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Posted: 12 years ago
Anything which goes over one's head is Not useless! Its difference of opinion and one MUST respect it. Generosity is not bad- but if its done in excess and is shoved down the throats of other people then it definately becomes bad rather its Avoidable. Selfishness is bad- but if one aspires to keep oneself safe and comfortable Without harming others and intruding into their personal space then its definately not bad rather its Desirable- These values are not OLD or NEWLY fashioned but rather applicable in every era- Only their degrees and magnitude undergo a change according to changing circumstances- But the Basic principle more or less remain the same. In today's scenario its impracticle to expect return of Mahatmas. A simple, law-abiding, practical individual with Basic moral attributes will more than Suffice in today's day-n-age.
Problem with Archana is that she had been mahaan More than required,- which resulted in no-good and she caused suffering and misery not only to herself but also to people around her. She did it bad but Purvi is doing it worse- I know you are her fan- BUT ITS MY OPNION! AND yes you have full right to ignore it, counter it, challenge it- But MY DEAR YOU MUST and SHOULD respect it, I too don't agree to your views but I DO RESPECT IT and don't dismiss it as a rant of a so-called basher or a hater which is generally the norm in this forum, Because without difference of opnion there could be no development of any individual, society and civilization as a whole.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Let us not take Ekta's shows so seriously!
She follows certain formulas, self-sacrificing heroine, stud hero, selfish siblings, separations, misunderstandings, leaps, return from the dead, plastic surgery, etc etc.
If we start looking for logic and practicality in TV fictional soaps, it would surely be a hopeless quest! 😆

Purvi cannot be worse than Archana yet! Archu has 20 yrs behind her, of bad decisions, bad choices and forced bhalayi on people like Vaishali, her sister! If we add up Archu's mistakes, they will surpass Purvi's by a mile! Purvi needs 20 more yrs to catch up! 😆

I had strongly berated Purvi for donating her baby to Ovi when those episodes were aired!
I criticized her harshly right on this forum. Ive made fun of her as well. Im not blind to her faults as Ovi fans are to hers. Always trying to cover her crimes by saying shes real and practical. 😆
Oh Yes, practical means marrying a guy who loves someone else! Expecting him to forget all abt his real love! Trying to kill her baby which would be the only link she would have with him!
It was her foolish, impractical ZIDD which only led to misery and divorce! Such a practical girl, isnt she?😉
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: persistence-win

Anything which goes over one's head is Not useless! Its difference of opinion and one MUST respect it. Generosity is not bad- but if its done in excess and is shoved down the throats of other people then it definately becomes bad rather its Avoidable. Selfishness is bad- but if one aspires to keep oneself safe and comfortable Without harming others and intruding into their personal space then its definately not bad rather its Desirable- These values are not OLD or NEWLY fashioned but rather applicable in every era- Only their degrees and magnitude undergo a change according to changing circumstances- But the Basic principle more or less remain the same. In today's scenario its impracticle to expect return of Mahatmas. A simple, law-abiding, practical individual with Basic moral attributes will more than Suffice in today's day-n-age.

Problem with Archana is that she had been mahaan More than required,- which resulted in no-good and she caused suffering and misery not only to herself but also to people around her. She did it bad but Purvi is doing it worse- I know you are her fan- BUT ITS MY OPNION! AND yes you have full right to ignore it, counter it, challenge it- But MY DEAR YOU MUST and SHOULD respect it, I too don't agree to your views but I DO RESPECT IT and don't dismiss it as a rant of a so-called basher or a hater which is generally the norm in this forum, Because without difference of opnion there could be no development of any individual, society and civilization as a whole.

