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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pwc123

I wish in my next life I am not born as an Indian. I don't mind being born as a mosquito. In general, I have concluded that Indians do not like other people's success and prosperity. Having lived in the west, I have seen that there isn't that kind of animosity, hatred, lies and deceit that is there in India. That is the reason all this is happening:

1. From Day One, Purvi has been hated by most people, especially all women. What's the reason. She is good-looking, simple, even though born an orphan was heralded into a good family with decent values. And then, a nice guy fell in love for her. She out of no selfish motives sacrificed her love. Basically these are all good virtues, good luck, etc. the kinds of things most Indian women can't stand, because many of them are born selfish, born jealous, born greedy, etc.
2. Still all kinds of theories have been floated, none more than the fact that she wants to be "Mahaan". Are you freaking kidding me? Which Indian woman in this forum, let alone in the world will just happily give up her boyfriend, husband, wealth, pleasures, etc. just to be called "Mahaan"? Will being called "Mahaan" satisfy her hunger, her desires, her pride, etc? And btw she wasn't called Mahaan by anyone in the Deshmukh family or the Karanjikar family. So we know how much water that theory holds. If one woman in this forum gives up all that they possess just to be called "Mahaan", I am ready to jump into the Atlantic Ocean tomorrow.
3. Ovi hates Purvi. Even now, deep down she hates Purvi. Of course, without a doubt she will reveal the truth. Cmon, she has been born to screw Purvis' life. Because Purvi will time and again hand over her life to Ovi on a platter. As soon as she saw Onir's photo almbum, the first thought that came to her mind was Purvi lied. Even now when she knew about Onir's sacrifice, her thought is how to unite Purvi with Onir. She has never cared for Purvi one day in her life. Why would she suddenly try to be a do-gooder? Because therein lies the ulterior motive. Even if I can't get Arjun, why should Purvi get him. Deep down Ovi has these discreet thoughts because that's what she truly is. If she stops Purvi's wedding to Arjun one day before that would have happened, that would be the second time. Its some record to be proud of.
4. There are lots of people saying Ovi should tell Purvi and Arjun the truth about Onir. Well, here's the question. Why should Ovi do that? Has she suddenly become Mother Theresa? Till yesterday this girl was spitting on Arjun, drinking when she was pregnant, blaming him even when married to him. I am not sure that Arjun had done some heinous crime. Why suddenly come to India all the way and suddenly care about Onir and his medical license and his life? Does this whole thing make any sense? So Ovi just had a transformation, overnight?
Lets assume Ovi truly cares for Onir, for one second. Even so, does she have a right to interfere in someone's life like that. She is nobody to Arjun, and frankly I am shocked that Arjun is even talking to her. Why should she suddenly care about Purvi to interfere in Purvi's life either? I mean, she has HATED Purvi as much as hate wouldn't hate her. It is Purvi's and Arjun's life and if Ovi truly cares, she wouldn't say a word. Onir just told her about his sacrifice, so she just hears all that and just decides to go and reveal and in the process screw Onir's sacrifice and his discreetness also? Now that's truly caring and compassionate behavior for you there. Also Onir specifically told her that Purvi wouldn't leave him normally unless he made her hate her.
Bottomline, most people don't want anything nice to happen to others because of their inborn fears, anguish, jealousy, etc. And those feelings are flowing here in their comments that Ovi should reveal everything. Because deep down they do not want everything to be hunky dory, because that wouldn't go well with them now, would it?


It was very sad to see a post like this written on the Independence day of India. I am and will always be proud to be an Indian. To say that I disagree with most of ur comments would be an understatement.

1. Purvi did give up her love for selfish reasons. Her selfish reason was that she desperately wanted manav and archana to come together. Did she care about arjuns feelings? No. Doesnt that make her selfish only caring about her own wishes and desires and leaving arjun at the last moment after even having slept with him? YES!

2.I agree she didnt do it with the intention of being mahaan. But again her reasons were never completely selfless. Her act of getting ovi and arjun married tho had many consequences and she hurt a lot of people by doing so but she didnt care.

