Archana a saviour and champion for ArVi? - Page 3

Originally posted by: njersey

Onir SHOULD have told Purvi about his divorce. There is NO EXCUSE for that. Onir should be castrated and hanged in public for that.

Regarding Purvi's secret, of course, Onir knew that she was carrying someone else's child. WHERE DID THE CHILD COME FROM... AIR? Some idiot in this chain is claiming that Purvi kept a sceret. Who gives a sh.. whether her lover's name is Arjun or Karna? Onir had decided to marry her anyway. Purvi should shoot him for lying to her about his previous marriage.

For those losers who are against Purvi, just because a girl is pregnant and has nowhere to go, doesn't mean that she should be forced to marry divorcees. Its her choice who she marries, and she should have had the full disclosure from Onir about his marital status. He has not done any favors on her in my opinion, now that its revealed that he was a divorcee. May be he has done favors to himself, since he got a great looking girl considering he looks so ugly. And he also got a great daughter like Pari in the bargain.

But this whole secret about Shalini being Onir's ex-wife has been dramatized to such an extent. I always knew that when the truth came out, it would be a damp squib. Having been married and divorced is not some CIA secret the way Ekta has portrayed it. Ekta, no matter how much you portray yourself as advanced and modern, your third mentality and street side thinking will never change. You actually thinking divorce is a big thing and is a million dollar secret, shows your level of thinking and maturity.

I sure hope there are no women in this FORUM or this planet who feel that Purvi should be gratified in marrying Onir even if he is a divorcee and because he did her a favor, he is exonerated of informing her of his marital status before they wed. If so, they should also be shot, in REAL LIFE.

aren't you a bundle of sunshine 😆

...I won't even dignify your anger-filled post with a thought-out answer. There are many members I disagree with but they put their view in such a way, that I have nothing but respect for ther opinions and counter them with my own views and logic. Yours is not, you dictate. Calling an actor ugly? Asking for castration, for members to be shot? You my friend won the title of most violent post on this thread. Before you came along, no one was hostile. Look unto your own life and ask yourself where this hostility is coming from? Is it just about fictional characters are is there something else? No need to reply but do reflect upon your outburst.

edit: I've gone ahead and highlighted some of the gem of wisdom-filled words you've gifted us. Judge for yourself if anyone who's mentally stable would go ahead with such hostile reply over a fictional show.

I'm not defending that person but I will say one thing. That's not new. There's equally as disgusting posts against Purvi/Archu/OVi/Arjun filled with assumptions and bias.

Originally posted by: sk11

I'm not defending that person but I will say one thing. That's not new. There's equally as disgusting posts against Purvi/Archu/OVi/Arjun filled with assumptions and bias.

For example calling purvi a mistress. A mistress is a woman having sex with a married man. She didn't have sex or any physical relation with Arjun while he was or is married right now. And from what they shown, purvi and onir don't have a sexual relationship. Anyways they said shalani is his ex wife.

But these posts are rampant all across the forums about so many different people. No big deal. That's a forum! And it doesn't suprise me at all. 🤢

two wrongs doesn't make a right. The above hate-filled post went beyong criticizing a character but calling for violence on members. Shouldn't EVERYONE band together and chastize such members? In some parts of the world, her/his post would be chargable under the law under threat/cyber-bullying. Let's not lessen the impact of that poster by saying "Well other people do this and that.." For each circumstance there should be a separate reaction. We cannot difuse the negativity by saying others do this and that..there was no reason for that member to spoil the constructive discussion we were having.

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

two wrongs doesn't make a right. The above hate-filled post went beyong criticizing a character but calling for violence on members. Shouldn't EVERYONE band together and chastize such members? In some parts of the world, her/his post would be chargable under the law under threat/cyber-bullying. Let's not lessen the impact of that poster by saying "Well other people do this and that.." For each circumstance there should be a separate reaction. We cannot difuse the negativity by saying others do this and that..there was no reason for that member to spoil the constructive discussion we were having.