My good lord...all your posts have been simply superb👏👏👏👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
Taking seriously and that too a EKTA serial, that idea in itself is no less thn a joke. I don't draw inferances how to behave in my normal life ' SPECIALLY on the basis of characters like Archana, Manav and Purvi. One can pick certain nuances here and there but blindly following a character fictional or real would mean killing your real self and I am not ready to do it -EVER.
Yes Purvi is not Archana Yet but she is fast catching up and seeing her speed she will surze ahead of Archana in couple of years not 20, afterall its new generation and she is on full throttle..
I am not aware whether you criticized her baby-swapping act or not but if you DID-Its Your Opinion and even if you DIDN'T-Then also its Your Opinion! Who the hell AM I to judge. I will not talk about Ovi's fans because I am not one of them, I am only a viewer of the show who only percieves what is shown and its Entirely SUBJECTIVE. Yes Ovi marrying Arjun by virtue of a deal was absolute Stupidity. But one has to look whether Ovi forced Arjun- NO, It was Purvi! Hold on before jumping the gun hear me out. Yes Ovi blackmailed Purvi regarding Archana, but did Ovi had the Legal right to make such a proposition to Purvi?- answer is NO. It was Arman's divorce case and Ovi for that matter all of their kids being ADULTS were non-parties to that suit, they had absolute no Locus-Standii. so how can Ovi promises give Archana something which she herself didn't possess, Purvi was intially shown as jack of all trades commit such basic mistake, it was simple common-sense. BUT that's doesnot absolve Ovi from her mistake and what she did what was absolute wrong. SHE degraded herself by stooping such a level for a guy- She was rich, beautiful, successful and would get hundreds of good men all she needed was someone instill some confidence in her which she lost courtsey Arjun's rejection- I call it Betrayl. To be honest I was never a ARVI supporter nor I am now, but have to admit that they also went through a lot. But Ovi did redeemed herself, she divorced Arjun inspite of opposite advices including that of Arjun and made way for ARVI re-union and now when Arvi had re-united WHY STILL THIS HATE? IF Archana, Manav, Savita, Purvi can all be forgiven why not Ovi. And if one stll hates OVI- I still respect It- AFTERALL ITS ONE'S OPINION.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: pallavi25

The burglar analogy went right over the head...😆 Its useless!


Generosity is bad, selfishness is good! But Hindi serial heroines dont follow modern day values. 😛
Old fashioned values are their trademark...sacrifice, mahaanta and impractical gestures!

Archana has also acted Mahaan all her life and committed several "crimes" but her worst crime and Manav's too, has been towards their only son! Losing him again and again! Unforgivable!


Suppose one persons is hard core drug addicted...can't live without drug..so u r feeling pity for them nd due to generous nature u give them enough money to buy it or drug itself..as he was seriously needed it... Than wat u think u have used ur generous nature in good way???????? ...becoz atlast wo person to barbadi ki Taraf jaa raha tha or Apne generous ban k uski barbadi ko badhava diya...in same way Ovi had lost her baby..May be it was tough for her to believe...can't live without her baby...nd dats why By her generous nature purvi donate her baby...which was not permanent solution...so again she had used her generous nature in proper way????? Already barbad ovi ko or barbad kar diya. Generous nature is always good but it is up to u that how u r going to apply ur this nature.
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Posted: 12 years ago
His own flesh and blood. Yet he never mentions him whatsoever. But when he found out who pari's real mother was, suddenly he was interested in her ten fold, picking her up, kissing her. If I was pari I would have taken my tiny fist and punched him in the nose.

Arjun always makes bigger mistakes than either Ovi OR Purvi yet it seems the female always gets the stick.

Arjun was engaged to Ovi, gave her false hope, showed her affection.
Arjun failed to notify Ovi of his new relationship status.
Arjun failed to notify Purvi of his engagement.
Arjun initiated the cabin romance and slept with Purvi
Arjun left Purvi
Arjun married Ovi
Arjun slept with Ovi even after claiming they were just best friends.
Arjun didn't mourned for his flesh and blood dead child.
Arjun was uninterested in pari as his own daughter until he discovered the real parentage.
Arjun slept with Ovi again knowing the next day was their last as husband and wife.

Why do Purvi and Ovi always get bashed? Their biggest crime was loving this type of man.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Let us not take Ekta's shows so seriously!

