Originally posted by: altuphalu
That is the point exactly why love cannot be forced; not by society (morally Ovi-Arjun are married and Purvi-Onir are married so they have to stay married for the rest of their lives); not by force (just because Ovi loved Arjun from the time she understood love she believes she has 'right' over him - he cannot love anyone else) nor by pity (just because Onir was kind to Purvi, they should stay married).
And ALL arguments on the forum supporting Ovi and Onir have been based on the above reasons which can only bring them pain. And I could never understand or agree to that logic.
Ovi and Onir deserve to be loved - but they can only find that love if they accept the situation and move on from it.
in my view...
Purvi knows that Arjun loves her more than anything and he gives her the same place what he gives to her mom...but Purvi chose to accept the deal and she says
1. because she wants Archu to be happy
2. because she wants Ovi to be happy
but the truth is will Archu be happy by seeing her daughter's unsuccessful wedding, will Ovi be happy to have loveless wedding...
the way they have showed Purvi's character she should understand this and if she really wanted everyone's happiness she should not accept the deal...yes she would be bad in Ovi's view for some time but eventually when ArMan reunites then Ovi would have got that mom's love which she missed from years...
yes, Ovi and Onir deserves to be loved, and I don't have any problem with ArVi reunion...but the way
1. Ovi is blamed for deal, Purvi should be blamed more than that for accepting it without any base on that deal because Purvi knew misunderstandings between ArMan will be gone only when truth is out and blame is taken by Savita not by Ovi getting married to Arjun, and Purvi knew Archu didnot accept the deal not because she wants Purvi's happiness it is because Archu knows that misunderstandings between ArMan will not go and Ovi will suffer from the deal as Arjun doesn't love her
2. Soham supported Purvi and hit Onir for the mess, Soham should hit Onir-Purvi-arjun for the mess they did with Ovi
3. Arjun punched Onir for betraying Purvi, wish Ovi had a lover who would punch Arjun for consummating his wedding with Ovi to prove he did sacha pyaar with Purvi
4. Archu slapped Onir, she should slap Arjun for betraying Ovi instead of saying its all Ovi's fault, if its Ovi's fault then its Purvi's fault to get married to some anjaan without informing family
5. Manav supported Purvi, he should stay with Ovi, as he knew his daughter is scattered because of step-daughter, he told Purvi's trauma is bigger than Ovi's trauma...i wish noone has bio-dad like Manav
yes, Ovi and Onir deserve love, but they should not do these trials, the Amar Premis should reunite by divorcing them instead they are still hiding their kaands and they want to portray Onir/Ovi as culprits...
If ArVi truely love each other, they should stop making havocs in others life, they should just get reunite on the name of Pari...atleast for Pari, Purvi should control her ego and should not force Ovi and Onir to be in this loveless marriages...
Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago