her unborn child and think of how to work through the problem together? I mean his is a SMALL problem, what happens when ovi's truth comes out? Will they divorce cuz they can't handle the truth?

Arjun forgets that Purvi also has an identity, just because she's married to him so does that mean she only belongs to the kirloskars and should forget her mother?
For gods sake she's not having an affair, she's just going to help her dad out.

They are adults not kids, why do they have to be on 'sides'? They can be neutral TOGETHER and help sort out the problem.

But seems like everyone's becoming an emotional fool these days.

Originally posted by: peachesnplums

Pallavi, don't get me wrong. A girl should definitely help her family out. However Purvi shouldn't be helping those screamers out, she's a daughter of convenience to them (except Archana). Thrown on the roads when Pari's truth is out, called names, and importantly needed all of a sudden. Teju ko use ker lo naa Manav baba.

Remember just this past Friday, when Arjun gave her milk, he asked her not to stress herself over Karmarkar's busines deal with Manav. Even in yesterday's episode Arjun cordially asked Manav to sit and resolve their differences. But got a royal snub from Manav too.

Bhai ke liye jail jaao
Manav Baba ka thappad and screams jhelo
Let Archana aai preach you about Purvi's sincerity (whenever did he issue a don't talk to ur family diktat!)
Plus Purvi starts with practical vs emotional and what not
It's the old situation again, damned if you do, damned if you don't.

Why oh why do we try to make sense out of all this 😆

I think purvi is right

Originally posted by: pallavi25

I agree with you, dear! DK and Manav shd be practical abt the separation and divide their projects in an amicable manner. They have been friends for so long and sambdhis too, why suddenly start behaving like enemies? DK's reaction to Manav's notice was strange, he knew Manav wanted to be alag so why the shocked affront? But Arjun's reactions are the most absurd! Hes making it seem that Purvi is going to work for their enemy...😆

Totally agree with you dear. Arjun is a shadow of the character that he was supposed to be. That's the most absurd thing. DK might now be purvi's dad too but same rule applies to Arjun, manav is now his dad too. He said to purvi 'you are a bahu so act like one' well purvi should say the same thing to Arjun 'you are a son in law so act like one!' But she NEVER speaks up when needed.
Arjun is being unreasonable, acting up. Seems controlling these days.
A marriage is a union of two families, not just the union of a mans family with the 'bahu'.

thats y i think the two sisters shud take their children and move in together and leave arjun to support his dad and his business. everyone will b stress free. since the sisters make each others marital bliss their personal project they can just b happy with each other and raise their kids and b mums and sisters and leave the musibat man behind. no?

Originally posted by: ambolove

Totally agree with you dear. Arjun is a shadow of the character that he was supposed to be. That's the most absurd thing. DK might now be purvi's dad too but same rule applies to Arjun, manav is now his dad too. He said to purvi 'you are a bahu so act like one' well purvi should say the same thing to Arjun 'you are a son in law so act like one!' But she NEVER speaks up when needed.
Arjun is being unreasonable, acting up. Seems controlling these days.
A marriage is a union of two families, not just the union of a mans family with the 'bahu'.