Originally posted by: sk11

I'm not defending that person but I will say one thing. That's not new. There's equally as disgusting posts against Purvi/Archu/OVi/Arjun filled with assumptions and bias.

For example calling purvi a mistress. A mistress is a woman having sex with a married man. She didn't have sex or any physical relation with Arjun while he was or is married right now. And from what they shown, purvi and onir don't have a sexual relationship. Anyways they said shalani is his ex wife.

But these posts are rampant all across the forums about so many different people. No big deal. That's a forum! And it doesn't suprise me at all. 🤢

I agree with you here.

I dont see anything really bad about this secret that Onir is hiding from purvi. It has to be more than ex-wife. This storyline has been dragged out with a big suspense and now only to reveal that shalini is onir ex wife. He could have told purvi this all the time, i dont see anything wrong or bad about it. Purvi was pregnant with someone else's child and she told him when push come to shove. So I dont see the logic unless there is more to what we saw. Maybe Onir is still married to shalini and faked his marriage to purvi or its that he married her just to get the child but things did not work out the way it should have but he still loves shalini instead of purvi. Lets wait and see

Originally posted by: m_masti

even if Onir has first wife it doesn't make Purvi as dhoodh ki dhuli...

the story is so fake-up...how can world famous OBGYN wedding is secret all the time...his close friends who come for Mishti ki chai doesn't know about Shalini...the home servant doesn't know about shalini...noone knows about shalini...

Purvi deserves it...she is the official mistress whoever the man is...

i wish Onir is not divorced with shalini so that Purvi is illegal wife...

i wish shalini loves Onir so much and she could prove it was all Purvi's fault for baby swapping, and i wish Purvi to go to jail/asylum and Onir to get back his license...yes it is for sabh ki bhalayi sake...

@bold, I wish for the same, so life would be easier for both purvi and arjun and pari.

I just really believe this secret is to due with purvis child. He's an obgyn and decided to marry a girl who was already pregnant. Something's definitely fishy! Maybe both babies are alive.

Originally posted by: sk11

You're absolutely right. Not disagreeing with you. What I'm saying is...it's no big suprise. Just ignore it friend. Even if you go after them, they will just make new IDs. And anyways mods are there for such posts.

Don't worry, be cool and carry on the discussion!

but sk11, it's irrelevant how others act in determining how wrong an individual post is. I too am not surprised, I'm just reacting as I should. If this member gets away without a word, then others will follow suite in equally strong replies. I don't want that to happen. While I did report, I thought it'd be a good idea to at least follow the post with a few words.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Archana believes marraiges r for life

she made her own sister go back to a bigamist husband instead of being a modern woman of the times and telling her to raise the kid as a single mom or remarry

she ignored the abuse her sister in law was facing in the marraige and looked the other way just so she could have a marraige

Onir talks of a first wife , he does not seem to be a bigamist and if he is a divorcee and kept something hidden from Purvi it really is no big deal as Purvi too kept many things of her past hidden from him

no point in saying he SHOULD have told her as there r many many things Purvi SHOULD have told him

she didn't

even now , she is gossipping about him behind his back with Arjun , asking Shalini if she knew Onir but NOT asking Onir directly as a wife if he knew Shalini

she LIES all the time . Period .

So liars should really not judge others if they lie but understand them .

There is NO respectability for her if she goes back to Arjun . He is calling his wife back and has not filed for divorce ...that makes her something very very disreputable .

Even if he files for divorce there will be a big scandal and the milan won't be blessed or happy ...fie on such love .

Arjun should adopt Pari and give her a legal status but Purvi if possible should stick with Onir or stay single ...but NOT go to Arjun and im saying this objectively as i do not want Ovi to go back to him either .

Some members calling her a mistress and someone saying the members should be shot for their opinions is way different . She is a conjured up fictional character , the members r real .

Koolsadhu1000, I feel two things determine Archana's decision

1) Money- Dharmesh had lots of money while Onir is broke. I really hope Archana doesn't let that factor in.
2) closeness with Purvi- Purvi is her laddli, she wouldn't want her to return to a divorcee but would happily send her younger sister to a bigamist abuser.