3: I dont believe that ovi is out to get arjun when she clearly divorced him. If she wanted she could have chosen to not divorce him and kept him stuck in this relationship for life. However, she chose not to do so. This shows her maturity as a character. Please dont say anything about her trying to get arjun back without proof because as of right now anybody can tell she is not trying to get arjun back for herself.

4.If ovi has no business butting into arjun and purvis life then purvi had absolutely no business ever butting into punnis life. However, if purvi can do so then so can ovi. I agree ovi has made any mistakes but someone who tries to rectify them should never be questioned only supported, and here you are questioning and accusing ovi. Then i can also easily point out all of purvis faults many of which include: emotionally blackmailing arjun into marrying a woman he did not love, swapping babies, and there are many more.

In the end all I would like to say is, Purvi has the right to know the truth. Whoever stands besides the truth which in this case is Ovi will always be right for me and have my support. Many few people have the guts to say the truth and even fewer the guts to accept the truth. I am praying Ovi will tell the truth and Purvi accept it. After that its Purvis choice who she decides to spend the rest of her life with.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Everyone is missing the legal point in this debate. Of course Onir's truth needed to come out in order for Purvi to marry Arjun legally!
And really, I dont think she will run back to Onir! She doesnt love him. she loves Arjun. Love and gratitude shd not be mixed up! Purvi never mixed them up and she wont this time! She was always grateful and affectionate to Onir but she made it clear she didnt love him. That is precisely why Onir planned to reunite her with her true love!
But regarding Ovi's intentions, I am having doubts today. Is she really trying to help Purvi or to break her marriage again? The way she was looking at Arvi dancing with a scowl didnt look very promising.

And the alertness with which she swiped that photo from the album, enlarged it, saw Arvi in the background and then came to sangeet venue to ask Purvi why she LIED abt not knowing of Onir Shalini wedding...all this looks very fishy to me! Now if she runs to Arjun to tell him abt Onir's lies, then it will appear that shes trying to stop Arvi wedding again!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pwc123

I wish in my next life I am not born as an Indian. I don't mind being born as a mosquito. In general, I have concluded that Indians do not like other people's success and prosperity. Having lived in the west, I have seen that there isn't that kind of animosity, hatred, lies and deceit that is there in India. That is the reason all this is happening:

1. From Day One, Purvi has been hated by most people, especially all women. What's the reason. She is good-looking, simple, even though born an orphan was heralded into a good family with decent values. And then, a nice guy fell in love for her. She out of no selfish motives sacrificed her love. Basically these are all good virtues, good luck, etc. the kinds of things most Indian women can't stand, because many of them are born selfish, born jealous, born greedy, etc.
2. Still all kinds of theories have been floated, none more than the fact that she wants to be "Mahaan". Are you freaking kidding me? Which Indian woman in this forum, let alone in the world will just happily give up her boyfriend, husband, wealth, pleasures, etc. just to be called "Mahaan"? Will being called "Mahaan" satisfy her hunger, her desires, her pride, etc? And btw she wasn't called Mahaan by anyone in the Deshmukh family or the Karanjikar family. So we know how much water that theory holds. If one woman in this forum gives up all that they possess just to be called "Mahaan", I am ready to jump into the Atlantic Ocean tomorrow.
3. Ovi hates Purvi. Even now, deep down she hates Purvi. Of course, without a doubt she will reveal the truth. Cmon, she has been born to screw Purvis' life. Because Purvi will time and again hand over her life to Ovi on a platter. As soon as she saw Onir's photo almbum, the first thought that came to her mind was Purvi lied. Even now when she knew about Onir's sacrifice, her thought is how to unite Purvi with Onir. She has never cared for Purvi one day in her life. Why would she suddenly try to be a do-gooder? Because therein lies the ulterior motive. Even if I can't get Arjun, why should Purvi get him. Deep down Ovi has these discreet thoughts because that's what she truly is. If she stops Purvi's wedding to Arjun one day before that would have happened, that would be the second time. Its some record to be proud of.
4. There are lots of people saying Ovi should tell Purvi and Arjun the truth about Onir. Well, here's the question. Why should Ovi do that? Has she suddenly become Mother Theresa? Till yesterday this girl was spitting on Arjun, drinking when she was pregnant, blaming him even when married to him. I am not sure that Arjun had done some heinous crime. Why suddenly come to India all the way and suddenly care about Onir and his medical license and his life? Does this whole thing make any sense? So Ovi just had a transformation, overnight?
Lets assume Ovi truly cares for Onir, for one second. Even so, does she have a right to interfere in someone's life like that. She is nobody to Arjun, and frankly I am shocked that Arjun is even talking to her. Why should she suddenly care about Purvi to interfere in Purvi's life either? I mean, she has HATED Purvi as much as hate wouldn't hate her. It is Purvi's and Arjun's life and if Ovi truly cares, she wouldn't say a word. Onir just told her about his sacrifice, so she just hears all that and just decides to go and reveal and in the process screw Onir's sacrifice and his discreetness also? Now that's truly caring and compassionate behavior for you there. Also Onir specifically told her that Purvi wouldn't leave him normally unless he made her hate her.
Bottomline, most people don't want anything nice to happen to others because of their inborn fears, anguish, jealousy, etc. And those feelings are flowing here in their comments that Ovi should reveal everything. Because deep down they do not want everything to be hunky dory, because that wouldn't go well with them now, would it?


