Lately theres been so much ovi and arjun discussions and arvi marriage breaking discussions in the forum that it feels like last december all over again! guys we as a forum need to NOT regress back to dec arovi vs arvi arguments! who cares who the father of ovi's baby is! i personally think (and hope so too) arjun is not the father, its someone else. maybe before leap she will end up with that guy and anki will be their daughter. or maybe she will raise her child on her own and will be a proud and successful single mother.
even if baby is arjun's who cares! yes he was the sperm donor but thats it. ovi wants to raise her child alone. she was never 'out of choice' like purvi neither was she forced to keep this baby a secret. she was legally arjun's wife and if she came back to him, purvi would have no choice but to move out of the way. but she CHOSE to leave arjun and not disclose her pregnancy with him. she just didnt feel confident enough in their marriage or arjun's love and care of their child to tell him about the pregnancy. usually, when a couple go through something like this then they develop a 'dard ka rishta' and thats a relationship that never breaks and stays with the person for life. that relationship is above any marriage or friendship or love. but instead of sharing in that relationship with ovi and sharing their common sorrow he and purvi decided to play grand scale deceit. why would there be any two ways about whether arjun shud b involved or not? ovi shud raise this child and arjun can visit if and when he wants to! thats it! and why would this ever threaten arvi marriage? ovi never looked at arjun post divorce. what else can she do? she doesnt owe anyone anything. not arjun and not purvi. if purvi and arjun want to make or break their relationship then thats their issue and their business. ovi has nothing to do with them and unlike purvi, ovi hasn't taken the responsibility of maintaining their marriage. love is an easy boat to float when there are other people to blame for your problems. when arjun had ovi to blame his ideal of purvi and a life with her was great. now that he doesnt have that and life with purvi is a reality, then its not quite living upto the ideal and he is having adjustment issues. thats got nothing to do with ovi or the child.
and if it is adopted then thats a bit weird that she wants to hide her forever so i think we can kind of discount that option? but if it is the good on her! hope she is a very happy mother!
the bottom line is either ways i think ovi is genuinely very happy with her baby and her fans and really any mother should be happy for her. she is finally as she said 'complete'. gone is the girl with insecurities and maternal abandonment issues or the girl whose sense of self worth came from arjuns validation. she is now a complete woman who doesn't need validation from a man. her validation is in that tiny heartbeat thats connected to her heart. if she had the courage to take this step and stick to it then i hope cvs keep her going in this path.
Edited by tejaswiniwenham - 11 years ago