Who cares about the paternity of Ovi's child!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lately theres been so much ovi and arjun discussions and arvi marriage breaking discussions in the forum that it feels like last december all over again! guys we as a forum need to NOT regress back to dec arovi vs arvi arguments! who cares who the father of ovi's baby is! i personally think (and hope so too) arjun is not the father, its someone else. maybe before leap she will end up with that guy and anki will be their daughter. or maybe she will raise her child on her own and will be a proud and successful single mother.

even if baby is arjun's who cares! yes he was the sperm donor but thats it. ovi wants to raise her child alone. she was never 'out of choice' like purvi neither was she forced to keep this baby a secret. she was legally arjun's wife and if she came back to him, purvi would have no choice but to move out of the way. but she CHOSE to leave arjun and not disclose her pregnancy with him. she just didnt feel confident enough in their marriage or arjun's love and care of their child to tell him about the pregnancy. usually, when a couple go through something like this then they develop a 'dard ka rishta' and thats a relationship that never breaks and stays with the person for life. that relationship is above any marriage or friendship or love. but instead of sharing in that relationship with ovi and sharing their common sorrow he and purvi decided to play grand scale deceit. why would there be any two ways about whether arjun shud b involved or not? ovi shud raise this child and arjun can visit if and when he wants to! thats it! and why would this ever threaten arvi marriage? ovi never looked at arjun post divorce. what else can she do? she doesnt owe anyone anything. not arjun and not purvi. if purvi and arjun want to make or break their relationship then thats their issue and their business. ovi has nothing to do with them and unlike purvi, ovi hasn't taken the responsibility of maintaining their marriage. love is an easy boat to float when there are other people to blame for your problems. when arjun had ovi to blame his ideal of purvi and a life with her was great. now that he doesnt have that and life with purvi is a reality, then its not quite living upto the ideal and he is having adjustment issues. thats got nothing to do with ovi or the child.

and if it is adopted then thats a bit weird that she wants to hide her forever so i think we can kind of discount that option? but if it is the good on her! hope she is a very happy mother!

the bottom line is either ways i think ovi is genuinely very happy with her baby and her fans and really any mother should be happy for her. she is finally as she said 'complete'. gone is the girl with insecurities and maternal abandonment issues or the girl whose sense of self worth came from arjuns validation. she is now a complete woman who doesn't need validation from a man. her validation is in that tiny heartbeat thats connected to her heart. if she had the courage to take this step and stick to it then i hope cvs keep her going in this path.
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Luv4games thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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that was a great post.
Ovi's baby does not threaten ARVI in any way. The only reason is now that ovi is not to be blamed everyone finds it hard to digest the fact that arjun and purvi are not compatible as a couple so it is just easier to blame ovi and her baby again.

Also, ovi and arjun were intimate during their marriage and if that happens then there are chances of a baby. so i am not sure why everyone is shocked that ovi has a baby.

As you said, it is up to arjun how involved he wants to be in the life of his daughter. he does not have to leave his wife purvi for that. Purvi also knew that arjun and ovi were intimate so that is not a shock to her either.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post ... If arvi will break up than it because of their personal understanding issues...thank god ovi nd Onir are nt in any picture now...as Onir is move on with shalini nd ovi have nt even bothered to share her HAPPIEST moment of motherhood with anyone...not only arvi but D clan too...I hope now purvi will not push Arjun toward ovi for her MAHAAN emotional heart... Nd ovi will stay away from this amar premis just like Onir...otherwise purvi will again become Bichari nd ovi will suffer becoz of her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you Teju di I'm so glad you summed up my feelings in this post
I'm happy for ovi
I don't care whose daughter she is
I definitely don't care it's Arjun's baby
By the way, how is your baby di ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post 😊
I share your views. Ovi has decided to keep the baby for herself, and the fact that she didn't involve Arjun in this and participated in his wedding with Purvi shows how she wants to start her life afresh with her baby. From my POV, she hasn't done anything that should jeopardize ArVi marriage. If this baby changes ArVi's relationship equation for Purvi, then the girl would be the biggest hypocrite ever since she wanted Ovi to accept Pari as her child even after finding out the truth. Ovi is doing nothing of that sort, she just wants to raise her child by herself. Ofcourse, Arjun can have visitation rights, although I am not sure how involved he would want to be in Ovi's baby's life after having 2 kids with Purvi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ovi didnt even want to inform D clan... its a great move ..this proves how much archu cares for her.
ovi realized her family never cared for her. though manava loves her dearly but couldn't be with her just bcoz archu wants to pour love on miss purvi.

i am happy for ovi. but i dont want ovi to hide or lie to archu n manava if they find abt the baby. i dont want ovi to tag her own baby as adopted infront of ArMan. ovi deserves to be with the baby and she need to be thr for her. i dont want her to leave the baby in care center for the sake of others happiness. hope ovi vl stay with her daughter. may be she might go away from everyone to raise her kid.

i don't want to see arjun anywhr near to ovi n the baby. he has no right to claim its his baby. just the way he never cared for their still born baby
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I completely agree! In fact, I don't want arjun or anyone else anywhere near Ovi or her baby. And looks like Ovi doesn't want arjun anywhere close either! Except maybe Manav. He can keep it a secret and help her if something comes up, and he genuinely loves her and cares for her, no strings attached. In fact, I have missed seeing their bond.
It doesn't matter who the father is-- if the baby is arjun's or immaculately conceived or just fallen from the heavens! Ovi is the mother and she's more than capable of taking care of the baby by herself. Even if arjun is the father, neither he nor anyone else should ever know about it. It will be unfair and uncomfortable to the baby when he/she will know their dad is their aunt's husband; he/she will want to know why their dad doesn't stay with them giving preference to his other children. It will only lead to problems for everyone involved. Instead, Ovi can just say she was feeling depressed after knowing the truth of her firstborn and she wanted to become a mom again; so she went to a sperm bank and got an anonymous donor sample so she has no idea who the dad is. That should take care of everyone's questions...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Absolutely agree with you. I am glad Ovi wants to raise her kid alone and that is fine. As a father, I thinbk Arjun has a right to know, but that is it. He can get visitation rights, end of story.
Besides, Arvi themselves are enough to kill their relationship...why bring Ovi, who as you said never once looked Arvi way after divorce. I root that Ovi brings up her child as a single mom...Go Ovi👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No kalapi di Arjun shouldn't get any visitation rights
He has no right to know of the existence of this baby
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

No kalapi di Arjun shouldn't get any visitation rights

He has no right to know of the existence of this baby

Waneeka, I know what you mean😃. Frankly as a man/hubby or whatever, the character Arjun sucks BIG time...most inhuman character on the face of Earth😡, so fully understand your sentiments...so, Ovi can just claim she got a sperm from a Bank😉

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