LOL So you're basically stereotyping and generalizing everyone who doesn't drink the Purvi kool-aid and instantly doesn't worship Purvi.

Sorry to break it to you. The world and people are not black and white. We all have different ways we view characters. Some of us look past the physical chemistry (not generalizing).

Before sarcastically placing the title of "Mother Teresa" on Ovi, please place it on Purvi because she is MILES ahead of Ovi in the field of snooping, lying, hiding the truth, and POKING HER NOSE in other people's business (e.g Ovi, Arjun, PUNNI, SOHAM, SACHIN, Archana, Manav). There is no situation where this girl doesn't poke her nose in. She always has some warped up advice or brilliant plans that she emotionally blackmails people to follow (e.g. insisting Onir swap babies).

Having a difference of opinion does not mean that we cannot handle Purvi's "success and prosperity". Everyone doesn't agree on everything! It's as simple as that.

Also I hope you know that not all of us from India here and still could dislike Purvi. We are from all over the world.
Edited by ChemistryMajor - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv4games

trying to explain something that makes real sense to arvi fans is impossible...they dont see anything beyond their arvi...


ovi is being hated for finding out the truth about onir and people are saying that it is not any of her business but when purvi was trying to find out the truth about punni and her bf then purvi was right and justified even though it was none of her business if punni wanted a sugar daddy...

onir is called stupid and being hated for doing this drama but arvi fans dont see that it was all done to unite arvi...

onir married purvi out of pure love and was serious about the marriage so did purvi...but still he put his whole reputation in line for arvi...yet he is not appreciated one bit...but ovi was wrong for being angry with purvi when she swapped the babies because that was for ovi's balai...

this is the height of hypocrisy...

purvi needs to know the truth...onir did alot for her...at this point she should still end up marrying arjun but she has to know the truth and thank onir before she marries arjun...


i dont get one thing what is the need to always point fingers at arvi fans? u can still state your opinion without dragging arvi fans... whatever we do thats our wish u have nothing to do with it... ok we supported purvi when she interfered but there were many posts bahing purvi now even ovi is being supportd for interferng then what is that. according to the logic of this forum ovi also should be bashed right?
if we hate onir or love onir its up to us. we all have different opinion u may like him in the same way we may hate him.. respect others opinions

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Everyone is missing the legal point in this debate. Of course Onir's truth needed to come out in order for Purvi to marry Arjun legally!

And really, I dont think she will run back to Onir! She doesnt love him. she loves Arjun. Love and gratitude shd not be mixed up! Purvi never mixed them up and she wont this time! She was always grateful and affectionate to Onir but she made it clear she didnt love him. That is precisely why Onir planned to reunite her with her true love!
But regarding Ovi's intentions, I am having doubts today. Is she really trying to help Purvi or to break her marriage again? The way she was looking at Arvi dancing with a scowl didnt look very promising.

And the alertness with which she swiped that photo from the album, enlarged it, saw Arvi in the background and then came to sangeet venue to ask Purvi why she LIED abt not knowing of Onir Shalini wedding...all this looks very fishy to me! Now if she runs to Arjun to tell him abt Onir's lies, then it will appear that shes trying to stop Arvi wedding again!


