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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Yaar paise wala chahiye tha to 70 ka nahi par 60s wala mil jaata..
Arjun nahi to uska baap hi sahi...DK is willing, able and ready to mingle and than some 😉😆 But but would I wish that on OVI to have Purvi the MIL and Arjun The Step son having eye locks 😳😆 Sure would happen..

You guys are kind, I was thinking a a 70 Yr old Toothless Homeless man on the street. After she is done with him, he would live in the slums. 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Faltu detective shouldn't find ANYTHING till the divorce


he should find AFTER the divorce

And just when she is agreeing to marry Arjun Ovi should return , pregnant .

She should lose both men .😃


Yes Kools, Ekta should know she has nothing to lose, because the show will soon end.
That is why I really wish for Purvi to be alone.😃

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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Ovi and Onir deserve to be loved - but they can only find that love if they accept the situation and move on from it.

Why should they move on when the concept of 'moving on ' is unacceptable to Arjun Purvi

they act as if moving on is betraying 'true love'

so why others should accept and move on😕




Because they deserve happiness!! They are aware that these two love each other - why go after something that is not 'yours'.

Why knowingly seek a life of unhappiness, doubt, anger, jealousy, feeling of being second best? Why? Are they not worth more than that??
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: altuphalu


That is the point exactly why love cannot be forced; not by society (morally Ovi-Arjun are married and Purvi-Onir are married so they have to stay married for the rest of their lives); not by force (just because Ovi loved Arjun from the time she understood love she believes she has 'right' over him - he cannot love anyone else) nor by pity (just because Onir was kind to Purvi, they should stay married).

And ALL arguments on the forum supporting Ovi and Onir have been based on the above reasons which can only bring them pain. And I could never understand or agree to that logic.

Ovi and Onir deserve to be loved - but they can only find that love if they accept the situation and move on from it.

in my view...
Purvi knows that Arjun loves her more than anything and he gives her the same place what he gives to her mom...but Purvi chose to accept the deal and she says
1. because she wants Archu to be happy
2. because she wants Ovi to be happy
but the truth is will Archu be happy by seeing her daughter's unsuccessful wedding, will Ovi be happy to have loveless wedding...
the way they have showed Purvi's character she should understand this and if she really wanted everyone's happiness she should not accept the deal...yes she would be bad in Ovi's view for some time but eventually when ArMan reunites then Ovi would have got that mom's love which she missed from years...
yes, Ovi and Onir deserves to be loved, and I don't have any problem with ArVi reunion...but the way
1. Ovi is blamed for deal, Purvi should be blamed more than that for accepting it without any base on that deal because Purvi knew misunderstandings between ArMan will be gone only when truth is out and blame is taken by Savita not by Ovi getting married to Arjun, and Purvi knew Archu didnot accept the deal not because she wants Purvi's happiness it is because Archu knows that misunderstandings between ArMan will not go and Ovi will suffer from the deal as Arjun doesn't love her
2. Soham supported Purvi and hit Onir for the mess, Soham should hit Onir-Purvi-arjun for the mess they did with Ovi
3. Arjun punched Onir for betraying Purvi, wish Ovi had a lover who would punch Arjun for consummating his wedding with Ovi to prove he did sacha pyaar with Purvi
4. Archu slapped Onir, she should slap Arjun for betraying Ovi instead of saying its all Ovi's fault, if its Ovi's fault then its Purvi's fault to get married to some anjaan without informing family
5. Manav supported Purvi, he should stay with Ovi, as he knew his daughter is scattered because of step-daughter, he told Purvi's trauma is bigger than Ovi's trauma...i wish noone has bio-dad like Manav
yes, Ovi and Onir deserve love, but they should not do these trials, the Amar Premis should reunite by divorcing them instead they are still hiding their kaands and they want to portray Onir/Ovi as culprits...
If ArVi truely love each other, they should stop making havocs in others life, they should just get reunite on the name of Pari...atleast for Pari, Purvi should control her ego and should not force Ovi and Onir to be in this loveless marriages...
Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

May be on the other side of the token Arjun and Purvi should realize too that their 3 month so called love was just a mere infatuation and it really was not love...It was great in past..What they have with their respective spouse could be better...Both Ovi and Onir have been better partners than Arjun and Purvi...

Sometimes buliding something from loveless marriage by both but super duper loved by 1 is better than 3 months infatuation where the euphoria wears off in short time and reality hits that they really did not love each other as they thought...marriage is much more serious and try making it work..

DIsclaimer: I do not want Ovi to go back to Arjun and I want Onir to rid off purvi...Best thing possible..They deserve much more and better than these 2 timing cheaters and betrayers..


It cannot be infatuation if these two still look out for each other.

Building something from loveless marriage only works if both husband and wife are ready to let go of the past and look into the future. Here it is not the case. Arjun and Purvi still long for each other.

Besides they have a child who deserves both sets of parents, especially they still love each other
Edited by altuphalu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: altuphalu


It cannot be infatuation if these two still look out for each other.

Building something from loveless marriage only works if both husband and wife are ready to let go of the past and look into the future. Here it is not the case. Arjun and Purvi still long for each other.

Besides they have a child who deserves both sets of parents, especially they still love each other

so you say Arjun Purvi truely love each other...then they don't give value to the Indian wedding system by moving-on with the spouse...
if Arjun cannot move they why he married Ovi and then he knows he cannot move-on still loves Purvi then why should consummate his marriage...
if Purvi still loves Arjun then why should she has to marry Onir...is it just to save her diamond studded ass from the soceity...
if Arjun-Purvi love each other, then Arjun should divorce Ovi without doing drama, Purvi should divorce Onir instead of snatching eveything from him, she is literally drinking his blood...
yes at least for Pari sake ArVi should stop this blaming game and should get reunited...
Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: dumppurvi

You guys are kind, I was thinking a a 70 Yr old Toothless Homeless man on the street. After she is done with him, he would live in the slums. 😆


You guys sound so filled with hate! Why? I do not get it. It is only a character!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: m_masti



so you say Arjun Purvi truely love each other...then they don't give value to the Indian wedding system by moving-on with the spouse...
if Arjun cannot move they why he married Ovi and then he knows he cannot move-on still loves Purvi then why should consummate his marriage...
if Purvi still loves Arjun then why should she has to marry Onir...is it just to save her diamond studded ass from the soceity...
if Arjun-Purvi love each other, then Arjun should divorce Ovi without doing drama, Purvi should divorce Onir instead of snatching eveything from him, she is literally drinking his blood...
yes at least for Pari sake ArVi should stop this blaming game and should get reunited...


so many ifs and whys. So you want Ovi and Onir to be lost in their whys. They should live with a life filled with hatred, jealousy, one-sided love all their lives!!.

That is no solution!!

They should not wait for Arjun or Purvi to take the step for them - they should move away from unhappiness themselves because they deserve better!!
Edited by altuphalu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: altuphalu


You guys sound so filled with hate! Why? I do not get it. It is only a character!

its not hate...just enjoying the situation...and making fun instead of hating the fictional character...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: altuphalu


so many ifs and whys. So you want Ovi and Onir to be lost in their whys. They should live with a life filled with hatred, jealousy, one-sided love all their lives!!.

That is no solution!!

They should not wait for Arjun or Purvi to take the step for them - they should move away from unhappiness themselves because they deserve better!!

I am only responsible for what I Say not for what you understand

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