She follows certain formulas, self-sacrificing heroine, stud hero, selfish siblings, separations, misunderstandings, leaps, return from the dead, plastic surgery, etc etc.
If we start looking for logic and practicality in TV fictional soaps, it would surely be a hopeless quest! 😆

Purvi cannot be worse than Archana yet! Archu has 20 yrs behind her, of bad decisions, bad choices and forced bhalayi on people like Vaishali, her sister! If we add up Archu's mistakes, they will surpass Purvi's by a mile! Purvi needs 20 more yrs to catch up! 😆

I had strongly berated Purvi for donating her baby to Ovi when those episodes were aired!
I criticized her harshly right on this forum. Ive made fun of her as well. Im not blind to her faults as Ovi fans are to hers. Always trying to cover her crimes by saying shes real and practical. 😆
Oh Yes, practical means marrying a guy who loves someone else! Expecting him to forget all abt his real love! Trying to kill her baby which would be the only link she would have with him!
It was her foolish, impractical ZIDD which only led to misery and divorce! Such a practical girl, isnt she?😉


Practical term has so many aspects..like no nose poking, never done unrealistic things etc... For a second think as we are nt anyone's bashers... Like ovi WAS too much selfish nd purvi IS too much generous ... As NOW ovi is nowhere in picture.nt by selfish behave but by mind with her own business... No drinking..no shouting... Dats why everyone is saying that NOW she is mature nd has learnt from her mistakes... Now come to the purvi... For a moment lets forget dat baby swapping part... After that also due to her extreme emotional part she made again mistake due which Arjun was in jail(point is nt dat it's her personal matter or nt) ...TILL NOW she has nt learnt from her past mistakes...though she is generous..same time emotional fool too...which is harming her sasural family too..but she has NOT learnt from her past mistakes nd again doing same mistakes.

Ovi WAS selfish and HAD done mistakes in PAST... Purvi IS generous/emotional fool(for me) nd DOING mistakes TILL NOW ...

Practical person have one more aspect is they never repeat their mistakes.

Ovi WAS selfish nd HAD Done mistakes... Purvi IS generous/emotional fool(for me) nd IS doing mistakes...that's the main difference for NOW
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012



Bold point completely not true. This slap only reserve by Purvi & Soham. Because they are punching bag of them. As much wrong never get this type treatment maha drama queen, spoil brat ovi. After all she is queen of Deshmukh family



after all ovi has done for arjun and purvi some peoople still feel ovi a spoilt brat.
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Posted: 12 years ago
agreed that ovi has matured and grew up but what does it mean when you say "after all ovi did for arvi"?

In my opinion, ovi rectified her mistake. She saw arjun had never or ever will love her. She realized she was betrayed and then forced her way into a realtion with arjun. She realized her mistakes after she remained unhappy and decided to make the change to make herself better whcih was to leave arjun.

She didnt do it for arvi. She did it because she matured and realizrd she had to remove herself from the situation in order for herself to feel better and be happy. She realized she was never meant to be there. She didnt scrafice for arvi by leaving arjun. And that evident when she was disgusted by purvi even calling her and wouldnt even speak to arjun.

She did it for herself and no, i dont call it selfish but i would def not call it "for arvi" either.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: soniiyaa

agreed that ovi has matured and grew up but what does it mean when you say "after all ovi did for arvi"?

In my opinion, ovi rectified her mistake. She saw arjun had never or ever will love her. She realized she was betrayed and then forced her way into a realtion with arjun. She realized her mistakes after she remained unhappy and decided to make the change to make herself better whcih was to leave arjun.

She didnt do it for arvi. She did it because she matured and realizrd she had to remove herself from the situation in order for herself to feel better and be happy. She realized she was never meant to be there. She didnt scrafice for arvi by leaving arjun. And that evident when she was disgusted by purvi even calling her and wouldnt even speak to arjun.

She did it for herself and no, i dont call it selfish but i would def not call it "for arvi" either.





ya this is true when pari truth come out ovi decide to leave arjun bcz of teo reason first is she got to know she betrayed and remember the word of arjun " ek adami srif apni maa aur apni bache ki maa se pyaar karti hei" and arjun wants to be with pari when she was thinking for her and arjun relationship she saw purvi also with arjun...and this time she got lesson arjun never be her so she left arjun...i do not call this selfish but it is maturitity bcz this time she did not believe what arjun told her to stay with him but believe what her heart say...every time she believes arjun word that arjun wants to forget purvi and wants to stay with ovi but reality was different...



if ovi is pregnant than must be i called this is only for arjun...

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