Okay but why not give her some benefit of doubt? She did the first step in putting ArVi together and that was to divorce Arjun and tell him to marry Purvi! Why are you ignoring that?! Instead of acknowledging the good she did do, you're contemplating the bad she might do. Why not give her credit for what she did rather than think of hypothetical scenarios that haven't even happened? I am not telling you what to do but rather just trying to explain what I think.

See here is where we both saw that scene differently. You saw that look on Ovi as being jealous of ArVi's happiness. I saw it as being conflicted. Like she wasn't sure if she wants to bring this topic up with Purvi and possibly ruin their marriage.
Edited by ChemistryMajor - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amit.Ghangas

I agree with u purvi has to right to know the truth then she decides between her husband and her lover.


exactly, let her know onir's truth and even then if she choses arjun, its fine... but purvi has the right to know the truth..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pwc123

I wish in my next life I am not born as an Indian. I don't mind being born as a mosquito. In general, I have concluded that Indians do not like other people's success and prosperity. Having lived in the west, I have seen that there isn't that kind of animosity, hatred, lies and deceit that is there in India. That is the reason all this is happening:

1. From Day One, Purvi has been hated by most people, especially all women. What's the reason. She is good-looking, simple, even though born an orphan was heralded into a good family with decent values. And then, a nice guy fell in love for her. She out of no selfish motives sacrificed her love. Basically these are all good virtues, good luck, etc. the kinds of things most Indian women can't stand, because many of them are born selfish, born jealous, born greedy, etc.
2. Still all kinds of theories have been floated, none more than the fact that she wants to be "Mahaan". Are you freaking kidding me? Which Indian woman in this forum, let alone in the world will just happily give up her boyfriend, husband, wealth, pleasures, etc. just to be called "Mahaan"? Will being called "Mahaan" satisfy her hunger, her desires, her pride, etc? And btw she wasn't called Mahaan by anyone in the Deshmukh family or the Karanjikar family. So we know how much water that theory holds. If one woman in this forum gives up all that they possess just to be called "Mahaan", I am ready to jump into the Atlantic Ocean tomorrow.
3. Ovi hates Purvi. Even now, deep down she hates Purvi. Of course, without a doubt she will reveal the truth. Cmon, she has been born to screw Purvis' life. Because Purvi will time and again hand over her life to Ovi on a platter. As soon as she saw Onir's photo almbum, the first thought that came to her mind was Purvi lied. Even now when she knew about Onir's sacrifice, her thought is how to unite Purvi with Onir. She has never cared for Purvi one day in her life. Why would she suddenly try to be a do-gooder? Because therein lies the ulterior motive. Even if I can't get Arjun, why should Purvi get him. Deep down Ovi has these discreet thoughts because that's what she truly is. If she stops Purvi's wedding to Arjun one day before that would have happened, that would be the second time. Its some record to be proud of.
4. There are lots of people saying Ovi should tell Purvi and Arjun the truth about Onir. Well, here's the question. Why should Ovi do that? Has she suddenly become Mother Theresa? Till yesterday this girl was spitting on Arjun, drinking when she was pregnant, blaming him even when married to him. I am not sure that Arjun had done some heinous crime. Why suddenly come to India all the way and suddenly care about Onir and his medical license and his life? Does this whole thing make any sense? So Ovi just had a transformation, overnight?
Lets assume Ovi truly cares for Onir, for one second. Even so, does she have a right to interfere in someone's life like that. She is nobody to Arjun, and frankly I am shocked that Arjun is even talking to her. Why should she suddenly care about Purvi to interfere in Purvi's life either? I mean, she has HATED Purvi as much as hate wouldn't hate her. It is Purvi's and Arjun's life and if Ovi truly cares, she wouldn't say a word. Onir just told her about his sacrifice, so she just hears all that and just decides to go and reveal and in the process screw Onir's sacrifice and his discreetness also? Now that's truly caring and compassionate behavior for you there. Also Onir specifically told her that Purvi wouldn't leave him normally unless he made her hate her.
Bottomline, most people don't want anything nice to happen to others because of their inborn fears, anguish, jealousy, etc. And those feelings are flowing here in their comments that Ovi should reveal everything. Because deep down they do not want everything to be hunky dory, because that wouldn't go well with them now, would it?

This post made me laugh! So much so that I have to write someting.
So all those who do not indulge in Purvi bhajan are selfish, insecure ,jealous and Purvi fans are the ideal people.! Good.
Yes, all those people who feel good about using all kind of adjectives about Onir, Ovi and earlier Archana. And making innumerable posts about them wishing for their death etc are really really ideal people. But ideal eople seem to have short term-memories too.
Now when even one post appears talking against their favourites, then it is called bashing , the writer is mass-ridiculed by these ideal persons, asked to indulge in positive things by these "ideal" people en-masse.
So let me give one free advice to this ideal person. At least have the guts to use your correct id instead of hiding behind a new one. It sends a wrong messsge about "ideal" people.
And too bad you are ashamd of being an indian in this birth. In the next birth maye you can choose your ethnicity properly?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChemistryMajor


Okay but why not give her some benefit of doubt? She did the first step in putting ArVi together and that was to divorce Arjun and tell him to marry Purvi! Why are you ignoring that?! Instead of acknowledging the good she did do, you're contemplating the bad she might do. Why not give her credit for what she did rather than think of hypothetical scenarios that haven't even happened? I am not telling you what to do but rather just trying to explain what I think.

See here is where we both saw that scene differently. You saw that look on Ovi as being jealous of ArVi's happiness. I saw it as being conflicted. Like she wasn't sure if she wants to bring this topic up with Purvi and possibly ruin their marriage.


I was giving her the benefit of doubt till today, but I dont get it why Ovi is running around investigating the photo and why shes thinking Purvi lied abt not knowing abt Onir's 1st marriage.
And in my opinion, Ovi did look unhappy and bitter while Arvi were dancing. Perhaps thats her habitual expression when she looks at them but it did look like she was jealous.
Of course the CVs are using Ovi as a catalyst for revealing Onir's truth, but her motives do look somewhat suspicious given her history of destroying Arjun Purvi's happiness!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25


I was giving her the benefit of doubt till today, but I dont get it why Ovi is running around investigating the photo and why shes thinking Purvi lied abt not knowing abt Onir's 1st marriage.
And in my opinion, Ovi did look unhappy and bitter while Arvi were dancing. Perhaps thats her habitual expression when she looks at them but it did look like she was jealous.
Of course the CVs are using Ovi as a catalyst for revealing Onir's truth, but her motives do look somewhat suspicious given her history of destroying Arjun Purvi's happiness!


But what's so bad about the truth coming out? Don't you have enough faith in Arjun and Purvi's love to survive this? If Purvi chooses Arjun even after knowing Onir's truth, isn't that even better? That she chose is because she LOVES him and not because she was under the misconception that her previous husband was a bigamist.

I just don't see the downside of truth coming out. Why keep Purvi in the dark? If she hears the whole truth, she will make a very truthful decision about her life.

And even if she chooses to go back to Onir, I reeeallly don't think Onir will accept her back because of all that he has done to get Arjun/Purvi together.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChemistryMajor


But what's so bad about the truth coming out? Don't you have enough faith in Arjun and Purvi's love to survive this? If Purvi chooses Arjun even after knowing Onir's truth, isn't that even better? That she chose is because she LOVES him and not because she was under the misconception that her previous husband was a bigamist.

I just don't see the downside of truth coming out. Why keep Purvi in the dark? If she hears the whole truth, she will make a very truthful decision about her life.

And even if she chooses to go back to Onir, I reeeallly don't think Onir will accept her back because of all that he has done to get Arjun/Purvi together.


Oh I have FULL FAITH in Arjun Purvi wedding happening! And Purvi wont run to Onir, maybe run to thank him and cry buckets in regrets but not to be reunited with him! 😆
And as I said, it was absolutely imperative for Onir's truth to come out, otherwise Arvi wedding would be invalid .

But what Im concerned abt is Ovi's intention for doing all this. Why and how did she set the ball rolling? Why did she of all people notice Arvi in the background in that fake wedding picture? Was she looking for it? Was she already suspicious that Onir could not have betrayed Purvi? Then why did she say Purvi was lying?

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